Topic: A sincere explanation of the horrors of Incel
Anonymous A started this discussion 9 years ago#64,521
All my life I felt like romance, love, dating, and sex were some game with secret rules that most people just somehow innately knew, and I didn't. I am not ugly, and I am normal. I have a job, money, two cars, etc. I am not "weird". But I just do not understand "the rules" of how to date women. Women have always ignored and despised me.
Yes, it is a big problem. Being alone, without love or closeness or companionship or sex, is horrible. Biologically, we are here to meet and mate, and even spiritually, we need that love and companionship.
To never, ever experience love, and to know that it will likely never happen, makes you question your very will to live. It makes life a miserable, bleak, barren existence. Every second of every day is unimaginable, excruciating torment.
What makes it even harder, is that most people do not understand. They give flippant advice. Oh, just do this or that! You cannot love someone until you love yourself! God will send someone when you are ready! The problem is that none of that is true for us incels.