Topic: The no bullying thread!
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI started this discussion 9 years ago #58,378
Since some of the more autistic members have been complaining of being bullied, then I made this thread which is a bully free zone. We don't bully in this thread.
I haven't experienced Bullying on here, but I wanted to make a thread where there's no bullying so everyone feels happy and this is that thread.
I haven't experienced Bullying on here, but I wanted to make a thread where there's no bullying so everyone feels happy and this is that thread.
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 16 minutes later[^] [v] #747,317
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,319
Green !BEERiVqJJw joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 10 minutes later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,324
Bully!
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,325
@previous (Green !BEERiVqJJw)
> Bully!
I think you're mistaken. This is the no bullying thread and there aren't any bullies here. We're all friends in this thread and Anonymous B won't bully you, because we're friends!
> Bully!
I think you're mistaken. This is the no bullying thread and there aren't any bullies here. We're all friends in this thread and Anonymous B won't bully you, because we're friends!
Anonymous B replied with this 9 years ago, 8 seconds later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,326
@747,319 (Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI)Loyalty is about the party and the movement... if you want a better and more effective party, we've got to open ourselves up much more to our membership and our supporters.
Green !BEERiVqJJw replied with this 9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,327
Green !BEERiVqJJw double-posted this 9 years ago, 30 seconds later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,328
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 52 seconds later, 40 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,329
@747,327 (Green !BEERiVqJJw)
> Bully can also mean good or excellent.
Really? I'm not familiar with UK slang. In that context then I think you're pretty bully yourself!
> Bully can also mean good or excellent.
Really? I'm not familiar with UK slang. In that context then I think you're pretty bully yourself!
Anonymous B replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,330
@747,328 (Green !BEERiVqJJw)We can win a general election and we’ve been winning all this year. We lost because we were not offering a clear enough alternative to British people. We’ve got to offer something different.
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 38 seconds later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,331
@previous (B)
> We can win a general election and we’ve been winning all this year. We lost because we were not offering a clear enough alternative to British people. We’ve got to offer something different.
Trying new things is good and fun. I like to try new things..
> We can win a general election and we’ve been winning all this year. We lost because we were not offering a clear enough alternative to British people. We’ve got to offer something different.
Trying new things is good and fun. I like to try new things..
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 9 minutes later, 52 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,333
Anonymous D double-posted this 9 years ago, 35 seconds later, 52 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,334
Anonymous D triple-posted this 9 years ago, 50 seconds later, 53 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,335
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 54 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #747,336
@747,333 (D)
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No bullying. I'm going to teach you how to get your feelings across without bullying.
In order to resolve your conflicts then you should try using your "I statements", and I statement is "I feel [blank], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
I feel sad when you bully other people, instead I wish you would try to resolve your anger in a manner that didn't try to make other people sad.
Now you should try!
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No bullying. I'm going to teach you how to get your feelings across without bullying.
In order to resolve your conflicts then you should try using your "I statements", and I statement is "I feel [blank], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
I feel sad when you bully other people, instead I wish you would try to resolve your anger in a manner that didn't try to make other people sad.
Now you should try!
Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,340
@previous (Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI)
Ok.
I feel sad because you think you have friends, instead, I wish you would die in a raging fire in a manner that no one tried to rescue you.
WOW!!! This makes me feel better!
Ok.
I feel sad because you think you have friends, instead, I wish you would die in a raging fire in a manner that no one tried to rescue you.
WOW!!! This makes me feel better!
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Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,341
@previous (D)
> Ok.
>
> I feel sad because you think you have friends, instead, I wish you would die in a raging fire in a manner that no one tried to rescue you.
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> WOW!!! This makes me feel better!
Good try, but in order to resole your conflict then I would recommend being less aggressive and limit it to your feelings. You don't want to be mean to the person, but you want to resolve the conflict by expressing your needs in a way that's not going to escalate the situation. Are you jealous and that's why your angry? Why don't you mention your jealousy and what I can do as your friend to help you overcome it?
> Ok.
>
> I feel sad because you think you have friends, instead, I wish you would die in a raging fire in a manner that no one tried to rescue you.
>
> WOW!!! This makes me feel better!
Good try, but in order to resole your conflict then I would recommend being less aggressive and limit it to your feelings. You don't want to be mean to the person, but you want to resolve the conflict by expressing your needs in a way that's not going to escalate the situation. Are you jealous and that's why your angry? Why don't you mention your jealousy and what I can do as your friend to help you overcome it?
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) double-posted this 9 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,344
@747,340 (D)
> Ok.
>
> I feel sad because you think you have friends, instead, I wish you would die in a raging fire in a manner that no one tried to rescue you.
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> WOW!!! This makes me feel better!
Right now then what I'm getting from you is that you feel jealous of me because you don't have very many friends and you want to be able to communicate in a way that will help you make friends. Is that correct? I'm trying to help you learn how to make friends so you won't be jealous or angry with people who you want to be friends with. People won't want to be your friend if you're mean to them.
> Ok.
>
> I feel sad because you think you have friends, instead, I wish you would die in a raging fire in a manner that no one tried to rescue you.
