Topic: Sex Dolls 101- Buyer’s Remorse

Anonymous A started this discussion 8 years ago #75,715

Hey guys sorry I’ve been out of touch! I recently had to move my online store to a new location and it took a lot of my time to get things sorted out. Anyway, as I make my online rounds I’ve noticed there seems to be a subject coming up on the doll front lately- buyer’s remorse. Along with this is a disturbing trend of destroying dolls or just throwing them away.

There have been several viral sex doll videos lately that have brought a lot of attention to the market. Along with this more guys are buying dolls (which is great for sellers) but some new doll owners are finding that dolls are more of a responsibility than imagined. Most doll buyers have done ample research and carefully thought out their decision and are very happy with their purchase. For those that have made a hasty decision they may discover that the purchase was a bit more than they bargained for. There are two main reasons that come up most for their disappointment.

1.Care and maintenance- Dolls require regular cleaning and maintenance. On my YouTube channel and blog, I go through the basics:

YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrwS7_AC8ubB-YYZOTr1r0w?view_as=subscriber

Blog

https://monamourtoujours.blogspot.com/

It’s important to keep the basic care requirements in mind. For most people this is quite an investment. To make sure you get the most out of that investment will take some extra time and energy.

2.Weight- This is a subject I have touched on before as well as in my blog.

http://monamourtoujours.blogspot.com/2017/03/weigh-in-on-sex-dolls.html

Keep in mind your limits and pay attention to the weight of the doll you’re interested in. Most weights are in kilograms and need to be converted. If the weight isn’t advertised in the description make sure you contact the vendor and ask.

Buyer’s remorse is a possibility with any purchase. The problem with a doll owner that decides he no longer wants the doll is what happens with the doll? Those viral videos that sparked the initial purchase may also result in a video of a sex doll dismemberment which can be disturbing for serious doll enthusiasts.

As with most adult products there are no returns or refunds, this is no different with sex dolls. So, what do you do if you decide you are no longer interested in your doll? There are some options available to you:

Sell her!

Even though you may lose out a bit on reselling it’s better than a total loss. If there’s no damage, and you followed regular care and maintenance you may only take a small hit. Here are a few outlets:

1.eBay- Although you can’t sell used dolls on eBay this is a great option if you made a purchase and didn’t “break her in”. Lots of guys find that just moving a heavy doll around is enough of a turn off and will leave her in the box rather than try to have sex with her.

2.Doll forums- There are a couple doll forums that have a marketplace. You’ll need to be a member of the forum before you sell but you’re getting your doll in front of thousands of doll lovers. Check out The Doll Forum and Our Doll Community; these are great informational resources as well.

3.Contact your vendor- Some vendors may be willing to sell your doll for you. It’s certainly worth a shot. Although most vendors don’t make this option public they may have customers who are looking for a doll at a good price and these potential doll owners might also be interested in a used doll. I offer a reselling option on my site; feel free to contact me for details [email protected]

If you would rather not investigate selling as an option, how about asking a friend? You never know, someone you know may just want to take her off your hands, after all what ae friends for?

There are buyers that are more than willing to purchase a used doll in good condition, please keep this in mind. Unwanted dolls do not need to end up in the trash or destroyed. If you decide to take the plunge, once your doll arrives be sure to save the box and packing materials for a few weeks just in case. First and foremost, carefully research and take your time with such a purchase you’ll get more enjoyment out of her if you decide to buy or you just might find that doll ownership is more than you’re willing to sign up for.

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 10 minutes later[^] [v] #892,465

> Those viral videos that sparked the initial purchase may also result in a video of a sex doll dismemberment which can be disturbing for serious doll enthusiasts.

lol

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 8 years ago, 15 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #892,469

@previous (B)
This past week I've had several sex doll orders from men who are fed up with dating and women in general. It's not that surprising to me but this seems to be a quickly growing trend. I'm not sure if these customers are aware of the MGTOW movement or not but they certainly seem like they should know.

There's also been a lot of media attention focusing on sex dolls. The so called "experts" are clueless as to why men are turning to this option to express their sexual desires. Maybe these experts need to do some research on MGTOW!

Syntax joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 4 minutes later, 29 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #892,471

@892,465 (B)
Just outside but not my much 15 Myle zone is the factory in San Marcos - Years ago I agreed to interview as Engineer Consultant because the owner wanted to make a robot like Vagina. THE REPAIR Business is LARGER than the original equipment business.

