Topic: Grudges: how long do you hold them?
Denmark guy !jJEom8Ii3E started this discussion 10 years ago #56,462
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 24 minutes later[^] [v] #728,077
I still hold a few grudges which are 5-10 years old.
Denmark guy !jJEom8Ii3E (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 41 seconds later, 24 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #728,078
Anonymous B replied with this 10 years ago, 23 seconds later, 25 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #728,080
Denmark guy !jJEom8Ii3E (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #728,081
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 29 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #728,083
I will never forgive you for not including a poll in this topic!
Sheila LaBoof joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 36 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #728,087
grudge sounds like fudge and grunge together
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 hours later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,152
Dave is nearing Syntax level grudges. I like that about him, he's always mad about someone for something, and then calls them a pedo and upsets himself more.
I prefer to hold grudges on a per thread basis.
I prefer to hold grudges on a per thread basis.
[^_^] !IOdbnXsKDk joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,165
Im a deathbed reconciliation gal myself.
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 57 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,171
Grudges suck. Especially knowing I'm capable of holding them. I don't like it. Depending on what it is, it happens so naturally. To me, the worst part is that my mind won't allow me to let go of them so easily. Although I do let go of them, they tend to linger long after I do. Sometimes, long enough that I reestablish them and it worsens my relationship with whom I and they are well aware of what caused me to begrudge them.
Now, to answer your question, I say it varies on whether they, whomever I'm begrudging, is able to make me feel otherwise for the better. Also, in the meantime, I'm trying to "get over it" and just "let it go." Which BTW is harder than it looks or seems if you're on the outside looking in. It just takes time, time in which I can't fully explain as to how long that actually is, but it exists and can exist and work given a number of factors I've already mentioned and others that I've yet to experience.
Now, to answer your question, I say it varies on whether they, whomever I'm begrudging, is able to make me feel otherwise for the better. Also, in the meantime, I'm trying to "get over it" and just "let it go." Which BTW is harder than it looks or seems if you're on the outside looking in. It just takes time, time in which I can't fully explain as to how long that actually is, but it exists and can exist and work given a number of factors I've already mentioned and others that I've yet to experience.
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buto joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 21 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,175
my grudges last like five minutes tops
Credo Mutwa Gal !MLHqI35Srs joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 6 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,205
RWBY Rhubarb? !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,206
@previous (Credo Mutwa Gal !MLHqI35Srs)
Or, perhaps, his grudge is constantly running out but then being renewed?
Or, perhaps, his grudge is constantly running out but then being renewed?
Credo Mutwa Gal !MLHqI35Srs replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,207
@previous (RWBY Rhubarb? !!iNo3FkiZx)
In which case he is a sorely unstable individual in desperate need of guidance.
In which case he is a sorely unstable individual in desperate need of guidance.
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 3 hours later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,218
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 52 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,224
I hold my grudges until the fucker dies. Then after pissing on his/her grave, I let it go.
buto replied with this 10 years ago, 14 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,230
@728,206 (RWBY Rhubarb? !!iNo3FkiZx)
> Or, perhaps, his grudge is constantly running out but then being renewed?
exactly
I forgive Sophie and everyone every day but Sophie will say something fucked up every day so
> Or, perhaps, his grudge is constantly running out but then being renewed?
exactly
I forgive Sophie and everyone every day but Sophie will say something fucked up every day so
buto double-posted this 10 years ago, 29 seconds later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #728,232
@728,207 (Credo Mutwa Gal !MLHqI35Srs)
> In which case he is a sorely unstable individual in desperate need of guidance.
that's u bub
> In which case he is a sorely unstable individual in desperate need of guidance.
that's u bub
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 6 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #728,311
@OP
As long as the individual poses a threat to myself or my family, I'll continue to hold the grudge.
As long as the individual poses a threat to myself or my family, I'll continue to hold the grudge.