Topic: Fuck myself :(
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #8,374
Cute, shy girl in art class today. Barely spoke to her. I wish I was more confident. Maybe next week..
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #146,254
Sorry love.
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #146,255
Rational thinking fucker... what's the worst that could happen, she could reject you.. boo hoo, there's plenty of fish in the sea...
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 16 minutes later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #146,260
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
1 week is too quick to ask for her number. I'll play my luck next week.
1 week is too quick to ask for her number. I'll play my luck next week.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 48 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #146,269
@previous (A)
1 week is too long to ask for the number. You need to get off your bullshit 6 month plan and go for it now.
1 week is too long to ask for the number. You need to get off your bullshit 6 month plan and go for it now.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 57 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #146,275
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,276
@previous (A)
That doesn't mean you shouldn't have gotten it during/after the last class. You could also run into her before the next class, but chances are you'll see her and think to yourself "No, I'm not going to talk to her now, because I plan on talking to her next class." You're right about one thing, you need more confidence.
That doesn't mean you shouldn't have gotten it during/after the last class. You could also run into her before the next class, but chances are you'll see her and think to yourself "No, I'm not going to talk to her now, because I plan on talking to her next class." You're right about one thing, you need more confidence.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 55 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,277
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,278
@previous (A)
You said art class. I assumed you meant a college art class. Don't you think it's possible that you'll see her around campus, or do you hide in your room when you're not in class?
You said art class. I assumed you meant a college art class. Don't you think it's possible that you'll see her around campus, or do you hide in your room when you're not in class?
hamfist !!mtq555+/1 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 58 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,279
I know that feel OP. You have nothing to lose though
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,280
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,282
@previous (A)
You're just making excuses to justify your lack of confidence. Maybe you won't see her before then, but you better have a plan for next class.
You're just making excuses to justify your lack of confidence. Maybe you won't see her before then, but you better have a plan for next class.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 13 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,284
Anais !!9Zx5deXQk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,285
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,288
Oh just fucking perfect. To top it off my music isn't playing. And my phone deleted most of my phone. Fuck this trashy piece of sony shit. I'm buying a fucking nokia. Piece of fucking shittity shit. I'm fuming now.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,289
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,290
love is an illusion. wait for the japanese to perfect robotics. she will never get old and never leave you.
setting a time frame is just giving yourself an excuse not to do it, though.
setting a time frame is just giving yourself an excuse not to do it, though.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 56 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #146,292
hamfist !!mtq555+/1 replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,301
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 30 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,316
Leo Vegas !gNoGoD5HzQ double-posted this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,318
@OP
This sounds like the beginning of a movie. Just talk to her. The worst that can happen is she tells you to piss off. And then what? What is different than before? (and I mean that in the least mean way) Just ask her if you can paint her vagina, nothing creepy about a reasonable request.
This sounds like the beginning of a movie. Just talk to her. The worst that can happen is she tells you to piss off. And then what? What is different than before? (and I mean that in the least mean way) Just ask her if you can paint her vagina, nothing creepy about a reasonable request.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 18 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,325
ITT: Broseph thinking he knows about women.
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 43 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,339
If you have zero confidence and low self esteem then I'd say you're kinda fucked, but if you really do like her, you should definitely try your best to muster up some courage. Either that or be forever regretful.
Anyway, I tend to crush on the cute shy ones too, so I think I may be able to help. What you can do to make first introductions feel a bit less awkward and forced is to pretend as if you don't know what the class assignment is (or if you're like me, you really don't know what the fuck you're supposed to be doing because you're incapable of paying attention in school) and ask said cute shy girl for help. Once she's told you, smile and say thanks, then introduce yourself like you're being friendly. Initiate some conversation and if you feel a connection, keep it going for as long as possible. If all works out and you two click, get that number. She'll likely give it to you. Of course you don't have to do this exactly as I described, but I think it works well. Improvise.
Regardless of your methods, good luck.
