Topic: How to get sex as a girl while avoiding the slut label
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #5,907
Long story short, I've been really hormonal lately (for the past month or so) and I would really like to engage in sexual intercourse. Now, there are a number of men in my phone book who want to have sex with me, but how would I get them to without being too forward or not forward enough? I just want a fuck buddy type situation, or even a one time thing. This is killing me.
What do the loner virgins have to say?
What do the loner virgins have to say?
sim !!Tkq9Ju4QU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #102,469
I am not a virgin. Does my opinion still matter?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #102,470
sim !!Tkq9Ju4QU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #102,471
@previous (A)
Cool, well find someone you can trust and who doesn't run to his friends with wild stories and nobody will know what you two are up to. That would pretty much avoid any "slut" labels as nobody but you two know what's going on. Come to London, I can keep secrets.
Cool, well find someone you can trust and who doesn't run to his friends with wild stories and nobody will know what you two are up to. That would pretty much avoid any "slut" labels as nobody but you two know what's going on. Come to London, I can keep secrets.
Syntax joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 27 minutes later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #102,473
Just a word of warning from someone who really really knows. IF you use a condom for birth control and or safe sex. Condoms can fail/
I know first hand, with a daughter that was not planned. So just remember if you play, be careful and be prepared....
I know first hand, with a daughter that was not planned. So just remember if you play, be careful and be prepared....
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,489
hipsteralon !xDf.K7qsL6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 58 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,497
lol i dunno
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 24 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,506
I would sleep with the person who doesn't know a lot of your friends. That way, he won't have anyone to tell.
Ks !KansasxqvM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 40 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,516
Giving a man sex is a bit like feeding a stray dog, feed him once and he'll be back for more. Truly casual sex is pretty rare, almost limited to one night stands in my experience. The only exceptions being sleeping with someone you know, but don't really like personality wise, or hooking up with an ex and you both don't really wanna be together. The fuck buddy thing just never works, one or the other always wants more.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 46 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,524
@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
I used to sex one of my good friends for a while, and it turned out okay.
I used to sex one of my good friends for a while, and it turned out okay.
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 23 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,534
sex is a sin before marriage.
you are a slut.
you are a slut.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,538
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,540
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,542
@previous (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)
Cool. I was worried that the op was Sarah, and was bracing for shitstorm.
Cool. I was worried that the op was Sarah, and was bracing for shitstorm.
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,546
@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)All Sarah likes to do on here is make obscure threads about people she has a dispute with.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,549
@previous (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)I never know who or what she's talking about. How does someone become so successful at stirring the pot?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,550
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,552
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,555
@102,550 (A)toto just is like that... I'm not even sure she does it on purpose.
To answer your question: Don't lead anyone on about your intentions, don't sleep with people in the same circle and don't come across as 'cheap' (whatever that means to your circle, lol).
If you still get problems; well, haters gonna hate, eh?
Image unrelated unless you are in the know.
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Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,564
@102,549 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Haha.
I don't know who she talks about either.
As for stirring the pot, well, she seems to enjoy while doing so.
Haha.
I don't know who she talks about either.
As for stirring the pot, well, she seems to enjoy while doing so.
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 56 seconds later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,565
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 25 seconds later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,566
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic double-posted this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,567
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic triple-posted this 15 years ago, 55 seconds later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,569
@102,564 (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)
For some reason, she seems to make women very angry. Not me, but most.
For some reason, she seems to make women very angry. Not me, but most.
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,573
@102,550 (A)
Fine. Just go out on a couple of dates. Make flirty jokes and look super hot. I'm sure at least one of them will take you home, or invite you to their house. ;) Unless you like sexual intercourse in public places or something.
Fine. Just go out on a couple of dates. Make flirty jokes and look super hot. I'm sure at least one of them will take you home, or invite you to their house. ;) Unless you like sexual intercourse in public places or something.
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,575
@102,569 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Who for example?
@102,567 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Ahh, that's right.
@102,566 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Thought so.
Who for example?
