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Topic: My crush thinks I am creepy, please help!

Anonymous A started this discussion 10 years ago #55,979

They are a girl in my class that I love, but I have never talked to her because I am too scared. I spend all day looking at her Facebook pictures, and like to see her before I go to sleep at night. One of my favorite pictures of her is the wall paper on my phone.

I never talk to anyone at school and no one looks at my phone. But in just a 1 in a million chance the guy next to my asked to see my phone so he could check something on the internet. I didn't think anything of it so I said sure and gave it to him. The girl was sitting on the other side of him. When he opened the phone she saw her picture on my phone.

Lets just say she didn't like it too well. What can I do? I still have a huge crush on her but she thinks I'm creepy.

tl;dr: I had a picture of her on my phone and she saw it. Now she thinks I'm a creep

Alba Gal !MLHqI35Srs joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #723,398

You probably are, then?

It's simple. Stop harbouring these fantasies.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #723,399

@previous (Alba Gal !MLHqI35Srs)
But how do I fix the damage? I went back to her Facebook today and it is set as private now :'( I can't see her pictures anymore.

I think I'm going to send her a message telling her how much I like her, along with a friend request. What can I say to get her to add me?

Alba Gal !MLHqI35Srs replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #723,401

@previous (A)
You're missing the point. I know it's hard but you have to move on.

Green !BEERiVqJJw joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 28 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #723,402

@previous (Alba Gal !MLHqI35Srs)
Wow, Autphag making perfect sense? I agree with this, it is probably too late to undo the damage now.

FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,407

It sounds like you still have a chance to not be a permacreep. Forget about this girl and find someone new to make a connection with.

buto joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,423

if you haven't talked to someone you don't love them weirdo

Sheila LaBoof joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 19 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,431

Apparently this chick only likes dudes that don't give a shit about her and never want to see her fuckin face

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 2 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,470

@723,407 (FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI)
I'm glad you think there's still a chance. But I'm scared to talk to her in real life. I'm thinking about sending her a message on Facebook about it. Do you know what I should say?

Green !BEERiVqJJw replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,472

@previous (A)
Don't send her any message.

FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI replied with this 10 years ago, 7 hours later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,567

@723,470 (A)
I think there's a chance you're not a full-fledged irredeemable creep; I don't think you have a chance with this particular girl. Find someone new, but don't stalk them on facebook to look at their photos before you go to sleep.

(Edited 1 minute later.)

Syntax joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #723,575

OP
Ah the memories of truly embarrassing moments in class. Super busy but you will have to ask me for the story about the hottest girl in school and how I fucked up our major friendship and we could not even look at each other -

But I will finish this short story - So I found some nude pics on the street and told friends I had a nude pic of my friend Susan - word got out and what a mess - That was 4-5th grade. In high school I avoided her

10 years after Grad - class reunion - Was with my wife at the time and needed to get wife a cocktail and passed on by this girl sitting all alone at a table for two - She stopped me and asked me to sit down and talk.

She the most popular girl in school - Voted Queen of Prom - Pure Grade A's - AND SHE SAYS TO ME - Y U no ever talk to me in High School and I was about to remind her about the nude pics.

B4 I could speak a word she says - at end of the evening it will be the last time she is allowed to utter a word. Flying to Europe and officially become a Mute Nun in a convent - She told me she was sorry she was doing this as a Virgin and we discussed that a bit - I dared not mention the nude pics and discuss why I avoided her all through High School

tl:dr things like zipper down and other stuff is over the years just NO BIG Thing - even if what behind the zipper is

OP the good news is - At least she no's you are interested in her and that is a good thing - If she asks you Y the pic - be honest

Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 7 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #723,587

Little known trick: women love unsolicited dick pics. Print one out and leave it face down on her desk. She'll be yours in no time ;)

Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 57 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #723,590

Look just to up to her and say that you tell in love with her but were too scared to say anything so you thought maybe if she was your wallpaper you would get used to seeing her so you would have the balls to say hi, and then apologize for your retarded plan and tell her you'll leave her alone and you didn't mean to be such a weirdo about it.

Problem solved, all the tension will disappear.
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