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Topic: The problems with swiping right on mass on tinder.

Anonymous A started this discussion 9 years ago #58,754

You keep getting matched with ugly fat womens. Then you feel bad ignoring them when they message you.

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #750,643

People just swipe right on everyone?

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 6 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,647

@previous (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)
Tinder is a numbers game. Men can't afford to be selective. Women can't afford to not be selective.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,650

@750,643 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)
Ofc. How else do you get dates? If guys were as selective as women the human race would die out

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,652

@750,643 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)

I had an app that loaded 15 profiles at a time and swiped right on all of them

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 replied with this 9 years ago, 32 minutes later, 43 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,659

@previous (D)
How many did you fuck?

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 double-posted this 9 years ago, 33 seconds later, 44 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,660

@750,650 (A)
But why do that when you just ignore some of them?

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 triple-posted this 9 years ago, 29 seconds later, 44 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,661

@750,647 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
But he is being selective

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 50 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,662

@previous (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)
I mean you can't be selective about who you swipe right on. It's like job hunting. You send out two hundred resumes, get 15 positive replies, and go to the top five most promising ones, or whatever. This is the era of quantity over quality.

Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 8 minutes later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #750,665

@750,659 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)

I had one incredibly awkward date that put me off forever

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 replied with this 9 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,675

@750,662 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
I see. So he must be getting responses from high quality women.

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 double-posted this 9 years ago, 18 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,676

@750,665 (D)
Oh god. Please tell us about it.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 9 years ago, 8 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,679

@750,675 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)
Not necessarily. He could just get replies from women he wouldn't want to fuck. Most of the women who are cute enough for the average dude to want to fuck probably get dozens of messages a week in a major city. That's why I stay far away from that app and instead pick up women at whorehouses. They're pricey but always dtf.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,683

@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
Don't your parents set you with a Jewish girl from your father's rabbi? Or whatever.

Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,684

@750,675 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)
It's a time and numbers game. I'm actually dating two nice girls atm. Once I secure one as a girlfriend I'll ignore the other and quit tinder.

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 9 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,688

@750,683 (A)
I don't think you have ever actually even been within 5 feet of a jew in your entire life.

Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #750,689

@750,676 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)

So we met at Starbucks where she walked in late and ordered a bottle of water, and we spent a while as I drank my coffee making stilted small talk. We didn't really click at all I didn't think. But then she wants to go to eat with me so I take her to this sushi joint I eat at and we eat in silence

Then

Then she insists on giving me a ride home in her car which was spent entirely in silence

No radio

I was just like "oh my god get me out of here"

Nothing against the girl she was nice and really pretty, just not my type.

kook !!OPZbEQMT1 replied with this 9 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #750,710

@previous (D)
That sounds pretty weird

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 9 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #750,711

@750,689 (D)
How did the next date go?

Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 39 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #750,718

@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)

I went inside and uninstalled Tinder

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #750,719

@previous (D)
Right, because you knew she was the one.

Syntax joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 7 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #750,799

@750,662 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
> This is the era of quantity over quality.

I have never used Tinder and have no need2 but I go back b4 any technical tools Except I did meet the gal I married on a very unique technical site

Deal is and I think it was as true back in my days as it is now. Early on I asked a lot of girls out on dates. Was in fear of damaged ego so I was careful enough to find it rare to be rejected. But I was not skilled and so I ended up with way to much quantity instead of quality.

Takes some experience to discover that what works is not just taking them to bed cause there is that hang over in the AM and the need to figure out how to get them to exit and just go away.

Finding Quality takes some real skills only learned from try try again and fail and try again until one finds out why so many fails and THEN One can find Quality - On the downside - It becomes more easy to find the quality and they want to get married

That wood be Chapter2 in the book of
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