>
> WOW!!! This makes me feel better!
Right now then what I'm getting from you is that you feel jealous of me because you don't have very many friends and you want to be able to communicate in a way that will help you make friends. Is that correct? I'm trying to help you learn how to make friends so you won't be jealous or angry with people who you want to be friends with. People won't want to be your friend if you're mean to them.
Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,346
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,347
@previous (D)
> Are you a registered psychologist?
No, but I'm trying to help you learn some skills so you can make friends and resolve your jealousy.
> Are you a registered psychologist?
No, but I'm trying to help you learn some skills so you can make friends and resolve your jealousy.
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) double-posted this 9 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,348
@747,346 (D)
> Are you a registered psychologist?
Don't worry! I know that this all seems new and it may take some time and effort to change your habits and learn how to communicate with people in a positive manner, but I believe that with time and practice then you can learn how and you'll begin making friends easily.
> Are you a registered psychologist?
Don't worry! I know that this all seems new and it may take some time and effort to change your habits and learn how to communicate with people in a positive manner, but I believe that with time and practice then you can learn how and you'll begin making friends easily.
Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 51 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,349
@747,347 (Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI)
You are not. So shut the fuck up. No one here likes you. You are a fucking autistic child with no ambition.
Obviously, you have no friends, or you wouldn't constantly be trying.
Here's a thing you can try though, an exit bag. They are quite fun from what I hear.
This is the internet. This is a forum, whether or not I have friends here, I really don't give a shit. I will never meet anyone from here, and nor do I want too.
As far as jealousy, I don't get jealous, it's pointless, and a waste of time.
Your doctor diagnosed you with autism, and he was right, you are an autistic fucktard.
You are not. So shut the fuck up. No one here likes you. You are a fucking autistic child with no ambition.
Obviously, you have no friends, or you wouldn't constantly be trying.
Here's a thing you can try though, an exit bag. They are quite fun from what I hear.
This is the internet. This is a forum, whether or not I have friends here, I really don't give a shit. I will never meet anyone from here, and nor do I want too.
As far as jealousy, I don't get jealous, it's pointless, and a waste of time.
Your doctor diagnosed you with autism, and he was right, you are an autistic fucktard.
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Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,350
@previous (D)
> You are not. So shut the fuck up. No one here likes you. You are a fucking autistic child with no ambition.
>
> Obviously, you have no friends, or you wouldn't constantly be trying.
>
> Here's a thing you can try though, an exit bag. They are quite fun from what I hear.
>
> This is the internet. This is a drum, whether or not I have friends here, I really don't give a shit. I will never meet anyone from here, and nor do I want too.
>
> As far as jealousy, I don't get jealous, it's pointless, and a waste of time.
>
> Your doctor diagnosed you with autism, and he was right, you are an autistic fucktard.
That's an example of how you don't make friends. People will find that to be mean and won't want to be friends with you like that. I think we should begin practicing our "I statements" again as an appropriate way to express our feelings with other people. An "I statement" is "I feel [emotion], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
It takes time and practice, but appropriate communication with people will get easier as you get more comfortable with it!
> You are not. So shut the fuck up. No one here likes you. You are a fucking autistic child with no ambition.
>
> Obviously, you have no friends, or you wouldn't constantly be trying.
>
> Here's a thing you can try though, an exit bag. They are quite fun from what I hear.
>
> This is the internet. This is a drum, whether or not I have friends here, I really don't give a shit. I will never meet anyone from here, and nor do I want too.
>
> As far as jealousy, I don't get jealous, it's pointless, and a waste of time.
>
> Your doctor diagnosed you with autism, and he was right, you are an autistic fucktard.
That's an example of how you don't make friends. People will find that to be mean and won't want to be friends with you like that. I think we should begin practicing our "I statements" again as an appropriate way to express our feelings with other people. An "I statement" is "I feel [emotion], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
It takes time and practice, but appropriate communication with people will get easier as you get more comfortable with it!
Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,351
> That's an example of how you don't make friends. People will find that to be mean and won't want to be friends with you like that. I think we should begin practicing our "I statements" again as an appropriate way to express our feelings with other people. An "I statement" is "I feel [emotion], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
> It takes time and practice, but appropriate communication with people will get easier as you get more comfortable with it!
Is this what your psychiatrist tells you everyday?
> It takes time and practice, but appropriate communication with people will get easier as you get more comfortable with it!
Is this what your psychiatrist tells you everyday?
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,353
@previous (D)
> >That's an example of how you don't make friends. People will find that to be mean and won't want to be friends with you like that. I think we should begin practicing our "I statements" again as an appropriate way to express our feelings with other people. An "I statement" is "I feel [emotion], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
>
> >It takes time and practice, but appropriate communication with people will get easier as you get more comfortable with it!
>
> Is this what your psychiatrist tells you everyday?
Nope, I see my psychiatrist once every few months. But, I think we should be focusing on trying to help you express your feelings in an appropriate manner. I know it's hard, but you'll be a lot happier when you learn how!