@102,567 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Ahh, that's right.
@102,566 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Thought so.
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,578
@102,569 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)Well I just think it's fun to wind her up.
But the whole...
> hurrdurr I make obscure threads with the intention of causing confusion, feeding myself attention, and causing disruption does annoy me.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 15 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,579
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic double-posted this 15 years ago, 53 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,581
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 10 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,582
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,584
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 14 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,585
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,588
Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,589
@102,579 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Haha no. Being a sarcastic cunt does not equal anger. I was just having fun toto, and everyone here is fair game.
Haha no. Being a sarcastic cunt does not equal anger. I was just having fun toto, and everyone here is fair game.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,591
@102,588 (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)
I think that women subconsciously get offended or uncomfortable when they see another woman making themselves a victim or an easy target. They get out these strange feelings by aggression.
I think that women subconsciously get offended or uncomfortable when they see another woman making themselves a victim or an easy target. They get out these strange feelings by aggression.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic double-posted this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,592
sim !!Tkq9Ju4QU replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,597
LEAVE SARAH ALONE!Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,600
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w replied with this 15 years ago, 42 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,601
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,602
Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,605
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,606
@OP
Why don't you just go fuck yourself? lol
Why don't you just go fuck yourself? lol
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,607
Nega !34Kas0OdzM double-posted this 15 years ago, 48 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,608
Anais joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 40 seconds later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,609
No one understands me. :(
Thank you simbo. :)
Hey I like the girls here. I'm just not like some people. We're all different. If you don't like me so much, fine.
Oh and I do get on with some of the girls at dr rob's toto. Only two were bitchy to me for no reason. I even made peace with one. (somewhat).
Thank you simbo. :)
Hey I like the girls here. I'm just not like some people. We're all different. If you don't like me so much, fine.
Oh and I do get on with some of the girls at dr rob's toto. Only two were bitchy to me for no reason. I even made peace with one. (somewhat).
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TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,610
@102,608 (Nega !34Kas0OdzM)
C'mon, this thread is just retarded. Just go out, pick up a guy and hook up.
It happens all the time, and no one gets labeled as a slut.
C'mon, this thread is just retarded. Just go out, pick up a guy and hook up.
It happens all the time, and no one gets labeled as a slut.
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,612
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)> This thread is retarded
You forget that even the girls here are socially awkward... :|
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totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,621
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic double-posted this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,622
Anais replied with this 15 years ago, 50 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,623
@102,621 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
lol, that's ok. Am I so complicated? I'm going to get my haircut now. Quite a drastic one. Wish me luck. :)
lol, that's ok. Am I so complicated? I'm going to get my haircut now. Quite a drastic one. Wish me luck. :)
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,624
@102,610 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
I'm 17 so that makes it difficult to pick up guys. I hit up my most recent ex but I don't know if he'll get back to me. I have a lot of options but most of them are either in my friends circle or nervous about my age and it'd just be awkward to hit them up.
If worse comes to worst I'm going to a rave this coming Saturday so I'll just get laid while rolling on ecstasy.
I'm 17 so that makes it difficult to pick up guys. I hit up my most recent ex but I don't know if he'll get back to me. I have a lot of options but most of them are either in my friends circle or nervous about my age and it'd just be awkward to hit them up.
If worse comes to worst I'm going to a rave this coming Saturday so I'll just get laid while rolling on ecstasy.
Nega !Wl/ZWCzAxY joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,625
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 32 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,626
@102,610 (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
Come on guys, just approach the damn girl and ask her out on a date! It's not that hard.
Come on guys, just approach the damn girl and ask her out on a date! It's not that hard.
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,628
totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic double-posted this 15 years ago, 29 seconds later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,630
TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,634
@102,626 (Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik)Why is that directed at me?
Picture related...I party afk, middle one was mine short after the pic... and no one called her a slut... ;)
Flapjack !!vHCjY3yik replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #102,640
@previous (TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k)
> and no one called her a slut... ;)
> and no one called her a slut... ;)