Topic: Would you think it was weird if, on a first date with a nice girl...
Dodongo !ZQvsveEcD6 started this discussion 6 years ago #94,402
..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
| Poll option | Votes | Percentage | Graph |
|---|---|---|---|
| Weird | 2 | 50% | |
| Completely normal | 2 | 50% |
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 8 minutes later[^] [v] #1,067,669
It's pretty common occurrence but not something they generally tell you about on the first date.
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 10 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,671
@OP
> ..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
It depends. Is her dad also having dinner with us?
> ..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
It depends. Is her dad also having dinner with us?
Meta !Sober//iZs joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,672
Like anyone here has been on a date ?
Anonymous B replied with this 6 years ago, 20 minutes later, 43 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,674
@previous (Meta !Sober//iZs)
I have date three girls who's daddies diddled them.
I doubt anyone on mc can top that.
I have date three girls who's daddies diddled them.
I doubt anyone on mc can top that.
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,675
@previous (B)
I once tried to have sex with a man and he described how his mothers boyfriends had molested him
I once tried to have sex with a man and he described how his mothers boyfriends had molested him
Dodongo !ZQvsveEcD6 (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 11 minutes later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,676
Sheila LaBoof joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 29 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,679
@OP
> ..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
turn it into a postive by saying something flattering, such as, "wow you must have been hot stuff even then"
> ..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
turn it into a postive by saying something flattering, such as, "wow you must have been hot stuff even then"
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 3 hours later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,706
@1,067,675 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
That's what you get for experimenting with heterosexuality.
That's what you get for experimenting with heterosexuality.
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Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 35 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,711
@OP
> ..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
NOT on the first date, never. At some point that is more common than it should be. Bottom line is to find out IF she has attended therapy and dealt with the truma.
I find that those who have worked hard to overcome trauma are worthy of a relationship. Those that have not, frankly may be worth some fun escapades, but overall not good for a long term relationship.
Years ago I discovered in therapy, that I was a healer and ended up on to many truma cases (unresolved) Since then I am far more careful and avoid relationships with those that do not work on their Truma I move on to someone else that is more healthy.
> ..she told you that her dad molested her as a kid?
NOT on the first date, never. At some point that is more common than it should be. Bottom line is to find out IF she has attended therapy and dealt with the truma.
I find that those who have worked hard to overcome trauma are worthy of a relationship. Those that have not, frankly may be worth some fun escapades, but overall not good for a long term relationship.
Years ago I discovered in therapy, that I was a healer and ended up on to many truma cases (unresolved) Since then I am far more careful and avoid relationships with those that do not work on their Truma I move on to someone else that is more healthy.
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jodi !ariasXXmaE joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #1,067,712
@previous (H)
> Years ago I discovered in therapy, that I was a healer and ended up on to many truma cases (unresolved) Since then I am far more careful and avoid relationships with those that do not work on their Truma I move on to someone else that is more healthy.
a Healer
> Years ago I discovered in therapy, that I was a healer and ended up on to many truma cases (unresolved) Since then I am far more careful and avoid relationships with those that do not work on their Truma I move on to someone else that is more healthy.
a Healer
