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Topic: Excuse me; can you spare a dollar for the bus?
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago#9,435
Don't do it—it's never for the bus.
I was just asked that by a kind looking woman outside of Walgreens. I gave her a bus ticket to use any time and went across the street for lunch. She continued to ask people for money.
After lunch, I approached her and asked for my ticket back. She had no answer to, "you just wanted money, not bus fare, huh?"
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later[^][v]#167,473
I don't give money to people like this because usually they just spend it on drugs and alcohol. Then I remember that that's what I'm going to spend it on so who am I to judge this person?
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,476
> ; > —
If you had some fancy quotes in there I would say you were AC.
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 24 seconds later, 7 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,479
I don't give money to anyone at all. I just know they are going to use it for something else. If they were honest and said "hey man I need a beer can you spare a dollar?" I would give them more than enough. I just hate the dishonesty.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,481
There's another woman who I see often enough. She has a small shitsu mix of some sort and stands at busy intersections with a cardboard sign. For a while, she used a sign that said she was pregnant. I saw her often enough and she never showed changes; she might have been pregnant, but it just seemed fishy.
I saw her again, yesterday, and her sign said nothing about being pregnant. She could have miscarried, but who knows?
Ugh.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 43 seconds later, 12 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,484
@167,479 (Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ)
Me too! I appreciate honesty.
!ocurburUbk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 23 minutes later, 36 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,499
Meh. I usually a dollar or two if they ask for it. Its just a fucking dollar. Fuck - for all I know what they're going to do with it. It's none of my business. Takes guts enough as it is to approach someone and ask for money. Usually, I give $5 to musicians that play on the street. That shit is awesome.
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Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,501
...I give them bus tickets.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 41 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,502
@167,499 (!ocurburUbk) @previous (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
Stop it. Give to charity that feeds and clothes homeless and helps them transition to independence.
!ocurburUbk replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 47 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,512
@previous (G)
Lol. Even charities can't afford to take in all the homeless people. Your dollar can't save them all.
Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6 replied with this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 47 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,514
!ocurburUbk replied with this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 57 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,544
@167,516 (G)
You don't even know what a homeless man would do with the money you give him. Unless you can say "I have seen several homeless man I gave money purchase abuse substances because I am a psychotic stalker" then you ain't got shit on nufin nigga'.
Anonymous G replied with this 15 years ago, 56 seconds later, 58 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,546
@previous (!ocurburUbk)
Except for the periods in which I have spent weeks living with them as an anthropological study.
Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 40 seconds later, 58 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,547
Manny Marco, unemployed vagabond, tenderly loaded the last of 30 9-millimeter bullets into the spring-action, extended clip for his new Mac-10--a semiautomatic assault weapon capable of throwing rounds as fast as Marco can blink.
"That's very good, Manny," coaxed Arm the Homeless firearms instructor Pete Whippit. "Now, insert the clip and rack that lever there." Marco did so, producing the wicked, unmistakable chik-chik of a freshly loaded weapon.
"Okay, Manny," Whippit continued, pointing to a switch. "Now, all you need to do is flick this thing here from 'Safe' to 'Fire,' and you are cocked, locked and ready to rock."
Tears of joy trickled through the caked grime on Marco's face as he threw both arms around Whippit, still holding the fully loaded machine pistol. Nearby, a cluster of vagrants sorting through a shopping cart filled with handguns and shotguns ducked and danced away from the arc of the Mac-10's barrel.
"God bless you, and God bless Arm the Homeless," Marco said. "This is the nicest thing
anyone's done for me in 10 years."
With that, Marco withdrew from the embrace and shook the Mac-10 menacingly at a reporter. "Beats the hell out of a little spare change, don't it?"
The proud new gun owner slid the Mac-10 into a Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles backpack, which he latched over a soiled bed roll. He waved goodbye, then set out across the desolate, dry bed of the Salt River, his course set for the corporate towers of downtown Phoenix, two miles away. Marco said he spends most afternoons there, panhandling near the Valley National Bank building.
"That man is going to rest easier tonight because of the gift we bestowed upon him today," said Whippit, his eyes shielded behind military surplus mirror shades. "Not only did we give Manny the peace of mind that comes with carrying a weapon. We also gave him the sense of self-respect due any man who exercises his God-given, Constitutional right to keep and bear arms.
"Just because someone is homeless, doesn't mean they don't need a gun - quite the contrary," Whippit continued. "That's what Arm the Homeless is all about - making sure any American who wants a gun has one, whether they can afford it or not."
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dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 58 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,549
@167,479 (Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ)
they never ask you for a cigarette or something then?
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 22 seconds later, 59 minutes after the original post[^][v]#167,550
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,553
@167,549 (dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46)
I don't smoke. I have only been asked for money.
Anonymous G replied with this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,555
@167,550 (Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ)
Participant observation requires it.
dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,562
@167,553 (Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ)
oh
the one that is in the town near me always ask me for a cigarette even though i dont smoke.
he ceases to understand that
!ocurburUbk replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,566
@167,546 (G)
I just don't feel it's right to think that any person for that matter that asks for money is going to do something bad with it.
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 50 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,569
@167,562 (dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46) > the one
One homeless person. Not bad. That must be awesome. He has the entire homeless shelter to himself.
dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,572
@previous (Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ)
i don't think there's a homeless shelter :' )
Anonymous G replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,579
@167,566 (!ocurburUbk)
It's not necessarily bad, but you're still enabling their ills and subsidizing their self-destruction.
