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Topic: One of my best friends is moving across the country on Thursday

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL started this discussion 6 years ago #97,180

Her boyfriend's relatives have some land she wants to buy or something and she has some vague idea of starting a hippy commune or something

Fuck i love her so much im gonna miss the living daylights out of her

Now i have to drive cross country this summer

Im tempted to say fuck it and move with her

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) double-posted this 6 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #1,096,787

She's one of the very few people who's really always been there for me and she really understands me

We'd make a good couple too probably, just the timing never worked out haha

I just love her so fucking much, my tiny heart can't take it

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) triple-posted this 6 years ago, 52 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,789

Someone hold me

;_;

Syntax joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 4 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,791

Stay put for now and let her settle in. Then you can visit or more later and let her create new digs.
Cant hold ya but can send good vibes - Now watch the insults fly from some anon.

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,792

@previous (Syntax)
We're hanging out tmrw before she leaves

I just love her so much D:

Syntax joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,794

This does remind me that I made a promise to have a cup of coffee with my longest term friend and I broke that promise because of extended tied up
Will call her tomorrow - One of the very few who has a smartphone I gave her, yet she only uses it for phone calls - Not even texts. Friendship goes back to when I was 15.

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,795

@1,096,792 (chill dog !!81dzJNNYL)

I would say you'll probably meet someone like her, but good people are few and far between.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,797

Do what you gotta do but have a plan and don't act too impulsively. The heart wants what it wants!

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Indy !UyKfhUGMbw joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 8 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,805

Sorry

Syntax replied with this 6 years ago, 1 minute later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,806

@1,096,797 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
She is wayyyyy too young to ditch the job she has (The Profession) That kind of stuff follows one around for decades after.
If she has to follow her heart, it best be in both hers and her GF's interest.

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chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 8 minutes later, 35 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,808

@1,096,795 (D)
I find it hard to maintain friendships too :(

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) double-posted this 6 years ago, 46 seconds later, 35 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,810

My baby ;_;

Anonymous D replied with this 6 years ago, 18 seconds later, 36 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,811

@1,096,808 (chill dog !!81dzJNNYL)

In my experience, it really isn't worth it most the time.

Erik !jzYkdX7lIw joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 3 seconds later, 36 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,812

Say fuck it and move with her.

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,813

@1,096,811 (D)
This is often true but she is one of the few people who really does mean an awful lot to me
I know we'll still be friends but God damn i am going to miss her so so much

@previous (Erik !jzYkdX7lIw)
I am very tempted
Maybe next year ill fuck off there for the winter when there isn't much work anyway

Syntax replied with this 6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,814

@1,096,812 (Erik !jzYkdX7lIw)

> Say fuck it and move with her.

Now tell me how people fair in yor line of work when they get a reputation as FLAKES?

chill dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,837

@1,096,806 (Syntax)
That's not how it works. I do contract work, i could just not take on new contracts, that isn't flaking.

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,838

What fake anon said except even more so. Give her some time in her, frankly, risky dream chasing. Go over there if the dream is flurishing, be where you are in case it turns into a nightmare for her.

Erik !jzYkdX7lIw replied with this 6 years ago, 2 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,852

@1,096,814 (Syntax)
Huh?

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 1 hour later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,854

@1,096,806 (Syntax)
Quit grooming her, Gramps.

dreamworks joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 3 hours later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,865

Sux

Syntax joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 2 hours later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,096,882

@1,096,837 (chill dog !!81dzJNNYL)

> That's not how it works. I do contract work, i could just not take on new contracts, that isn't flaking.

IF you are saying you can make the move and still pick up contract work in new location and avoid the Bar gigs you hate - Then your choices are greater
Otherwise Not so much.
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