Anyway, I tend to crush on the cute shy ones too, so I think I may be able to help. What you can do to make first introductions feel a bit less awkward and forced is to pretend as if you don't know what the class assignment is (or if you're like me, you really don't know what the fuck you're supposed to be doing because you're incapable of paying attention in school) and ask said cute shy girl for help. Once she's told you, smile and say thanks, then introduce yourself like you're being friendly. Initiate some conversation and if you feel a connection, keep it going for as long as possible. If all works out and you two click, get that number. She'll likely give it to you. Of course you don't have to do this exactly as I described, but I think it works well. Improvise.
Regardless of your methods, good luck.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,343
Jesus criminy. I'm not at school, I'm a bum.
protip !!pMmAiEwOm joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 16 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,344
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,345
Thanks for the advice though. I'm going to cry myself to sleep.
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mewoth joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 39 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,346
@146,260 (A)
> 1 week is too quick to ask for her number. I'll play my luck next week.
nigga i straight up go aye whats ur number
and meowht gets hella numbers
1 week is way too long the fuck
> 1 week is too quick to ask for her number. I'll play my luck next week.
nigga i straight up go aye whats ur number
and meowht gets hella numbers
1 week is way too long the fuck
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,347
@146,343 (A)
Okay, you're taking an art class on the side. Regardless, the advice I gave is still totally applicable. When you say you're a bum though, what do you mean exactly? Elaborate.
@146,344 (protip !!pMmAiEwOm)
:-)
Okay, you're taking an art class on the side. Regardless, the advice I gave is still totally applicable. When you say you're a bum though, what do you mean exactly? Elaborate.
@146,344 (protip !!pMmAiEwOm)
:-)
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,352
This @146,339 (Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ) and this @previous (Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ)
He gave good advice and it has nothing to do with school. Stop making excuses and beating yourself up.
He gave good advice and it has nothing to do with school. Stop making excuses and beating yourself up.
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,354
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
We're not trying to force the guy here, we're just trying to encourage. Chill.
We're not trying to force the guy here, we're just trying to encourage. Chill.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,355
@previous (Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ)
Sorry man, I am chill, he just needs to change his psyche. He's totally beating himself up over it and he's convinced himself he can't do it.
Sorry man, I am chill, he just needs to change his psyche. He's totally beating himself up over it and he's convinced himself he can't do it.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,356
I'm just worried by next week she'll have a bf :(
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,358
OP confirmed for psychotic fucktardism.
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,359
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 13 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,362
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Falco !PZmcClOUDk replied with this 15 years ago, 35 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,366
@146,290 (G)> wait for the japanese to perfect robotics. she will never get old and never leave you.
@previous (Foxygen !xVulpesUUg)
lolololol
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Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 35 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,367
I thought this thread was going to be about somebody bumming themselves somehow. This is marginally better, I suppose.
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,369
Her: Give me a good 2-4 word quote.
Me: Party hard.
Her: No. inspirational.
Me: Some people find that inspirational. 2-4 words is hard to work with.
Me: I'll get back to you though.
Me: The world needs love?
Me: How about "Never back down."
Her: Hmm
Me: Don't stop
Me: Believin'
Me: :D
Her: I like that one.
Me: Damn it, now I have journey stuck in my head.
Her: Lol
(hours later, when we're sitting on the couch, we'll sometimes text each other instead of talk)
Me: Wanna cuddle?
(incredulous look)
Me: Is that a no?
Her: Why do you?
Me: Why not?
Her: Why?
Me: I thought you wanted things to go back to how they were. I'm just trying to show some affection.
Me: Still thinking?
(later)
Me: I wish you'd text me back, or maybe talk to me.
(I later leave, she hugs me but pushes me away, says I look sick. Asks me what's wrong. I say I feel sick. I go.)
Me: Please text me.
Her: What's up?
Me: C'mon ****, is it really not obvious? You still won't answer me. I looked like I was going to throw up because you're tormenting me to the point that it's making me physically ill. I know you don't mean to, but come on. And I know you can just say "Well I broke up with you get over it" but that's not what you tell me when we talk about it. Can't you see what you're doing to me?