All these many years later that owner is now developing and producing Sex Robots

dw will verify the first sex robots were produced in Netherlands, where holes in Dykes are the norm and invention was back in 17th Century

The current version which probably falls apart just as fast or faster depending on time to cum
https://realbotix.com/
https://realbotix.com/Company

The Consultant they got instead of me is a woman
https://www.cnet.com/pictures/realdoll-realbotix-harmony-development/2/

One cannot expect to see her used as a model in the near future - Oh her background is as Telecom Engineer Bell labs trained

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Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 2 seconds later, 29 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #892,472

Are sex dolls the solution to the incel problem? Minichan is on the case!

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Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #892,497

@892,471 (Syntax)
can you explain what a 15 mile zone is?

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Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #892,498

@892,469 (A)
really do not see the appeal in those dolls
i rather abstain forever

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 8 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #892,502

@previous (B)
Just because you’ve decided to go your own way and taste the freedom of not dealing with women anymore doesn’t mean the sexual urges go away. Yep, you have two good hands maybe a Fleshlight and a steady supply of free porn online but sometimes that’s just not enough. Do you miss spooning, sleeping with that special someone by your side or good sex? If so you’re not alone. Lot’s of men are finding that sex dolls are filling more than their desire for sex. So, if you’re considering this as an option or maybe just not convinced this is the best way to go there are some things to consider. A Google search for sex dolls will yield over 3.5 million results, so how do you through all of that information? There’ area few things to keep in mind:

1. If it seems too good to be true it probably is. Sites like Ali Baba, DH Gate, eBay and Amazon have amazing deals on sex dolls. Many of these dolls are cheap copies of dolls from reputable manufacturers. These copies are made from cheap materials that could be harmful to your body or break easily after only a couple uses. Additionally, these sellers do bait and switch tactics where they show legit pictures of sex dolls and send you something that looks nothing like the picture or even a cheap blow up doll. Sex doll prices vary depending on the size. A small 3’3” OEM doll for example from a reputable site should cost you around 1k, if you see a doll that is 5’2” for less than 1k it’s best not take the chance.

2. Make sure you know who you’re dealing with. When you contact the seller, they should have good grammar, answer all your questions clearly and be accessible. Many of the sellers do not always have your best interest in mind so take your time and do some research on the company you’re dealing with. Just a side note- you can’t rely on Amazon or eBay reviews to make an informed decision., the high ratings sellers have on these sites are from selling other products, not just sex dolls.

3. Look for TDF approved vendors. The Doll Forum (TDF) is an online community that caters to doll owners. TDF endorses certain manufactures and vendors that uphold high customer service standards and provide only OEM products. Going through a TDF approved vendor or manufacture is important because TDF has done all the hard work for you. TDF has a strict vetting process and stand behind their members. If for any reason you have an issue with a TDF vendor their staff will assist you in getting results.

It’s best to be safe than sorry when it comes to dealing with your money and more importantly your health. If you find that a sex doll might be of interest take your time and do the research. As much as this may seem like I’m promoting my online business this is more about helping you make an informed decision with an investment like this. I am a TDF approved vendor. Whether you buy from me or not is not my concern, my concern is for your health and to make sure you invest your hard-earned money wisely. Many of my customers embrace MGTOW attitudes and philosophies and I believe other MGTOW might find this information useful. I will be posting other informative articles about this subject as this has become a topic of interest lately.

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #892,504

@previous (A)
brb, need to wash my hair

Syntax replied with this 8 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,507

@892,497 (B)
I stand 2B corrected - There is a route that makes the distance from Cardiff by the Sea 30 min (15.3 mi) via Rancho Santa Fe Rd
The route I used was 34 min (28.1 miles)

@892,502 (A)
> Do you miss spooning, sleeping with that special someone by your side or good sex?
That is the Robot version of the Head that wood give you the Head Job

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Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,509

> A small 3’3” OEM doll

I know the doll people are not normal, but who buys a 3'3" doll?

Sheila LaBoof joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,512

@892,469 (A)
whta the fuck is MGTOW

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 8 years ago, 32 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,514

@892,509 (E)
One of the most common remarks I get from customers who just received their new doll is how heavy she is. When you are researching and choosing your doll there are a few things to keep in mind.

