Topic: Who here on minichan is attracted to the same sex?
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo started this discussion 10 years ago #52,696
The body was too short.(Edited 9 minutes later.)
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #688,230
Gross.
WSD !m2cp3rR5zw joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 18 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^] [v] #688,231
I love dicks.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,233
@OP
A disproportionate part of MC isn't straight, shut the fuck up Nexi.
A disproportionate part of MC isn't straight, shut the fuck up Nexi.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,235
@previous (D)
I am asking who is specifically. They can post here and discuss it. Why is that wrong to ask? Nobody else has? Why is it wrong to be homosexual?
It sounds like you have a problem with homosexual people. You should get out of this thread since you do.
I am asking who is specifically. They can post here and discuss it. Why is that wrong to ask? Nobody else has? Why is it wrong to be homosexual?
It sounds like you have a problem with homosexual people. You should get out of this thread since you do.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 50 seconds later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,237
@688,231 (WSD !m2cp3rR5zw)
Would you consider yourself homosexual?
Would you ever sleep with a woman who had a vagina?
Would you consider yourself homosexual?
Would you ever sleep with a woman who had a vagina?
WSD !m2cp3rR5zw replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,238
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I am whatever I am. And we'd have to be good romantic friends before I can do that.
I am whatever I am. And we'd have to be good romantic friends before I can do that.
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Anonymous D replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,241
@688,235 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I'm queer. Asking who is 'actually' homosexual along with your generally bothersome attitudes around gender and sexuality is all I have a problem with.
I'm queer. Asking who is 'actually' homosexual along with your generally bothersome attitudes around gender and sexuality is all I have a problem with.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 12 seconds later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,242
WSD !m2cp3rR5zw replied with this 10 years ago, 35 seconds later, 9 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,243
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Yes. I much prefer dicks. Probably won't be doing much with the vagina unless I really REALLY like her.
Yes. I much prefer dicks. Probably won't be doing much with the vagina unless I really REALLY like her.
bhutan joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 12 seconds later, 9 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,244
queerchan
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,248
@688,241 (D)
Fixed, just for you special snowflake. I did not mean it in an offensive way. I was asking for people who were. I was curious as to how many actually identified that way. You can see me however you want. Personally IDGAF about an anons opinion of me. I am me, I will always be me and nothing will change me. You say my attitude about gender and sexuality bother you and that is too bad. Maybe my attitude would be better if I was treated better by anons like you, but I am not so nothing will change.
Fixed, just for you special snowflake. I did not mean it in an offensive way. I was asking for people who were. I was curious as to how many actually identified that way. You can see me however you want. Personally IDGAF about an anons opinion of me. I am me, I will always be me and nothing will change me. You say my attitude about gender and sexuality bother you and that is too bad. Maybe my attitude would be better if I was treated better by anons like you, but I am not so nothing will change.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 21 seconds later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,250
Anonymous D replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,256
@688,248 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
First you insinuated I'm homophobic, then you called me a special snowflake for explaining why your wording made this thread seem judgmental?
Goodness me. You are grating.
I'm sincerely sorry that a handful of anonymous posters harass you. That doesn't make you not owning your own attitude as an adult excusable. Grow the fuck up you miserable cunt.
First you insinuated I'm homophobic, then you called me a special snowflake for explaining why your wording made this thread seem judgmental?
Goodness me. You are grating.
I'm sincerely sorry that a handful of anonymous posters harass you. That doesn't make you not owning your own attitude as an adult excusable. Grow the fuck up you miserable cunt.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,258
It would be easier to list the people who aren't tbh.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 34 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,261
@688,256 (D)
Your first post made you sound homophobic. In fact it made you sound like an asshole.
Your second post was even worse, you were acting like a grammar nazi when you knew the thread was not intended to be judgmental. I was curious because I would actually like to know who is. Why is that a problem? You chose to pick a fight about it. Maybe instead of being an asshole about it you could have said something with a little bit more respect or decency. Like "Hey the title you posted with is kind of offensive, maybe you should change it to this?" But no, you went full throttle asshole just because you do not like me as a person when you are no better. Surprise! I bet you see yourself as a better person but in the end you are no better than what you are judging me as.
You have the nerve to call me grating. Your first post told me to shut the fuck up. Your second post insulted how I perceive my gender and sexuality. How the hell do you think I am going to react to you?
Your first post made you sound homophobic. In fact it made you sound like an asshole.
Your second post was even worse, you were acting like a grammar nazi when you knew the thread was not intended to be judgmental. I was curious because I would actually like to know who is. Why is that a problem? You chose to pick a fight about it. Maybe instead of being an asshole about it you could have said something with a little bit more respect or decency. Like "Hey the title you posted with is kind of offensive, maybe you should change it to this?" But no, you went full throttle asshole just because you do not like me as a person when you are no better. Surprise! I bet you see yourself as a better person but in the end you are no better than what you are judging me as.
You have the nerve to call me grating. Your first post told me to shut the fuck up. Your second post insulted how I perceive my gender and sexuality. How the hell do you think I am going to react to you?