Me: And I can tell **** LOVES the fact that we're not dating. At least he's happy.
Her: Why can you tell that? And I'm not doing anything to you! What did I do?
Me: Am I just like all the other exes who won't stop texting you, begging for attention, or is it really different with me? Because I refuse to be like them. I just want to cry and get over this. If that's fine by you, just say so, if not, make up your mind but I just can't do this anymore. It's emotional torture.
Me: Why are you so surprised? Even your mom can tell what you're doing, but you're shocked that I'm upset.
Her: What did I do!?
Me: You broke my heart
Me: How's that for your 4 word quote of the day?
Her: What the fuck am I doing?
Her: How? How did I break your heart?
> implying she didn't break up with me. derp.
Her: ****, I'm gonna punch you in the fucking face. What the shit did I even do to you?
Me: You broke up with me. After months of all that shit and saying you love me, you flake on me, then you say that you still like me but we moved too fast, then you say you're not sure, then you say I should just get over it, then you text me that you're horny, that you want cuddles, you want a hug, etc. then I come over and feel like you're repulsed by me. You don't even want to cuddle. It's called unrequited love. Your actions speak louder than your words. I feel like you're just teasing me and leading me on, because you want me to be there when you need me, but you can never be there when I need you.
Her: Fuck you. I'm not repulsed by you. I'm trying not to rely on you so you don't get upset and say I'm leading you on. Well that worked well.
Me: Well if you don't want to lead me on, then why did you say those things? I'm fine with you leading me on as long as you mean it. You told me you wanted things to go back to how they were, then you refuse to show any affection because you don't want me to get the wrong idea. If you don't want me to get the wrong idea, then what's the right idea? You won't even tell me what you want. I don't think you even know what you want.
Me: How can I get the wrong idea about what you want when you don't even know what you want?
Me: You're afraid of hurting me, I get that, but the damage is done.
Me: Why do I have to spell it out for you? What about this do you expect me to be happy about.
Her: I'll discuss this later. I have gotta go to bed.
(20 minutes later)
Her: I just don't understand what I did tonight to you...
Me: It wasn't just tonight. It was this whole past week. You did nothing tonight. That's the problem. If you want things to go back to how they were, then show the affection you once showed for me and don't worry about leading me on. If you don't want things to go back to how they were, and you really don't think we're meant to be together, just say so, so I can get over you. But make up your mind so I can get off this heartbreaking emotional rollercoaster.
Me: Party hard.
Her: No. inspirational.
Me: Some people find that inspirational. 2-4 words is hard to work with.
Me: I'll get back to you though.
Me: The world needs love?
Me: How about "Never back down."
Her: Hmm
Me: Don't stop
Me: Believin'
Me: :D
Her: I like that one.
Me: Damn it, now I have journey stuck in my head.
Her: Lol
(hours later, when we're sitting on the couch, we'll sometimes text each other instead of talk)
Me: Wanna cuddle?
(incredulous look)
Me: Is that a no?
Her: Why do you?
Me: Why not?
Her: Why?
Me: I thought you wanted things to go back to how they were. I'm just trying to show some affection.
Me: Still thinking?
(later)
Me: I wish you'd text me back, or maybe talk to me.
(I later leave, she hugs me but pushes me away, says I look sick. Asks me what's wrong. I say I feel sick. I go.)
Me: Please text me.
Her: What's up?
Me: C'mon ****, is it really not obvious? You still won't answer me. I looked like I was going to throw up because you're tormenting me to the point that it's making me physically ill. I know you don't mean to, but come on. And I know you can just say "Well I broke up with you get over it" but that's not what you tell me when we talk about it. Can't you see what you're doing to me?
Me: And I can tell **** LOVES the fact that we're not dating. At least he's happy.
Her: Why can you tell that? And I'm not doing anything to you! What did I do?
Me: Am I just like all the other exes who won't stop texting you, begging for attention, or is it really different with me? Because I refuse to be like them. I just want to cry and get over this. If that's fine by you, just say so, if not, make up your mind but I just can't do this anymore. It's emotional torture.
