Topic: How do I "get a life"?
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #6,599
I'm 18 years old, study from home, go to the gym, and that's about it. I don't really socialize or "have a life" at all, I'm fucking depressed. I want to get a girlfriend, marry, have children etc, but I'm not going to do that at this rate. How do I "get a life"?1
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later[^] [v] #115,635
Stop whining on the internet about it is a start.OP !OPhereejJA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #115,636
go to church. stop studying from home and go to school. develop a hobby that requires you to go outside. become an artist.
[^_^] !IOdbnXsKDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #115,648
Steal one.
Jam !NxcVulLUEk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,767
Don't do it!
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,770
Auto-fellatio whilst travelling through space at the speed of light.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,774
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Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,833
I had no life. Then I started taking recreational drugs which caused me to open up to people. I don't do things daily anymore, but I still use frequently. Drugs, especially MDMA and psychedelics, will completely turn you into a different person. Experiment a little, throw yourself out there.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,836
@previous (I)
Yes I have been taking drugs such as MDMA and find that it alters my personality and everything a lot, specifically MDMA made me feel empathy a ton and it makes me chatty. But to do drugs like that I drive to raves, and I destroyed my car in a crash doing that so I'm kinda looking to get away from the rave scene.
Yes I have been taking drugs such as MDMA and find that it alters my personality and everything a lot, specifically MDMA made me feel empathy a ton and it makes me chatty. But to do drugs like that I drive to raves, and I destroyed my car in a crash doing that so I'm kinda looking to get away from the rave scene.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,837
Disregard this.
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Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,838
@115,836 (A)
Start smoking weed. You'll find friends that way. Take some pharms like Adderall or Dexedrine (speed, gives you confidence) or a benzo (Valium, Xanax, Klonopin, they'll reduce your anxiety and completely chill you out and probably make you euphoric). Benzos and weed everyday made me a little permafried, but I needed it. I never hung out with people ever and was terrified to even like someone's status on Facebook for fear that they or others might judge it. Now i don't care - I love myself and the person I've become, even if I had to go down a bumpy road to get there.
Start smoking weed. You'll find friends that way. Take some pharms like Adderall or Dexedrine (speed, gives you confidence) or a benzo (Valium, Xanax, Klonopin, they'll reduce your anxiety and completely chill you out and probably make you euphoric). Benzos and weed everyday made me a little permafried, but I needed it. I never hung out with people ever and was terrified to even like someone's status on Facebook for fear that they or others might judge it. Now i don't care - I love myself and the person I've become, even if I had to go down a bumpy road to get there.
Jam !NxcVulLUEk replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,844
> goes to raves
> complains about not having a life
> complains about not having a life
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 32 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,861
@previous (Jam !NxcVulLUEk)Like I said after I smashed up and destroyed my car earlier this year (Febuary) I've been going off the raves and have only been to one since. It's also expensive as fuck for the petrol (takes a few hundred miles).
@115,838 (I)
I just got through 8g of northern lights and 7g of pollen. I really can't afford to smoke weed every day when I don't have a job, it's so fuckin' expensive. I don't have any "social anxiety" really, no need for all those crazy pharmaceutical drugs. What did you do once you had the confidence to take part in social activities? Like where did you start in building a social life? :S
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,863
@previous (A)
You definitely have at least mild social anxiety if you don't have a life. At least try some speed, its not crazy - it's totally safe and normal.
I just started connecting with everyone I know. My method only worked because I have a sister who is relatively my age, I'm an attractive girl and i already knew a lot of people, I just never talked to them.
You definitely have at least mild social anxiety if you don't have a life. At least try some speed, its not crazy - it's totally safe and normal.
I just started connecting with everyone I know. My method only worked because I have a sister who is relatively my age, I'm an attractive girl and i already knew a lot of people, I just never talked to them.
Syntax joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,868
Based on Replies so far, you will find this is not the place to ask for serious help on anything at the moment anyway.
Keep net play to a minimum until you establish a real life would be a start me thinks
@previous (I)
Advise like yours and a revolver loaded with just one bullet to his head have the same value/
Speed kills
Keep net play to a minimum until you establish a real life would be a start me thinks
@previous (I)
Advise like yours and a revolver loaded with just one bullet to his head have the same value/
Speed kills
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 22 seconds later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,869
@115,863 (I)> At least try some speed
Think I'll pass.
> I'm an attractive girl and i already knew a lot of people, I just never talked to them.
Well shit. If I take speed or any other crazy drug you think will help I'll just end up passing out alone in my bedroom.
Syntax replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,870
@previous (A)
You could do worse. Just post asking for help here and end up worse off then ever before it seems.
I guess you do get what you pay for here.
You could do worse. Just post asking for help here and end up worse off then ever before it seems.
I guess you do get what you pay for here.
Meowth joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,872
How I got a life. Being a leader, not a follower.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 3 seconds later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,873
@115,868 (Syntax)
WTF? 8 year olds take dex and addy, it's completely safe. Just don't take like more than 60-70mg the first time.
WTF? 8 year olds take dex and addy, it's completely safe. Just don't take like more than 60-70mg the first time.
Anonymous I double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,875
@115,869 (A)
Speed will pick you up and make you go out and socialize like a king. That is literally its intended purpose, it's called a stimulant for a reason.
Speed will pick you up and make you go out and socialize like a king. That is literally its intended purpose, it's called a stimulant for a reason.
OP !OPhereejJA replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,944
@115,774 (G)
seriously, even if you don't believe, and you tell people that you're just visiting, and you don't believe in God, you can meet some interesting people. you've got to wade through a bunch of morons, but it's an easy way to meet people. you can be their non-christian friend. any given medium sized church of 6 or 700 people will have at least 4 or 5 reasonable people there that a cynical atheist could become good friends with.
seriously, even if you don't believe, and you tell people that you're just visiting, and you don't believe in God, you can meet some interesting people. you've got to wade through a bunch of morons, but it's an easy way to meet people. you can be their non-christian friend. any given medium sized church of 6 or 700 people will have at least 4 or 5 reasonable people there that a cynical atheist could become good friends with.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,945
Syntax replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,947
@115,873 (I)
No clue because currently I am not watching any TV programs where they play doctor. It would take a doctor to check the person out. I doubt you have the credentials to prescribe or suggest serious drugs to anyone eh
No clue because currently I am not watching any TV programs where they play doctor. It would take a doctor to check the person out. I doubt you have the credentials to prescribe or suggest serious drugs to anyone eh
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 52 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,956
Go to school or go to college.
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,988
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Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #115,992
Purchase a Minichan gold account.
henn !ksfzGo9XsI joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #116,013
@OP
Acquire more health potions
Acquire more health potions
Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #116,037
Shoot the cyberdemon until it dies.