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Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 36 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,263
Anonymous D replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 37 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,265
@688,261 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Your reaction would have been much the same. You have admitted yourself that you're overemotional, prone to lashing out, and don't respect anonymous posters.
You aren't deserving of gentle requests. Shut the fuck up, nexi.
Your reaction would have been much the same. You have admitted yourself that you're overemotional, prone to lashing out, and don't respect anonymous posters.
You aren't deserving of gentle requests. Shut the fuck up, nexi.
Anonymous D double-posted this 10 years ago, 41 seconds later, 38 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,266
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 45 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,270
@688,265 (D)
My reaction would have been a whole hell of a lot better if you would have had more respect about the way you approached me about it. You chose to be an asshole, I chose to react the same exact fucking way. I treat you how you treat me.
I am overemotional. I am going through puberty all over again and it sucks. I lash out at posters who insult me. I am great to the people who are actually decent to me, however you were not decent, you were just another asshole. My problem with anonymous posters is that they choose to insult my transition as anons. Just as you did. In the end you didn't even namefag to post this insulting me. Just proving the point I have been making over and over.
My reaction would have been a whole hell of a lot better if you would have had more respect about the way you approached me about it. You chose to be an asshole, I chose to react the same exact fucking way. I treat you how you treat me.
I am overemotional. I am going through puberty all over again and it sucks. I lash out at posters who insult me. I am great to the people who are actually decent to me, however you were not decent, you were just another asshole. My problem with anonymous posters is that they choose to insult my transition as anons. Just as you did. In the end you didn't even namefag to post this insulting me. Just proving the point I have been making over and over.
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #688,272
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
> I am great to the people who are actually decent to me,
Bullshite. I have replied to you with multiple nice replies. You shit all over me just because I chose to remain anon.
You are mad at people that discriminate against you. You discriminate against every anon poster.
I am pointing out how two faced you are.
> I am great to the people who are actually decent to me,
Bullshite. I have replied to you with multiple nice replies. You shit all over me just because I chose to remain anon.
You are mad at people that discriminate against you. You discriminate against every anon poster.
I am pointing out how two faced you are.
Anonymous D replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,273
@688,270 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I didn't insult your transition.
What point are you making over and over, other than your willingness to expend a lot of emotional energy over perceived slights on Minichan?
I don't dislike you. We have had friendly discussions. Around topics of sex and gender I do find you frankly insufferable. You like to posture yourself as a victim, even when (as now) it's not appropriate. It's growing tiresome.
I didn't insult your transition.
What point are you making over and over, other than your willingness to expend a lot of emotional energy over perceived slights on Minichan?
I don't dislike you. We have had friendly discussions. Around topics of sex and gender I do find you frankly insufferable. You like to posture yourself as a victim, even when (as now) it's not appropriate. It's growing tiresome.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 26 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,280
Nexi and Denmark Guy should get a room and fuck...
They are both whiney little bitches.
They are both whiney little bitches.
kook !!2HY00OZrM joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,281
do you mean same sex or same gender?
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,282
@688,272 (H)
You have made multiple replies criticizing me that is not being "nice". You choose to derail threads making them about me when they are not and should not me. You can call yourself nice but you are like every other anonymous poster. If I am correct you are the anon who said you would namefag but I would "listen" if you remained anonymous but how am I supposed to know that? You post as an anonymous person from thread to thread so I don't know who the fuck you are. If you gave a shit you wouldn't post as anon because you know how anonymous posters have been treating me and how I feel about it. You choose to attack me the same in the same manner as everyone else, as an anonymous poster. Why should I take the word of someone who cannot even have enough decency to show me who they actually are instead of just hiding behind a veil of anonymity? Like right now. I cannot hold you accountable to your words because you choose to post this way so I am not going to listen to them? You call me two-faced when in reality I just want to know ho it is I am speaking to when I know you all namefag at some point or other. I want to hold you accountable to what you say and you choose not to. You act like you care and if you actually did you would fulfill this simple request. Since you cannot why should I listen to you when you will not listen to me?
@688,273 (D)
> your generally bothersome attitudes around gender and sexuality is all I have a problem with.
You know, that sounds like an insult to me! You are insulting how I see gender and sexuality. The point I am making over and over is that you people choose to act like shitheads as anonynmous posters. It is the same shit, people who namefag I can atleast say who they are and know who it is who hates me or not.
You sure act like you dislike me. I would love to have friendly discussions. I would have loved to have a friendly discussion with the LGBT people here on minichan. You attacked me for that. You aren't the one who gets attacked in every single thread they post in. I do. Every. Single. One. Every post I make, every post I reply to some asshole has their 2¢ to throw in about my transition or about who I am, just like you did in this exact thread. You made this seem like it was some judgmental post about peoples sexuality and it was a simple god damn question and you attacked me for it. Frankly I am getting tired of that happening every single god damn time. I just want to be treated decently and that is too much to ask from people. I just want to have normal discussions with people without my gender or my sexuality being thrown into the conversation like it has something to do with it. You brought it into this thread with your reply, I did not.