Me: Why are you so surprised? Even your mom can tell what you're doing, but you're shocked that I'm upset.
Her: What did I do!?
Me: You broke my heart
Me: How's that for your 4 word quote of the day?
Her: What the fuck am I doing?
Her: How? How did I break your heart?
> implying she didn't break up with me. derp.
Her: ****, I'm gonna punch you in the fucking face. What the shit did I even do to you?
Me: You broke up with me. After months of all that shit and saying you love me, you flake on me, then you say that you still like me but we moved too fast, then you say you're not sure, then you say I should just get over it, then you text me that you're horny, that you want cuddles, you want a hug, etc. then I come over and feel like you're repulsed by me. You don't even want to cuddle. It's called unrequited love. Your actions speak louder than your words. I feel like you're just teasing me and leading me on, because you want me to be there when you need me, but you can never be there when I need you.
Her: Fuck you. I'm not repulsed by you. I'm trying not to rely on you so you don't get upset and say I'm leading you on. Well that worked well.
Me: Well if you don't want to lead me on, then why did you say those things? I'm fine with you leading me on as long as you mean it. You told me you wanted things to go back to how they were, then you refuse to show any affection because you don't want me to get the wrong idea. If you don't want me to get the wrong idea, then what's the right idea? You won't even tell me what you want. I don't think you even know what you want.
Me: How can I get the wrong idea about what you want when you don't even know what you want?
Me: You're afraid of hurting me, I get that, but the damage is done.
Me: Why do I have to spell it out for you? What about this do you expect me to be happy about.
Her: I'll discuss this later. I have gotta go to bed.
(20 minutes later)
Her: I just don't understand what I did tonight to you...
Me: It wasn't just tonight. It was this whole past week. You did nothing tonight. That's the problem. If you want things to go back to how they were, then show the affection you once showed for me and don't worry about leading me on. If you don't want things to go back to how they were, and you really don't think we're meant to be together, just say so, so I can get over you. But make up your mind so I can get off this heartbreaking emotional rollercoaster.
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 16 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,370
ITT:
> beta as fuck
> beta as fuck
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,371
@146,369 (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)
Yes, I was upset and acting like a bitch at the time, but I picked myself and got over that. You seem to be more hung up on her than I was.
When you're not making fun of me for going out to bars/clubs and picking up chicks, you're calling me beta. Pick one.
Yes, I was upset and acting like a bitch at the time, but I picked myself and got over that. You seem to be more hung up on her than I was.
When you're not making fun of me for going out to bars/clubs and picking up chicks, you're calling me beta. Pick one.
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,372
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Both are pretty pathetic, but just because of what a rotten condescending asshole you are.
Both are pretty pathetic, but just because of what a rotten condescending asshole you are.
Tekamine !AnRbswGQv. replied with this 15 years ago, 50 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,374
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 10 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,375
@146,372 (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)Oh, OK. Even though you're the one who can't stop raging over nothing.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,376
@146,374 (Tekamine !AnRbswGQv.)
They're not lies. I just like to share a few of the funnier stories for the hell of it.
They're not lies. I just like to share a few of the funnier stories for the hell of it.
Anais !!9Zx5deXQk replied with this 15 years ago, 13 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,379
Tekamine !AnRbswGQv. replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,381
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,384
@146,370 (Nega !34Kas0OdzM)
Don't believe in alpha or beta. Shitty society concept.Shitty society concept. Fuck it. I edit but it just keeps doubling what I say.ubling what I say.
Don't believe in alpha or beta. Shitty society concept.Shitty society concept. Fuck it. I edit but it just keeps doubling what I say.ubling what I say.
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Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 23 seconds later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,385
Ks !KansasxqvM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 54 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #146,426
@146,375 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
@146,379 (Anais !!9Zx5deXQk)
Anus and Broseph now?
Oooooh this is PERFECT lol. Goddamn Minichan, I love you.
@146,379 (Anais !!9Zx5deXQk)
Anus and Broseph now?
Oooooh this is PERFECT lol. Goddamn Minichan, I love you.