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Topic: Facebook is good for hooking up.

Ks !KansasxqvM started this discussion 15 years ago #8,792

But when you've slept with every fuckable girl on your friends list things get awkward and you won't log in anymore. Feels so fuckin' beta man. Beta as fuck. I've never been beta about anything... sigh. How do you deal with this feeling? I'm gonna phoenix the bird, fuck this feeling.

Foxygen !FXYGNx1XR. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 59 seconds later[^] [v] #154,581

> How do you deal with this feeling?

By never even having it.

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 48 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^] [v] #154,583

> fuck every girl on facebook
> feel beta

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,587

I listen to sad music, generally. I recommend Jamestown Story and Hawthorne Heights for maximum dealing power.

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 51 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,589

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

> I listen to sad music, generally. I recommend Jamestown Story and Hawthorne Heights for maximum dealing power.

> Jamestown STory
> Hawthorne Heights

TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,590

I never add one night hook ups to anything... no phone number, no facebook (I have only close frriends there), twitter... no nothing... hook ups are hook ups, treat them that way.

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,591

@154,583 (C)
Its like climbing to the top of a mountain and be too much of a pussy to climb down. I've said before that I can't confide in you guys, and I won't about everything, but this is something that is buggin' the fuck out of me. Phoenix the bird, but I gotta work up my courage or something. This really sucks. I didn't set out to sleep with them all, it just kinda happened over the course of a few years, like a here and there type of thing.

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,596

@154,590 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
Its not like that, fuck adding one night stands, I'm not retarded. Its like friends before, hook up eventually, never talk to them again. I am such a fucking asshole. Even ones I slept with like a decade ago add me, I don't get that, but I add them because I'm nice guy, kinda. I don't even fucking know. Fuck.

TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,599

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
You just suck. :)

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,608

@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
Not sure if serious, worried you may be right. :/

Mr Johnson !n4U/hVcA3w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,620

I only use Facebook to RP nough said

protip !!pMmAiEwOm joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,629

@OP start over at the beginning, again, and work your way through the list chronologically.

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 31 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #154,651

@previous (protip !!pMmAiEwOm)
Some of them are married/out of state now, others were just flings. Even with the ones I could... when you try for something like that you're bound to fail. I never meant for it to go this way, it just did, mostly due to my heavy drinking and partying spell, but not for all of them... I can't even put my finger on why I'm avoiding them, its not like they're avoiding me. I dunno even know bro, beta as fuck.


@154,620 (Mr Johnson !n4U/hVcA3w)
What is RP?

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Green !pFNWNYROxA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,037

Ah yes.

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,043

tell me more stories OP!

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 35 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,045

@154,651 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Roleplay. Protip: Never take Mr Johnson seriously.

Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,048

@154,608 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It sounds to me like you're feeling "beta" because you're upset with yourself. You describe fucking every girl you like on facebook as "climbing a mountain" but in the end you feel like you haven't really accomplished anything because despite all your skills with these women you don't have any sort of emotional attachment or relationship to show for it. This has led to that sort of "empty" feeling you're having and you equate that feeling with feeling "beta."

Anonymous K double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,050

@154,651 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
You're avoiding them because you have a fear of commitment. You're worried that if you start fucking any of them on a regular basis, she might start to get attached and it may turn into a relationship. That scares the fuck out of you.

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 39 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,051

@155,048 (K)
That's very insightful, I need to ponder on that and see where it takes me. In a way I think you're very much right. Smartest. Anon. Ever.

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,053

@155,050 (K)
Yeah... that is exactly correct. I knew that much before I started the thread, but I couldn't understand the beta feeling. You're so right on this shit it's scary.

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,054

@155,051 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
You're welcome ;)

Ks !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,055

Image went missing@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
> mfw Broseph

Well done.

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,056

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Stay thirsty, my friend.

Ryan !PArADOx9ZU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #155,099

@OP
That picture is basically the story of my life.
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