Anonymous A started this discussion 6 years ago#88,857
How do you feel about “emotional male friends” wrt to their relationship to betrothed females? Are they supreme beta orbiters or genuine threats? How do you dispose of them?
Male friends who aren't in a relationship with a woman but who are still friends.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 6 years ago, 6 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,870
@previous (Bilbo !RwordOooFE)
So if you are friends with a woman and she starts dating someone you are supposed to cut off all contact with her? How does this work exactly?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 18 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,872
> So if you are friends with a woman and she starts dating someone you are supposed to cut off all contact with her? How does this work exactly?
No it’s not so much a regular friend it’s a guy who your significant other confides with about emotional matters aka a man who your gf bitches to about you who is definitely not advocating on your behalf
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 23 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,882
Some of them are real threats
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 6 years ago, 38 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,899
@1,015,872 (A)
Oh yeah I hate when women talk to men about their emotional issues. If they aren't letting me stuff my cock into them why are they blabbing to me about inane shit like their emotional well-being?
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 22 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,919
> Oh yeah I hate when women talk to men about their emotional issues. If they aren't letting me stuff my cock into them why are they blabbing to me about inane shit like their emotional well-being?
You’re a fucking idiot. That’s not at all what I’m saying, I have no problems being emotional or providing emotional support to a partner, it’s just disrespectful to ones private relationship when someone from the outside usurps your role in that respect. Imagine if this happened in a committed marriage, you would be no doubt rattled
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 6 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,921
@1,015,882 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
This guys is very ugly and per her is not a threat but I feel very disrespected. If the roles were reversed and I had a female friend she would probably rip my throat out
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 6 years ago, 56 seconds later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,923
@previous (A)
Women will always say that someone isn't a threat
But what is happening that makes you feel like it's an emotional relationship?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 13 seconds later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,924
I have no problem with opposite gender friends (she has many, many are mutual) but playing the role of a private therapist is not really a normal friend
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 6 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,925
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 1 minute later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,928
She has gone to “hang out” with him privately one on one for dinner which is essentially a date where she gets relationship advice from him a single man who is also with her nearly every day at her work which is also upsetting. She is texting him too which is really fucking annoying when we are out on dates and it’s just vapid airhead shit. When we were first going out none of this would have happened.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,933
@1,015,927 (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
Last night we went gokarting and me and her friend (who is male btw) from her internship chugged some beers beforehand and after we left smoked some cigarettes. She apparently doesn’t like when I smoke so she called up dickface and asked for the keys to my car so she could go cry to him that I was upsetting her by smoking
Anonymous A (OP) triple-posted this 6 years ago, 57 seconds later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,936
And by cry I don’t mean literally just like venting. I have been really forgiving and nice to her but it’s making me feel like I’m on a tightrope with her
Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 6 years ago, 11 seconds later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,937
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 2 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,940
@previous (Kook !!rcSrAtaAC)
Yes and she told me she doesn’t like me when I drink so I am no longer allowed to drink around her but I have to put up with her pinching dudes on the cheek when she drinks. I’m just fed up
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Kook !!rcSrAtaAC replied with this 6 years ago, 58 seconds later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,942
Yeah exactly because I offended her last time we went drinking by commenting that I should text some random hot girl who walked by and she can text her friend. Meanwhile she vommited all over the table and we got 86d, she lost her phone, and I had to carry her all the way back across the border drove her home and bought her a new iPhone the next day
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 10 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,954
@OP
Enjoy being single in the near future beta boy.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,959
Yeah I have no idea what's going on in your shitshow of a relationship but good luck!
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 6 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,962
@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
It’s not really shitshow I’m just venting from frustration. Hopefully it calms down in a few days
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 4 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,963
@previous (A)
I am just being honest, friend, when I say that she is clearly cheating on you. You deserve better.
terri !RwordOooFE joined in and replied with this 6 years ago, 44 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^][v]#1,015,995