Anonymous A started this discussion 8 years ago#73,069
Hi guys,
Sorry to bother you lovely people, I just discovered this site so I thought I’d ask. I’m a gay college student with moderate cerebral palsy and I recently purchased the phanxy vibrating prostate stimulator and I’m having trouble actually inserting it. I don’t have a ton of dexterity or flexibility so reaching around to try and insert it has just been frustrating. I’ve also tried bracing my legs against a wall as well as attempting to lower myself on to it in a chair, all with no success. The end is very bendy so it just bends against the opening instead of pushing inside. Does anyone know of any handicap friendly positions or some disabled sex life hack to make this work?
Edit: Alternatively can anyone suggest a more...accessible vibrator? Ideally remote controlled? I don’t think I could maneuver or operate something manual very well.