!JuMPb0dbaE started this discussion 15 years ago#8,973
How would you feel if you found out the guy you were dating had not been in a relationship for a decade and hadn't really even dated at all during that time (it would mean he was 18 the last time he was in a relationship)?
Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^][v]#158,212
I would've said "straight females" there, man. This question only applies to like, 2 of the females on minichan.
!JuMPb0dbaE (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 41 minutes after the original post[^][v]#158,213
@previous (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
Good point.
Alina !hyQ1.Q19r6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,470
i don't get what you're asking
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,471
@previous (Alina !hyQ1.Q19r6)
i still not getting what your're trying to says. i said , the first 3 moths when no on know it it is legit. it can't now keep up with prizes claim so it's jut a scam. are you know english?
Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,472
@158,470 (Alina !hyQ1.Q19r6)
How would you feel if you were dating a guy who regained their virginity, basically. Honestly, I doubt it'd be different to finding out you were the first to be dating someone.
Alina !hyQ1.Q19r6 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,473
@previous (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
It's not a big deal, so I wouldn't treat it like one...
How would it be an issue?
Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,474
@previous (Alina !hyQ1.Q19r6)
I think that's what he wanted to hear. It could be an issue if it was kept a secret and she were really controlling or something, I guess?
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 32 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,479
I'd think it was really weird and he probably had/has significant issues. Anything more than a few years would be weird to me.
!JuMPb0dbaE (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,480
@previous (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)
Figured as much.
I just need to make sure no one outs me. My friend has been going off about another friend of ours who just got engaged. He was in the same situation as me. He is an attractive fun guy, though. He is also really social. I didn't really understand it. He's like half-gay but doesn't act on it, but also 100% into chicks. He may also want to be a woman, but thats besides the point. Anyway, he is with this amazing girl now and engaged. My housemate always brings up how she never remembers him dating anyone and now he is engaged to this woman he hasn't been with for a year. He was with one woman before, who's marriage he broke up. It sounds like a movie.
I figured people just didnt notice if you never talked about it.
Anonymous F replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,535
@previous (!JuMPb0dbaE)
Just say you weren't ready for serious relationships, and engaged in casual sex instead. They won't want to know your one night stand's names...hopefully.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,796
@158,212 (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
Wouldn't it be the same question but with a female instead?
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 16 hours after the original post[^][v]#158,962
Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 29 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#159,028
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Because female virgins are treasured, while male ones are not, maybe?
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#159,037
@previous (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
But, did he even say that he was a virgin?
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w replied with this 15 years ago, 20 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^][v]#159,074
@158,480 (!JuMPb0dbaE)
Yeah, I think it will come up if they're paying any attention at all. It's not a dealbreaker, it's just a bit of a wtf if you don't really know someone yet. Key is just to get past that stage where you're judging someone at that level.
I don't think the answer is to try to hide it or lie, rather, just be a little vague at first that you haven't really been dating much, or you went through a stage of being really shy --- if it comes up. I think it could be one of those admissions that builds you connection with someone once you have a rapport and can acknowledge how you've fucked up in life or gotten depressed or whatever, but probably not in the first few weeks up/month or two.
IME most females are pretty sympathetic toward people who've struggled with depression, they just need to have connected with someone first before they can still see someone who's struggled in that way as dating material without running away.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^][v]#159,114
@previous (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)
I agree completely. I could never imagine shaming someone over something like this.
Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 16 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#159,660
@159,037 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
He wasn't.
He got it back.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#159,701
@previous (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
You don't actually get it back.
Vault !UmnMmNadis joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 39 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#159,735
I would high five you for your achievement and congratulate you on having something in common with me!
sim !!VASLIRK6A joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#159,741
!JuMPb0dbaE (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 8 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#160,280
@159,074 (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)
Thanks. It will probably make sense considering how awkward I'd be.
@159,660 (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
I watch lots of porn so ive kept up my knowledge of sex. I know women like to be choked and have their asshole spread open by your fingers in between trusts.
definitely not protip replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#160,294
@previous (!JuMPb0dbaE)
I’ve been keeping up with my knowledge of sex and can confirm your intuition to be entirely accurate. lol i love u
Ks !KansasxqvM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#160,299
@160,280 (!JuMPb0dbaE) > I watch lots of porn so ive kept up my knowledge of sex. I know women like to be choked and have their asshole spread open by your fingers in between trusts.
dreamworks !AUIkTW/L46 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#160,308
Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#160,506
@159,701 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
What's the difference between having virginity and not having it, as a male? @160,280 (!JuMPb0dbaE)
^^
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#160,557
@previous (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
Intercourse with either sex? Virginity is a pretty vague term and isn't important as it seems.
!JuMPb0dbaE (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 24 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#160,560
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B) @160,506 (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
Virginity has no effect on men except it sucks to be one.
Handel !khEOdtKF56 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#160,564
It wouldn't really phase me, as long as they told me the truth.
If he was socially awkward it's fine, as long as he wasn't locked up in a mental ward or anything and he knows where to stick it in.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#160,565
@160,560 (!JuMPb0dbaE)
Virginity really has almost no effect on anyone. Many women aren't not born with an intact hymen and usually lose it during childhood while horse playing anyway.
Green !pFNWNYROxA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#160,566