> >That's an example of how you don't make friends. People will find that to be mean and won't want to be friends with you like that. I think we should begin practicing our "I statements" again as an appropriate way to express our feelings with other people. An "I statement" is "I feel [emotion], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
>
> >It takes time and practice, but appropriate communication with people will get easier as you get more comfortable with it!
>
> Is this what your psychiatrist tells you everyday?
Nope, I see my psychiatrist once every few months. But, I think we should be focusing on trying to help you express your feelings in an appropriate manner. I know it's hard, but you'll be a lot happier when you learn how!
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) double-posted this 9 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #747,354
Saying a full "I statement" may be too many steps for you right now, and I apologize, how about we break it up into bits and pieces?
How about you start off first by just saying what you're currently feeling and I can help you work through all the steps.
How about you start off first by just saying what you're currently feeling and I can help you work through all the steps.
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Lorraine !oZfU/tvMPw joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 29 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,358
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,360
@previous (Lorraine !oZfU/tvMPw)
> I feel really uncertain, you know? Like, just so bleh.
Good, do you want to practice using your "I statements" to? I meant to take it in tiny little steps with Anonymous D, because saying a full "I statement" is a bit too complex for him at this time and we need to take it in tiny steps to help him get the hang of it.
An I statement is "I feel [blank], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
> I feel really uncertain, you know? Like, just so bleh.
Good, do you want to practice using your "I statements" to? I meant to take it in tiny little steps with Anonymous D, because saying a full "I statement" is a bit too complex for him at this time and we need to take it in tiny steps to help him get the hang of it.
An I statement is "I feel [blank], when you [blank], instead I wish you would [blank]."
Anonymous D replied with this 9 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,379
@previous (Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI)
I've decided to give it another go.....
I feel happy, when you hurt yourself, instead, i wish you would just off yourself..
I can really feel it. It's working! I'm so happy with myself!
I've decided to give it another go.....
I feel happy, when you hurt yourself, instead, i wish you would just off yourself..
I can really feel it. It's working! I'm so happy with myself!
Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI (OP) replied with this 9 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,383
@previous (D)
> I've decided to give it another go.....
>
> I feel happy, when you hurt yourself, instead, i wish you would just off yourself..
>
> I can really feel it. It's working! I'm so happy with myself!
It's a little bit better, but it doesn't really get to the root of your current emotions or how you're feeling, and is still fairly aggressive.
We should start out with just the emotion that you're currently feeling.
> I've decided to give it another go.....
>
> I feel happy, when you hurt yourself, instead, i wish you would just off yourself..
>
> I can really feel it. It's working! I'm so happy with myself!
It's a little bit better, but it doesn't really get to the root of your current emotions or how you're feeling, and is still fairly aggressive.
We should start out with just the emotion that you're currently feeling.
Green !BEERiVqJJw replied with this 9 years ago, 6 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,395
I just want to thank Kook. Thank you so much Kook for inviting your eccentric friend here and letting him grace us with his presence. We all owe you a debt of gratitude, Kook.
kook !!OPZbEQMT1 joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 2 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,533
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 9 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,540
@747,395 (Green !BEERiVqJJw)
> I just want to thank Kook. Thank you so much Kook for inviting your eccentric friend here and letting him grace us with his presence. We all owe you a debt of gratitude, Kook.
> I just want to thank Kook. Thank you so much Kook for inviting your eccentric friend here and letting him grace us with his presence. We all owe you a debt of gratitude, Kook.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 9 years ago, 10 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,542
Borrowed from that other anon No reason to reinvent the wheel.
'''You are not. So shut the fuck up. No one here likes you. You are a fucking autistic child with no ambition.
Obviously, you have no friends, or you wouldn't constantly be trying.
Here's a thing you can try though, an exit bag. They are quite fun from what I hear.
This is the internet. This is a forum, whether or not I have friends here, I really don't give a shit. I will never meet anyone from here, and nor do I want too.
As far as jealousy, I don't get jealous, it's pointless, and a waste of time.
Your doctor diagnosed you with autism, and he was right, you are an autistic fucktard.'''
Obviously, you have no friends, or you wouldn't constantly be trying.
Here's a thing you can try though, an exit bag. They are quite fun from what I hear.
This is the internet. This is a forum, whether or not I have friends here, I really don't give a shit. I will never meet anyone from here, and nor do I want too.
As far as jealousy, I don't get jealous, it's pointless, and a waste of time.
Your doctor diagnosed you with autism, and he was right, you are an autistic fucktard.'''
Lorraine !oZfU/tvMPw replied with this 9 years ago, 2 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,575
@747,360 (Wildchild !NvEXY0NyQI)
I feel existential crisis, when you provoke deep questions on the nature of the definition of human in me, instead I wish you would give me all the answers I need.
I feel existential crisis, when you provoke deep questions on the nature of the definition of human in me, instead I wish you would give me all the answers I need.
Green !BEERiVqJJw replied with this 9 years ago, 14 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #747,581
@747,533 (kook !!OPZbEQMT1)
Thanks, I love you to. I just miss our fora family sometimes. We all used to get along, Matt, you, me and Scatman. Good times :')
Thanks, I love you to. I just miss our fora family sometimes. We all used to get along, Matt, you, me and Scatman. Good times :')