> They're cool but can easily destroy a relationship. Proceed with caution.
Yep how I feel right now and it didn’t even happen. Partner suggested it and I was uncomfortable with the idea and told her it’s a nice fantasy but was not thrilled about acting on it. I was curious about it still seeing that they wanted it and figured I only live once so I made a joint Tinder page and was swiping out of curiosity. Told said partner about the Tinder page and now she’s crying and confiding in her male “friend” who is just some loser trying to get in her pants. I think it’s over at this point. I guess it’s okay for her to seek out an additional sex partner but for me it’s totally off limits and cheating.
Very disappointed, a year of dating gone down the drain because she wanted to have lesbian sex and not have it count as cheating.
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Now she’s at a theme park most likely with said dude. Thanks Apple Find a Friend for letting me stalk people with ease!
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That sucks but better to find out after one year of dating than like five years of marriage.
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Maybe she was just looking for an excuse to end things or this dude has been wheedling her for a while, but the whole thing is a bit sus. You can try telling her you were just being selfish and don't want to ruin what you have, yadda yadda.