Topic: Women and Men can't be friends
Anais started this discussion 15 years ago #6,101
There are exceptions of course. But in general, seriously, no.
Discuss.
Discuss.
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #106,059
I think that rule is outdated.
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 16 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,061
Anais (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,065
perhaps it depends on the type of guy and girl. But, in my experience, it's too complicated. But I still have male friends. I just have more female friends.
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,068
@106,061 (C)
I guess back in the day when men worked all day and women stayed in the house. All that was left was romance. Now we live in a modern society where males and females are required to get along in all sorts of everyday-life experiences. Maybe there might be a bit of sexual curiousity that exists but meh.
I guess back in the day when men worked all day and women stayed in the house. All that was left was romance. Now we live in a modern society where males and females are required to get along in all sorts of everyday-life experiences. Maybe there might be a bit of sexual curiousity that exists but meh.
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,070
@previous (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)
The curiosity for males will always exist unless both are unattractive or something similar. It's almost always buried though.
The curiosity for males will always exist unless both are unattractive or something similar. It's almost always buried though.
Anais (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,075
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,077
@previous (Anais)
That too. But it's not always a 100% thing for females. I don't think you'll agree on that part though.
That too. But it's not always a 100% thing for females. I don't think you'll agree on that part though.
Anais (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,086
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,088
Anais (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,091
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 1 second later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,092
@106,077 (C)
> it's not always a 100% thing for females
I agree. Isn't it true for males as well if they don't find the woman sexually attractive?
> it's not always a 100% thing for females
I agree. Isn't it true for males as well if they don't find the woman sexually attractive?
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,097
@previous (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)
Yeah, but I think males find more females attractive than females find males. Kind of an evolutionary thing common to all species.
Yeah, but I think males find more females attractive than females find males. Kind of an evolutionary thing common to all species.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 29 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,102
I agree a little bit.
Katerina Shcherbatskaya joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,110
@106,097 (C)
> Yeah, but I think males find more females attractive than females find males.
Could you estimate the percentages?
> Yeah, but I think males find more females attractive than females find males.
Could you estimate the percentages?
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 34 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,112
@previous (Katerina Shcherbatskaya)
I have no idea. Here's a random guess:
most males will find 80% of women attractive enough for sex.
females, no idea. It's based much less on physical appearance so it probably varies a hell of a lot more.
I have no idea. Here's a random guess:
most males will find 80% of women attractive enough for sex.
females, no idea. It's based much less on physical appearance so it probably varies a hell of a lot more.
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 37 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,117
i completely disagree. I think the average male is considered good looking while the average female is considered... average.
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos double-posted this 15 years ago, 55 seconds later, 38 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,119
I get a crush on every girl with a nice personality
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 24 seconds later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,120
Anonymous C double-posted this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,122
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,130
Anais (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 33 seconds later, 43 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,131
@106,112 (C)
you're right. Women are a lot more picky and often for me it takes the smallest thing to put me off a guy, even if I'm very attracted to them. No wonder men find us a pain. haha.
you're right. Women are a lot more picky and often for me it takes the smallest thing to put me off a guy, even if I'm very attracted to them. No wonder men find us a pain. haha.
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Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,136
ALL WOMEN ARE EVIL HERP DERP
swamplights !!V3J448+/B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 49 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #106,141
Falco !LightPenis joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,300
Most of my friends are women or gay men
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,308
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,309
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos replied with this 15 years ago, 32 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,336
My observations of people and society @106,120 (C)
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,337
I don't have a crush on MOST 12 years olds@106,122 (C)
Doll !jEsTERxAng joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,341
> is a female with lots of male friends
> is female which are apparently evil
> hates bus terminals
> is female which are apparently evil
> hates bus terminals
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 25 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,343
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,346
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,350
Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,351
Nah. I find it much easier to be friends with males. Females confuse me greatly and are difficult to talk to.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 59 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,354
@106,350 (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)
I think that they can be. I've been friends with some men for a very long time.
