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Topic: how do you ask someone out to something without sounding

RonPaul2012 !4EB6xd.Oos started this discussion 15 years ago #7,733

Desperate or being pushy?

TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later[^] [v] #134,084

You don't ask, you command...

Beer! Tomorrow! 10 PM, wear something pretty!

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,087

@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
You think you're kidding, but that shit works better than expected. It's called confidence OP. Like you know she wants to go.

RonPaul2012 !4EB6xd.Oos (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,088

I am confident when I know people like me... haha.

TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 15 years ago, 52 seconds later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,089

@134,087 (C)
I'm actually not kidding... but my example was pushing it a bit with "wear something pretty" :D

RonPaul2012 !4EB6xd.Oos (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 53 seconds later, 19 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,091

But if she doesn't want to go, don't I end up looking like a jerk?

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,092

@134,089 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
@134,089 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)

> pushing it a bit with "wear something pretty" :D

Not all that much though. I guess misogyny is a fine line, but don't be a douche OP. Be a man.

Anonymous C double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 23 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,093

@134,091 (RonPaul2012 !4EB6xd.Oos)
In your mind you should feel that she's missing out by not going. Adjust attitude according to the feeling you want to portray.

RonPaul2012 !4EB6xd.Oos (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,095

@previous (C)
I do think that, but I know other people who think they are great and I hate them :(

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 21 minutes later, 53 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #134,098

@previous (RonPaul2012 !4EB6xd.Oos)
Their opinion of you is none of your business. Fuck them and their opinions.

Handel !khEOdtKF56 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #134,102

@134,084 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)

This so hard. Don't be faggot. This is the way you ask a girl out on a non-date.

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #134,115

THANKS GUYS IM GOING TO DO IT over facebook

protip !!pMmAiEwOm joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #134,202

@134,089 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
@134,092 (C)
> wear something pretty
It's actually a good line. She needs to know what outfit would fit the occasion and what the general social expectations are. It might be more useful and polite to explain if a dress is required, what shoes are needed, or explain how dressy you will be.

Whatever phrase or explanation you use can serve as a means to show your interest in her and emphasize that it's a special event—her presence there would be an honor to you. Flatter her; there are many things to say that aren't even close to misogynistic.

dreamworks joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #134,204

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