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Topic: I still have Nexus on my Rabb.it's friends list.

Catherine !ttGirlsPl2 started this discussion 7 years ago #77,589

I should have talked to her more. ??

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 10 minutes later[^] [v] #907,720

He's dead, and nothing of value was lost.

Meta !Sober//iZs joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,721

Whenever you crack open a Soylent remember to pour some out for the homies ??

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 11 minutes later, 23 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,723

Do you miss him more because he was trans?

Syntax joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 6 minutes later, 29 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,725

@OP
If you remember? Those Newspaper stories had the most recent photo of her. As I remember it she had facial hair at the time of her death.
For sure she was dressed as a she. P.S. https://www.bustle.com/p/15-trans-rights-organizations-to-donate-to-right-now-40031

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Catherine !ttGirlsPl2 (OP) replied with this 7 years ago, 2 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,727

@907,723 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
I miss her because she was my friend and we hanged out in Rabb.it together. Wtf.

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 7 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,730

@907,723 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)

I'm trans, and I don't really care about what happened. Nexus was kind of an idiot. It is sad she died so early, but she also brought it on herself.

Syntax replied with this 7 years ago, 56 seconds later, 40 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,731

@previous (F)
Nor should we forget He killed a Dog!

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 15 minutes later, 56 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,732

@previous (Syntax)

RIP Rusty xxx

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 1 minute later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #907,733

@907,725 (Syntax)

> If you remember? Those Newspaper stories had the most recent photo of HIM. As I remember it HE had facial hair at the time of his death.
> For sure HE was dressed as a HE, not the She that He said he was on this 4Um

it's not nice to talk about dead people like that. especially when you're so near death yourself! and on a Sunday morning no less
shame on you

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,759

@907,727 (Catherine !ttGirlsPl2)
Frequently? You never noticed any signs?

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF double-posted this 7 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,760

@907,730 (F)
I wonder if dying young is always a bad thing? Especially if you had a bad quality of life

Anonymous F replied with this 7 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,762

@previous (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)

Good point, especially since Nexus had no family to speak of.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,763

@907,760 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
I can see the argument if someone has like a crippling disease/physical disability that makes living life permanently unpleasant. In Nexus' case she was kind of a headcase and probably wasn't in the best relationship in the world and also abused LSD but all of those things are fixable or at least able to be reduced to a manageable level in theory. I didn't know her life really so I can't say for sure but in principle I think Nexus' life could have turned out ok given a change in scenery and some therapy and other things.

Syntax replied with this 7 years ago, 26 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,764

@907,733 (H)
Whoa what? Like you could as easily be dead dead b4 Thee

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 12 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,766

@907,763 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
Could he have had a series of crippling mental illnesses?

tteh !MemesToDNA joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 38 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,774

All rude replies regarding Nexus will be removed and the posters permanently banned. Thanks for your coöperation.

Anonymous H replied with this 7 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,805

@previous (tteh !MemesToDNA)
:*

tteh !MemesToDNA replied with this 7 years ago, 19 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,811

@previous (H)
?

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 7 years ago, 18 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,817

@907,766 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
Very possible, but not knowing specifics, I don't know if she was getting professional help/meds etc. I think if she genuinely had exhausted all reasonable methods of acquiring mental health help and found them all inadequate, with no hope of the situation getting better, then yeah I could see suicide as understandable alternative. Getting into a drug-induced shootout with the cops at night is probably not the way to do it though even, if killing oneself were defensible.

In general though I think because healthcare, therapy etc. are all improving over time, euthenasia/assisted suicide is removing the possibility of ever healing an injured person, so I really do not like it except in really extreme/niche cases.

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Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,833

@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
I think that his doctors never should have okayed his transition

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF double-posted this 7 years ago, 1 hour later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,840

Does anyone have a news article for Nexus's death, in which a dog also perished?

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Anonymous F replied with this 7 years ago, 6 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,841

@previous (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)

It was posted here by somebody. Can't remember the headline or who posted it, tho.

Anonymous E replied with this 7 years ago, 5 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,843

@907,840 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
http://www.kake.com/story/34947010/officer-involved-shooting-investigation-in-southeast-wichita

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,844

@previous (E)
Thank you. Does anyone have his picture still?

Anonymous E replied with this 7 years ago, 8 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,846

@previous (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 12 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,848

@previous (E)
Thank you

cccuuunnttt !RwordOooFE joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 10 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,849

@907,733 (H)
Name five good things about Nexus

Syntax replied with this 7 years ago, 5 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,850

@907,848 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
Remarkable given what Nexus said about becoming attractive.
tteh Might consider it rude to elaborate LoL

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 10 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,852

@907,849 (cccuuunnttt !RwordOooFE)
You should have asked Catherine that

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF double-posted this 7 years ago, 34 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,853

@907,850 (Syntax)
I just keep remembering his painted fingernails

Syntax replied with this 7 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,854

@907,849 (cccuuunnttt !RwordOooFE)
Upon his return Nothing I No wood be nice to say about him

Prior when he was a Mod here he had a cool head and did quality work as I remember it.

Based on his photo He wood have made a good person in general.

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MR MIKE PENCE joined in and replied with this 7 years ago, 20 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,856

@907,817 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
It's called completed life now thanks

Anonymous H replied with this 7 years ago, 6 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,859

@907,849 (cccuuunnttt !RwordOooFE)

> Name five good things about Nexus

she... tried to stop doing meth? she tried to take care of her brother...
she tried to follow her dreams
she stopped being a juggalo! also she knew about cars or computers or something probably but that one's neutral
you got me

Anonymous H double-posted this 7 years ago, 19 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,860

that doesn't mean im gonna make fun of her dead self tho thanks

Catherine !ttGirlsPl2 (OP) replied with this 7 years ago, 7 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,863

I remember Nexi told me that I should stay away from a certain brand of estrogen because it was made with horse estrogen. I recently read a book about gender transitioning which sort of confirmed that. I thought of her when I read it too. I remember watching Transparent with her and asking if she did what the main character did when the main character injected themselves with hormones in the buttcheek. She answered enthusiastically with a yes.

@907,759 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
I never really noticed anything out of the ordinary, but I didn't really communicate with her sometime before the incident. So whatever drugs she may have been abusing must have come after we hung out. I still regret not e-mailing her more though. Not sure if I could have made a difference in her life, but at least, there was a chance of it had I did.

Catherine !ttGirlsPl2 (OP) double-posted this 7 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,864

@907,833 (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
If my memory isn't failing me. I don't think Nexi was seeing any doctors. I think she ordered the medication from online pharmacies.

Catherine !ttGirlsPl2 (OP) triple-posted this 7 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,865

This should have been the image to accompany my initial post.

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 11 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,867

@907,864 (Catherine !ttGirlsPl2)
I'm pretty sure that we were naming health concerns and he was acting like his doctor had signed off on everything

Catherine !ttGirlsPl2 (OP) replied with this 7 years ago, 24 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,870

@previous (Kook !!a6qjFG7HF)
She did mention seeing doctors? I do not remember that to be honest.

Kook !!a6qjFG7HF replied with this 7 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #907,871

@previous (Catherine !ttGirlsPl2)
We need an archived link to every one of his posts tbh
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