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Topic: Nothing to talk about?

Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #8,924

So I was hanging out
with this girl I like the
other day for 2 hours.
We went to a cafe
and chilled around
town. But there was a
lot of silence and I
was a bit boring/
bored so she might
have felt the same.
Have I ruined my
chances at asking her
out?

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later[^] [v] #157,095

no. first dates are usually kind of silent/awkward. it gets better and more comfortable the more you guys interact. maybe you should go to an event like a concert or amusement park.

!JuMPb0dbaE joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,096

Unless you were both nervous, its probable you aren't a good match. Uncomfortable silence is too be expected, but not a good sign.

I havent been on a date in years, though. I'm just repeated tidbits I've gleaned from reading yahoo articles on dating.

Want to know 10 ways to tell if he's cheating?

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 58 seconds later, 9 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,097

@157,095 (B)
She wants to do anything I suggest.

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 14 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,098

@157,096 (!JuMPb0dbaE)
lol i want to know 10 ways.

!JuMPb0dbaE replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,099

@previous (B)
1. Your best friend is preggers with his baby.
2. he smells like your sister's cunt.
3. You find condoms in his jacket pocket. Used condoms.
4. He smells like his boss's cock.
5. I'm bored with this.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,100

If I remember correctly, me and my ex barely talked.

(Edited 2 minutes later.)

!JuMPb0dbaE replied with this 15 years ago, 36 seconds later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,101

@157,097 (A)
Watch a movie at your place. Fill those moments of silence with your tongue.

In her mouth or snatch.

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,102

@157,097 (A)
well i guess she is down for anything and willing to be with you. :3

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,104

We did have fun bowling though :)

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,105

@previous (A)
:D
take her out to a nice fancy restaurant and put flowers in her hair.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,107

@previous (B)
We went, but we only had lemonade as everything was over $10 :0 and I'm relatively poor.

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 43 seconds later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,108

@previous (A)
that is fucking gross. get a job.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,109

@previous (B)
D:

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,111

@previous (A)
i have ridiculously high standards! post pics of ur date.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,112

@previous (B)
No and no.

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 31 seconds later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,113

@157,108 (B)
Stupid bitch.

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 22 minutes later, 50 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #157,115

@previous (D)
fuck off basement dweller.

!JuMPb0dbaE replied with this 15 years ago, 26 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #157,121

@157,112 (A)
Do it! I want to see her taint.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #157,127

@157,113 (D)
This.

Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 52 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,153

Image went missing@previous (A)

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 40 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,174

@previous (B)
Fuck off, I hate you.

(Edited 38 seconds later.)

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,218

@157,153 (B)
That looks like a younger, skinnier Fats.

@previous (A)
I don't know how old you are, but if you walk into a restaurant and almost pay for for her food she isn't going to come away impressed. Unless you're in middle school, in which case I understand your complete lack of understanding.

Ks !KansasxqvM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,221

I don't remember having a quiet date, new chicks are so exciting! Are you normally quiet and awkward (outside of dates)?

(Edited 13 seconds later.)

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,222

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Yes.

Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 28 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,223

@157,218 (E)
18.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,225

@157,108 (B)
What's wrong with lemonade? Everyone loves lemonade.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,233

@157,222 (A)
OIC, well the good thing about women is that they sure like to talk a lot, become a good listener and learn to control the conversation. I don't know what else to tells ya. Btw, if she wants to go out again, take her out, just make sure it fits your budget (and pay for it all).

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #157,235

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
This, or find cheaper date alternatives. Watch a movie at your house, go for a walk in the park, cook for her a meal, etc.
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