I think that they can be. I've been friends with some men for a very long time.
Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 16 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,373
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Have you found it any easier to be friends with gay males than straight males?
Have you found it any easier to be friends with gay males than straight males?
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,376
Syntax joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,382
I have a large number of female friends, several going back to high school days. Female friends offer up hugs and kisses, something most males would not want from their male friends AND AND Females sure smell great!
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,501
In what sense? @106,376 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,505
@previous (mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos)
They are usually more open to doing new things and are going to new places.
They are usually more open to doing new things and are going to new places.
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,511
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
I'm not trying to be a jerk I just can't think of any examples. Trying new food? Going to a new restaurant?
I'm not trying to be a jerk I just can't think of any examples. Trying new food? Going to a new restaurant?
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,513
The OP of this thread is mentally retarded.Discuss.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,514
@106,511 (mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos)
Those things. Also, visiting strange places and talking to anyone.
Those things. Also, visiting strange places and talking to anyone.
Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 34 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,515
@OP
Cool mass generalisation, bro.
Cool mass generalisation, bro.
Nexus !jNexusRe/. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,516
Bullshit.
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos replied with this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,517
Like what, caves and sewers? Do you mean talking to strangers? @106,514 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,518
@106,505 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Some girls think I'm gay just for that reason. I once caught a girlfriend describing me as "like having a gay best friend who will fuck your brains out." It was a little awkward. I guess some might call me "metro" but I don't really like that term. I'll take "metro" over being accused of being gay, though.
Some girls think I'm gay just for that reason. I once caught a girlfriend describing me as "like having a gay best friend who will fuck your brains out." It was a little awkward. I guess some might call me "metro" but I don't really like that term. I'll take "metro" over being accused of being gay, though.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,519
@106,517 (mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos)
Yes and porn stores, dive bars, punk concerts, or biker conventions. My gay male friends have always seemed more adventurous.
Yes and porn stores, dive bars, punk concerts, or biker conventions. My gay male friends have always seemed more adventurous.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,520
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Why wouldn't a straight guy want to go to a porn/sex store with a willing girlfriend? I've never understood that.
Why wouldn't a straight guy want to go to a porn/sex store with a willing girlfriend? I've never understood that.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 7 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,521
@106,518 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
That's a very good character trait. I always appreciate fun and curious people.
That's a very good character trait. I always appreciate fun and curious people.
swamplights !!V3J448+/B double-posted this 15 years ago, 51 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,522
@106,520 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
You would be surprised. I actually love porn stores and often go with friends.
You would be surprised. I actually love porn stores and often go with friends.
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,523
I don't really that as adventurous, just a particular style. @106,519 (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,524
@previous (mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos)
Can you say that in a different way? I didn't quite understand you.
Can you say that in a different way? I didn't quite understand you.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,526
@previous (swamplights !!V3J448+/B)
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
Has anyone really been far even as decided to use even go want to do look more like?
swamplights !!V3J448+/B replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,529
Syntax replied with this 15 years ago, 32 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,543
@106,520 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Why would a guy with a girlfriend need a porn store?
The Girl has all those parts one finds in magazines and her working parts beat any toys any way any day any tyme.
Why would a guy with a girlfriend need a porn store?
The Girl has all those parts one finds in magazines and her working parts beat any toys any way any day any tyme.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 33 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,544
mountainman !4EB6xd.Oos replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,573
I don't see those activities as adventurous pt exciting. I see them ad boring and lame. There is a queer culture and it sea to ne similar to your tastes
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 16 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,581
This, quite frankly, is nonsense.Nega !34Kas0OdzM double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #106,582
@106,513 (Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ)
> The OP of this thread is mentally retarded.
>
> Discuss.
I believe it's closer to a strong case of naivité in combination with a misinterpretation of the literature regarding the topic.
> The OP of this thread is mentally retarded.
>
> Discuss.
I believe it's closer to a strong case of naivité in combination with a misinterpretation of the literature regarding the topic.