Dolls are constructed of TPE or silicone with an internal metal skeleton. The body is solid throughout and made to feel like real skin. Typically, the taller the girl the more she will weigh. Sex doll weight can vary from brand to brand as well as the material they are constructed of. Shorter dolls (3'3") weigh about 35 lbs. and a typical 5'4" girl can weigh in at around 75 lbs.; I've found that silicone tends to weigh a little more than TPE when comparing similar doll sizes but is not a significant difference. Dolls also come in a variety of shapes and sizes. If you’re taste is more for a skinny girl, she’ll weigh significantly less than a doll of the same height with large breasts and bigger hips. To keep the overall weight lower manufacturers, construct dolls with hollow breasts. In most cases breast sizes of C-cup and higher are hollow. Besides weight reduction, hollow breasts are popular because they have a more realistic feel than solid breast; when you place your order be sure to request either solid or hollow breasts depending on your preference.

Most doll owners find an ideal weight to be about 65 lbs. This weight is easier to lift and is manageable during love making. If you are more adventurous and decide to go with a heavier doll, then allow yourself time to develop lifting and moving techniques. Keep in mind you are lifting dead weight and for most of us carrying a person is not something we do on a regular basis so there is a bit of a learning curve. Pay attention to your body position and always use your legs when lifting. Most doll sites have the doll’s weight listed, this is usually a metric weight and can easily be converted. Once you’re sure of the dolls weight be realistic about the number, 75 lbs. might not seem like much, but that weight can be quite a challenge maneuvering especially for the first time.

For those of us who are looking to make our first purchase our only purchase it is important to consider the doll’s weight in the decision-making process. Most of us don’t have the luxury of buying a “starter” doll to test the waters so getting things right the first time can add a lot of pressure to finding the doll that’s just right. It’s important to know your limits. If you have back issues maybe the 75 lb. big breasted beauty might not be the best choice. Once she arrives allow yourself some time to get used to moving her around. Developing a lifting and moving technique involves some careful planning and practice, don’t expect to get things right the first time., make adjustment along the way till you feel comfortable and know you’re not using your back to do the lifting. Doll ownership can be a great experience, getting frustrated with the weight of the doll can be a drawback. Doing your research and careful planning will ensure your experience is a positive one.

Syntax replied with this 8 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,517

@previous (A)
"According to the Broca's index, at 5 feet, 4 inches tall, women should weigh 120 lbs."

That phony baloney silicon doll weighs 75 pounds. So probably that average customer who lives in basement weighs like 325 pounds and one can figure the repair center will be very very lucrative.

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,520

> So the doll is nice. Concept is good with plastic foots, hands, head and boobs, but pussy and asshole are in "wrong" places, so not easy to use in some positions (need some time till get good one).

Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 22 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,522

> She has a beautiful face, but her breasts are a little strangely shaped. She was safely and discreetly packed and came with a few items, such as a warmer, mesh lingerie, vibrating egg with speaker, and a pump to inflate/deflate the doll. Good quality for her price. Her vinyl body is more thin than higher budget inflatables, so be aware of that. She has a removable insert (connected vagina and anus). Not ideal for me (I prefer built in personally), but the insert is of a decent quality compared to many that come with inflatables. No stray TPE bits after putting a finger in like some I've had in the past. Also has some weight and stretches well without tears. There's also little nubs and texture for stimulation. She's small in height and dimensions, but still well shaped (imo), good bust-waist-hip ratio that makes her curve nicely. She also has a visible booty. ;)

Anonymous B triple-posted this 8 years ago, 44 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,523

> have cool doll smell. finger when vagina.

Anonymous B quadruple-posted this 8 years ago, 31 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,524

> would have been better if the valve was hidden in the head or heel of the foot, also the head has bald patches, but Suppose that can be fixed with a wig.

Anonymous B quintuple-posted this 8 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,526

> keeps very bad nipple back, all the time, blown away. epacket to period, whole box, is like playing football choose other shipping company. bonus thanks for seller

Anonymous B sextuple-posted this 8 years ago, 35 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,527

> Product seems durable, thick material and well put together, I do not fear it breaking soon. - Hands are good quality, and are enjoyable. - Vagina and anus are separated. Bad: - Absolute nightmare to clean, as both orifices empty out right into the doll, and so lubrication and other liquids end up embedded in an incredibly hard to clean area. - As mentioned above, the orifices just end with no backing, and so in order to use it without creating a gigantic mess, a condom has to be used. - Both orifices have the same texture, and it is not a good texture. - Both orifices are incredibly short, despite me being slightly under average size. This means that it hurts to use if you're going passed that point, and makes the mess worse. - Can barely fit my finger into the mouth, I pity the man who can use it for its intended purpose. Overall I'm disappointed in my purchase, the doll I purchased for almost half the price is superior to it.