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!ocurburUbk replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,585
@previous (G)
and you're trying to generalize a group of peoples actions! ;_;
nimj joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,586
fuck what did your post say
ugh
half the homeless people i see have signs that say 'it's or beer not going to lie' or copy the 'family kidnapped by ninjas' sign
i see those two often and don't think it's funny
!ocurburUbk replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,587
@previous (nimj)
It's only funny the first time you encounter one of those.
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 9 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,589
@167,586 (nimj)
I saw one bum with a sign that said "Parkinson's cannot afford Medicare" and he was shaking uncontrollably. One of the funniest things I had seen in a while. There was no way this guy had Parkinson's. Not the way he was violently jerking around.
Anonymous G replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,592
@167,585 (!ocurburUbk)
Generalizations make the world understandable. Deal wit it.
nimj replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,593
@167,589 (Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ)
watch an interview with Michael J. Fox you insensitive fucktard
Michael J. Fox is a hero so i now have a soft spot for parkinsonians
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,595
@previous (nimj)
He is not a Parkinsonian he did that as a publicity stunt to get that chick elected to the senate from Missouri.
protip !!pMmAiEwOm replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#167,597
@previous (protip !!pMmAiEwOm)
he's a hero inspiration
jump joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,763
Homeless people around here ask for $.70. Always $.70. People are more likely to give you money if you ask for a weird amount.
The only person I ever give anything to is this guy in a wheelchair. I dont know why. He's a nice guy, I guess. One day he just asked for mountain dew. They were on sale, so I got him two.
A lot of them are angry and violent and cause disruption. They lay about the sidewalk, stinking of mold and urine. I feel bad, but my money won't get them off the street. No matter how much I give, they will be back on the street within days.
I think giving them poisoned food/beverages would be the most efficient use of funds.
Freecode !!4IKKtS9GG joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 41 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,783
I always tell them that I only carry credit cards. If they're polite, I might get them a cold coke or something from the drug store, but I'm not going to have my hands occupied and my wallet out within striking distance of a stranger who is probably desperate. It's just not happening.
!ocurburUbk replied with this 15 years ago, 21 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,795
@previous (Freecode !!4IKKtS9GG)
Hm. I've never heard that happen. Sounds like something that happens though.
Freecode !!4IKKtS9GG replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,797
@previous (!ocurburUbk)
I doubt I'll ever regret that practice.
Freecode !!4IKKtS9GG double-posted this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,803
@167,795 (!ocurburUbk)
My uni was wisely placed next to where a slum would develop, so I get asked for money a lot.
I wear clothes from thrift stores and use a ratty donated messenger bag to carry my books.
nimj replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,805
@previous (Freecode !!4IKKtS9GG)
can't tell if hipster or impoverished
Freecode !!4IKKtS9GG replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,809
@previous (nimj)
Neither, just thrifty... hipster :(
nimj replied with this 15 years ago, 29 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,828
there's nothing wrong with being thrifty
i love being thrifty
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,834
There's one gas station that's the cheapest one in the area. There's more expensive ones by it. When you go to the cheapest ones, people harass you for money. One women who looked trashy went up to me and I immediately say "I don't have money". She asks for a ride instead, which is her trick. Then I'm stuck driving her and she starts asking for money. Finally I get her to leave.
Every time I go back, she harasses me again and she clearly cannot even remember who I was each time. She'll ask for money, then for a ride. I now tell people I'm late for work no matter what time of day it is (maybe I work at night).
Anonymous M double-posted this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,843
When people bug me for money, it's always spare change. There is this rapper in my area who is a wigger and he says he's an "up and coming rapper" and asks for amounts under $1. He picks me specifically out of a lot of people on the street to harass me for money. and then he does not remember me each time he asks again.
I sometimes tell people "give me a job and I'll have money for you".
Well this time when he asked me for money, I opened my wallet and showed it had no cash or change. Then I told him my line about jobs. He then said he knew a guy who could get me one. Ironic that he begs for change when he claims to know a guy who can get a job.
jump replied with this 15 years ago, 26 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,879
There's a guy who's stands outside the wawa on my way to work. He always says hello to me in that "I know you are avoiding me" tone.
Yes, I'm avoiding you because I don't feel like interacting with you. The wawa put up a sign telling people to not give food or money to people holding the door open. Either he is illiterate, or just doesn't give a fuck.
jump double-posted this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,891
Oh, one other time I was eating mcdonalds and waiting for my train to AC. I hate when people talk to me and a bum who stunk sat next to me with some sandwich paper (those big rolls of paper hoagies or cheesesteaks come in -- hmm..or subs or heroes, whatever you call them). He offered to do my portrait. I said no thanks. I wasn't gonna give him money no matter how beautiful it was. He did ask me to buy him food then, which typically I would have done. I couldn't imagine not being able to afford any food. I was just so pissed he made me too disgusted to eat. I cannot stand when people approach me when I am eating. I'm very weird with my food. It's like even them breathing near my good makes me not want to eat it. It's irrational, but I cant help it.
So I kept telling him I was gonna give him money or buy him food. He wouldn't get up. Finally some guy gave him a meal. It pissed me off he rewarded that practice.
I dont think you should approach people eating. It's so fucking rude.
Anonymous M replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,898
If you pay someone to harass you for money, you encourage it.
jump replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#167,908
How often do you all get hit up for money? I do like 10-20x a week. At least once on my way in to work and on my way out, but usually I get hit up at the train station and 7-11.
It's the same people everyday. It's like a job for some people. I always avoid this one guy who is bent at the waste (like a old person, but he looks like he could be my age or in his low 30s). He is at this dunkin donuts every morning.
I don't get why they let him. They obviously hurt business.