Topic: i just sent a friend a reply text i'd been meaning to send for awhile but got too anxious about

beckyderp !3NeoVaGFAg started this discussion 5 years ago #99,435

it was a weird semi-work-related thing i too anxious about replying to. i feel randomly anxious and weird about the subject of the text and just didn't feel up to thinking about it so i couldn't get around to replying and i felt bad about it for basically a week. but now i've acknowledged that i should have replied and that i'm also all anxious about everything, and i feel like she will understand and be okay with it.

beckyderp !3NeoVaGFAg (OP) double-posted this 5 years ago, 48 seconds later[^] [v] #1,121,749

okay but now it's been 10 minutes since my text so maybe it's not okay

Meta !Sober//iZs joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,750

If she had to wait a week for your reply, why are you getting antsy after 10 minutes without a reply from her? ?

jodi !ariasXXmaE joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 39 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,751

@1,121,749 (beckyderp !3NeoVaGFAg)
maybe it makes them anxious or maybe they're just responding in kind so as not to make you feel like they were waiting for your text for a week

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 46 minutes later, 48 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,760

> expect ninjj
> get becky

16bitch !kYLkfVGCQQ joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 51 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,761

@1,121,749 (beckyderp !3NeoVaGFAg)

> okay but now it's been 10 minutes since my text so maybe it's not okay

yeah, you're fucked

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,778

@1,121,760 (D)

> >expect ninjj
> >get becky

100% same experience lol

@OP
Just apologize and say you meant to reply sooner but you were busy and forgot about it

Anonymous F double-posted this 5 years ago, 22 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,780

Don’t say you were anxious or nervous that will come across as weird

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,783

@OP
You are a bad friend

Blom joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,789

If you said sorry then there is no reason she wouldn't forgive you right?

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 7 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,792

@1,121,749 (beckyderp !3NeoVaGFAg)
You waited a week but its weird for her to not respond in 10 minutes. Ok.

Anonymous I double-posted this 5 years ago, 41 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,793

I wish you'd post more.

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL joined in and replied with this 5 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,841

Aw, that happens a lot with me. I find people are pretty understanding, I wouldn't worry too much.

Anonymous I replied with this 5 years ago, 6 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,847

@OP

We need you here. You are important to us.

Anonymous I double-posted this 5 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,848

@1,121,841 (chill dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Yeah, I'm sure you send a lot of important emails.

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL replied with this 5 years ago, 13 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,859

@previous (I)
What does the importance of my emails have to do with anything?

Anonymous I replied with this 5 years ago, 4 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,863

@previous (chill dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Obviously nothing.

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL replied with this 5 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,865

@previous (I)
Yeah, so why did you bring it up? The thread is about getting anxious about responding to people.

Anonymous I replied with this 5 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,868

@previous (chill dog !!81dzJNNYL)
I am anxious when I reply to you sometimes.

Anonymous F replied with this 5 years ago, 1 hour later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,121,900

@previous (I)
That’s because you’re a loser

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