Topic: I found an interesting website and lecture about how porn might be making sex less fulfilling.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B started this discussion 15 years ago #8,853
http://makelovenotporn.com/myths/facial
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJ3kP-0Mu3k&feature=player_embedded
http://blog.ted.com/2009/12/02/cindy_gallop_ma/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HJ3kP-0Mu3k&feature=player_embedded
http://blog.ted.com/2009/12/02/cindy_gallop_ma/
naimj joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later[^] [v] #155,828
Wow. I never would have figured this out on my ownswamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 44 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #155,829
hamfist !!mtq555+/1 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #155,840
no fucking shit
#ronpaul2012
#ronpaul2012
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swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 54 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,887
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@155,829 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
I HAVE NO OTHER FRAME OF REFERENCE? WOULD YOU RATHER I HTINK SEX IS LIKE HWEN YOU ARE A TEENAGER AND YOU ARE ALL LIKE "uh.. uh ok lets try this now."
NO WOMEN WANT YOU TO GORILLA FUCK HTEM>
I HAVE NO OTHER FRAME OF REFERENCE? WOULD YOU RATHER I HTINK SEX IS LIKE HWEN YOU ARE A TEENAGER AND YOU ARE ALL LIKE "uh.. uh ok lets try this now."
NO WOMEN WANT YOU TO GORILLA FUCK HTEM>
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,930
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,942
@155,829 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
> Some men think that porn is like real sex.
Only virgins, which are probably the main consumers of porn.
> Some men think that porn is like real sex.
Only virgins, which are probably the main consumers of porn.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,947
Anonymous F replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,952
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
It doesn't really. I always though it was fairly common knowledge porn didn't reflect reality.
It doesn't really. I always though it was fairly common knowledge porn didn't reflect reality.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,953
I think it can go either way. I think porn can make a guy set his standards too high or expect sex to be something that it's not or think that some of the shit that happens in porn is actually realistic. On the other hand, sometimes it's good to set the bar high, and porn can sometimes be used as a good tool for learning and communication. Not everything in porn in unrealistic or unachievable.
Foxygen !FXYGNx1XR. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,961
Well of course. Only porn has these sexy girls. Can't ever have that in real life, and thus real sex can never be as fulfilling.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,962
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,964
@155,962 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Of course not, that's a given. I was just saying that not everything featured is unappreciated.
I think the biggest problem in porn is some of the violence. I never understood violence in porn. It's a turn off for me. There's nothing sexy about a guy slapping a woman IMO.
Of course not, that's a given. I was just saying that not everything featured is unappreciated.
I think the biggest problem in porn is some of the violence. I never understood violence in porn. It's a turn off for me. There's nothing sexy about a guy slapping a woman IMO.
Foxygen !FXYGNx1XR. replied with this 15 years ago, 13 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,965
Regan invented AIDS !!mtq555+/1 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,966
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,967
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 58 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,969
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Also a turn off. I would consider that violent.
@155,966 (Regan invented AIDS !!mtq555+/1)
Shut up, hamfist.
Also a turn off. I would consider that violent.
@155,966 (Regan invented AIDS !!mtq555+/1)
Shut up, hamfist.
Foxygen !FXYGNx1XR. replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,971
@155,966 (Regan invented AIDS !!mtq555+/1)Bryan Regan invented aids?
I didn't know horrible jokes could actually kill someone.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 19 hours later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #156,700
Only affects retards who think porn is good.
dreamworks joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 54 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,752
this thread is bad and you should feel bad
!JuMPb0dbaE replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,760
@155,964 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
It's weird. Who IS into it? I can't imagine many people. It's like they want to keep taking it to the next level. I've never had the urge to choke a chick during sex. .
It's weird. Who IS into it? I can't imagine many people. It's like they want to keep taking it to the next level. I've never had the urge to choke a chick during sex. .
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,762
dreamworks replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,763
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,766
@previous (dreamworks)
Obviously they can't. Maybe you should talk to some women about this issue and see what they say?
Obviously they can't. Maybe you should talk to some women about this issue and see what they say?
dreamworks replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,767
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,770
dreamworks replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,777
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 second later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,778
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,783
!JuMPb0dbaE replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,790
Whenever words like "might" are used, you are reading or listening to speculation.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,792
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,796
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
They have a point though. If a guy thinks "I saw a girl choke on a dick in a porno and she looked like she liked it. I should try to do that from now on," then he's pretty fucking retarded.
They have a point though. If a guy thinks "I saw a girl choke on a dick in a porno and she looked like she liked it. I should try to do that from now on," then he's pretty fucking retarded.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,800
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
I have seen men do this irl. I'm not joking. They weren't even assholes, they were just inexperienced.
I have seen men do this irl. I'm not joking. They weren't even assholes, they were just inexperienced.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,803
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,813
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
During sex with men, while watching friends have sex with men, talking to males about sex, and hearing about personal sexual situations from friends.
During sex with men, while watching friends have sex with men, talking to males about sex, and hearing about personal sexual situations from friends.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,818
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,821
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!JuMPb0dbaE replied with this 15 years ago, 33 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,886
@156,800 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Some women like it. How do you know it was porn and not a prior sexual encounter that caused the confusion?
Also, if you saw it, perhaps the guy was trying to "put on a show." too many variables there to know for certain. Unless he stated it was because of watching porn that he did it.
Some women like it. How do you know it was porn and not a prior sexual encounter that caused the confusion?
Also, if you saw it, perhaps the guy was trying to "put on a show." too many variables there to know for certain. Unless he stated it was because of watching porn that he did it.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #156,895
@previous (!JuMPb0dbaE)
Interesting points, jump.
I've only been one girl who liked deep-throating, but I still never tried to ram it down and choke her. If he was trying to "put on a show," that just makes it all the more disrespectful. swamplights was clearly not entertained.
Interesting points, jump.
I've only been one girl who liked deep-throating, but I still never tried to ram it down and choke her. If he was trying to "put on a show," that just makes it all the more disrespectful. swamplights was clearly not entertained.
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #157,035
I appreciate you, Ashley. I miss you; you should get on Skype or something.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 16 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #157,614
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #157,615
SOME MEN THINK CRIME SHOWS ARE REAL, WE NEED TO STOP CRIME SHOWS
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #157,711
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swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #157,883
@previous (dreamworks)
I think that parents should speak to their children about the realities of sex. Also, I think that websites that specifically target men would be helpful .
I think that parents should speak to their children about the realities of sex. Also, I think that websites that specifically target men would be helpful .
Anonymous M replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #158,073
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
> Listen sammy, someday your might take a peek at porn, maybe you already have. I just want you to know that what you see in those videos isn't like real life, but actually just a fantasy.
> Gee, mom, you fucking think? How fucking enlightening.
> Listen sammy, someday your might take a peek at porn, maybe you already have. I just want you to know that what you see in those videos isn't like real life, but actually just a fantasy.
> Gee, mom, you fucking think? How fucking enlightening.
jozofthecats !!6MR+O/nmp (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #158,080
Anonymous M replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #158,412
@previous (jozofthecats !!6MR+O/nmp)
No one thinks that it's actually like that. They may like the idea, and try it out in the bedroom, and act as if it's normal to increase their chances of some nifty sex.
No one thinks that it's actually like that. They may like the idea, and try it out in the bedroom, and act as if it's normal to increase their chances of some nifty sex.
Green !pFNWNYROxA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 42 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #158,431
If I could I could get laid again I would be but I was.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 10 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #158,813
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> mfw this thread