Anonymous A started this discussion 3 weeks ago#134,352
I've dated a number of women over the decades. Apart from the usual complaints men have about their partners and former partners, there's been two common things. A lot of them having poor memory. They just can't remember particularly well. The second is that they've done a lot of stealing from stores. You wouldn't think it, most of them seemed down to earth and didn't seem the type. Yet the stealing was common. One stole from me. What surprising similarities have you discovered about the women you have dated, if any?
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 1 minute later, 29 minutes after the original post[^][v]#1,430,648
> They just can't remember particularly well.
unless you made some completely minor, meaningless slipup... then they got an elephants memory and a groundwasps rage.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 3 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^][v]#1,430,649
My ex had a good job and an allowance from her dad at the age of 36 but would steal cosmetics all the time. She said she never got caught. It really made no sense to me because she could just buy everything she wanted. Some of it she never used or just gave away.
The memory thing was real too. She would repeat myths and I would show her it was debunked, and she would just repeat the same myth the next day like she couldn't recall the conversation.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 5 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,430,671
Whether she’s a bartender, florist, flight attendant, physicist, doctor, or engineer, conversation centers on her internal life and what a string of people in her life have/do/want.
> My ex had a good job and an allowance from her dad at the age of 36 but would steal cosmetics all the time. She said she never got caught. It really made no sense to me because she could just buy everything she wanted. Some of it she never used or just gave away. > > The memory thing was real too. She would repeat myths and I would show her it was debunked, and she would just repeat the same myth the next day like she couldn't recall the conversation.
The allowance part slaps. I have dated or know so many women pushing 40 whose dad still has them on a cellular family plan, who pays the note on her car, who bought her condo or home. And they often wonder why they aren’t married. Any guy with a brain sees he’s also marrying “daddy.”
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 3 weeks ago, 2 hours later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,430,720
@previous (G)
The other part is that women want to date up.
If she get an office job paying more so they can hit DEI quotas and give the men in management something to look at she's already making more than most men. Stats show it, women under 35 outearn men in that range.
Then you throw in her dad's money.
If you are drained from a real job, and she's got twice the disposable income you have (remember you still have to buy her shit) then what happens when you try to maintain your self-respect or hold her accountable for a crazy emotional outburst? She'll drop you quick because she doesn't need you. You could be out years of your life and thousands of dollars from one relationship.