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 33 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,528

> No stray TPE bits after putting a finger in like some I've had in the past.
lol

@892,523 (B)

> > have cool doll smell. finger when vagina.

What exactly is a cool doll smell? It's made of plastic and metal and glue.

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 56 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,529

for some reason not many people leave reviews when they buy sex dolls

Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,531

some sellers are not even trying

Anonymous B triple-posted this 8 years ago, 40 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,532

sorry @OP
inflatables are offtopic i presume
i will find some real sex doll reviews

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Anonymous B quadruple-posted this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,534

at least they covered her up

Anonymous B quintuple-posted this 8 years ago, 53 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,537

@previous (B)
> Masturbator It a good system installation, really die your Price Is a TOY enough Good To simulate love.

actual review for that one

Syntax replied with this 8 years ago, 57 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,539

@892,529 (B)
For $17,000 you end up with a high end mannequin.

Going back to when Howard Stern was still on free FM radio he was given one to try and he did and reviewed it on the radio. Just three days later his wife filed for divorce.

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 29 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,541

oh the high end models have options

Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,544

> i HAVE JUST RECEIVED THIS DOLL, IT IS ABSOLUTELY STUNNING, 100% AS PROMISED, DON'T HESITATE TO BUY FROM THIS SELLER, FIRST CLASS. I AM SO HAPPY. GIRL OF MY DREAMS WHENEVER i WANT HER. I WILL POST SOME PHOTOS LATER. THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

Anonymous B triple-posted this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,546

> i remember the old wife body is very similar. its life concluded in a crash 10 years ago...

wat

Anonymous B quadruple-posted this 8 years ago, 53 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,549

> Here is the real touch of skin, shape, bending of all joints. Touch, it is soft, the chest and the pop are elastic

i see we have a joint bender

Svet !jzYkdX7lIw joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,551

@892,529 (B)

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 3 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,552

> Pretty big ass,Moving a bit harder, I bought the heating system so it will not be Cold the same as corpse

Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,554

> really like this, it is easy to apply and smells nice and seems to work better then before with less residue build up.

Anonymous B triple-posted this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,556

> super big breast 100cm tall doll

Svet !jzYkdX7lIw replied with this 8 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,558

@previous (B)

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 38 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,560

> arrived somewhere doll a month, remember not accurate. not of found all is excellent. all options, in order to the seller. say-nothing satisfied that say) very cool humdinger all elastic, size nice, saw when box, will thought, unpacked-but no, i jaw))) only shortcomings is heavy. yes, appear like is 37 kg, more weight and hand wear your girl doll. horseradish however it on effect. convey bath wash and even a-in) but i still satisfied, all advise.-all seller as perfect. to my posted and clear maximized always questions, помогал contact customer service delivery, in general, in every way. uniquely, points!

i guess some of these reviews are translated

Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,561

> good, the problem is the blowing tip , it has 2 "caps", remove all to blow the air out (or inflate manually) and remove the first one to pump it without making all the air escape out (since blowing it from this one is almost impossible), however due to the position of the blowing tip its just difficult to blow it manually without straining your neck, other than that there is no problem really, time will tell if this thing is durable or not

> update : its the 8th of April 2018, and there is already 3 leaks/holes/puncture, whatever you want to call it, it seems like the butt area below the hips are the most vulnerable ( the 2 leaks are there ) and the 3rd leak are on the front, just above the left thigh, so im assuming the whole hip part is the most fragile area on this doll and to add insult to injury there is a small tear forming at the lips of the vagina holder. i use it wisely (i don't even lay on it) and store it folded like a shirt in a box, and new tears just randomly appear as i blow it back up,i might be the one with the lemon or its really that fragile, so judge the durability by your own

Anonymous G replied with this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,562

> horseradish however it on effect.

Perhaps that means hot? or nasty tasting vag

Anonymous B replied with this 8 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,563

Anonymous B double-posted this 8 years ago, 9 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,564

ok im done

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 8 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #892,566

$17,000 for a pile of plastic.
lol