You have made multiple replies criticizing me that is not being "nice". You choose to derail threads making them about me when they are not and should not me. You can call yourself nice but you are like every other anonymous poster. If I am correct you are the anon who said you would namefag but I would "listen" if you remained anonymous but how am I supposed to know that? You post as an anonymous person from thread to thread so I don't know who the fuck you are. If you gave a shit you wouldn't post as anon because you know how anonymous posters have been treating me and how I feel about it. You choose to attack me the same in the same manner as everyone else, as an anonymous poster. Why should I take the word of someone who cannot even have enough decency to show me who they actually are instead of just hiding behind a veil of anonymity? Like right now. I cannot hold you accountable to your words because you choose to post this way so I am not going to listen to them? You call me two-faced when in reality I just want to know ho it is I am speaking to when I know you all namefag at some point or other. I want to hold you accountable to what you say and you choose not to. You act like you care and if you actually did you would fulfill this simple request. Since you cannot why should I listen to you when you will not listen to me?
@688,273 (D)
> your generally bothersome attitudes around gender and sexuality is all I have a problem with.
You know, that sounds like an insult to me! You are insulting how I see gender and sexuality. The point I am making over and over is that you people choose to act like shitheads as anonynmous posters. It is the same shit, people who namefag I can atleast say who they are and know who it is who hates me or not.
You sure act like you dislike me. I would love to have friendly discussions. I would have loved to have a friendly discussion with the LGBT people here on minichan. You attacked me for that. You aren't the one who gets attacked in every single thread they post in. I do. Every. Single. One. Every post I make, every post I reply to some asshole has their 2¢ to throw in about my transition or about who I am, just like you did in this exact thread. You made this seem like it was some judgmental post about peoples sexuality and it was a simple god damn question and you attacked me for it. Frankly I am getting tired of that happening every single god damn time. I just want to be treated decently and that is too much to ask from people. I just want to have normal discussions with people without my gender or my sexuality being thrown into the conversation like it has something to do with it. You brought it into this thread with your reply, I did not.
?aka special ❄ aka anon D replied with this 10 years ago, 9 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,283
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,284
@688,281 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Either/Or. I know some people aren't attracted to trans people and that is fine. I just wanted to have a nice discussion with the LGBT people here and it got derailed. Again.
Either/Or. I know some people aren't attracted to trans people and that is fine. I just wanted to have a nice discussion with the LGBT people here and it got derailed. Again.
?aka special ❄ aka anon D replied with this 10 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,287
@688,282 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I didn't make it about your gender or sexuality, and noting that you have bothersome attitudes around topics of sex and gender was neither an insult nor a veiled attack on your transition.
I want to engage with you, but you being far too lengthy to deal with.
Edit: I do think you were sincere in wanting to know more about the gay posters here. I apologize if it seems like I derailed the thread, though I imagine it would have ended up in a similar place without me.
I didn't make it about your gender or sexuality, and noting that you have bothersome attitudes around topics of sex and gender was neither an insult nor a veiled attack on your transition.
I want to engage with you, but you being far too lengthy to deal with.
Edit: I do think you were sincere in wanting to know more about the gay posters here. I apologize if it seems like I derailed the thread, though I imagine it would have ended up in a similar place without me.
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kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 0 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,288
kook !!2HY00OZrM double-posted this 10 years ago, 33 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,289
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,293
@688,287 (?aka special ❄ aka anon D)
It sure sounded like it. If you want to engage with me then do so. Don't be an asshole about it. I want to have conversations. I want to have discussions. I want to be treated the same way I was before. I want to talk about the stuff I did before. This shit is hard and I have enough new emotions running around in my head without constantly having to fight with people here every damn day. I just want things to go back to the way they were. I never even meant to tell people here that I was trans, I fucked up and namefagged in a thread talking about it when I was posting as anon.
@previous (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
To a degree. Ponder this for a moment. If you met a Post OP M2F. Would you have a problem being with her?
It sure sounded like it. If you want to engage with me then do so. Don't be an asshole about it. I want to have conversations. I want to have discussions. I want to be treated the same way I was before. I want to talk about the stuff I did before. This shit is hard and I have enough new emotions running around in my head without constantly having to fight with people here every damn day. I just want things to go back to the way they were. I never even meant to tell people here that I was trans, I fucked up and namefagged in a thread talking about it when I was posting as anon.
@previous (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
To a degree. Ponder this for a moment. If you met a Post OP M2F. Would you have a problem being with her?
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,295
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
It would depend of if she acted like a man and if her vagina was fucked up.
It would depend of if she acted like a man and if her vagina was fucked up.
kook !!2HY00OZrM double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,297
@688,293 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
ponder this. Would you manipulate a trans womans penis with your mouth and hands?
ponder this. Would you manipulate a trans womans penis with your mouth and hands?
more positive squeegee joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #688,300
oh boy, another trans thread. what'da know, haven't had one of these in a whileNexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 29 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,301
@688,295 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I can respect that.
@688,297 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Yup! I would be a little uncomfortable at first but I would try it. My problem is buttplay. I am just not into it. I am not attracted to penises but I would give a transwoman a chance. I probably will not give a dude a chance however. Just not into them
I would give a transman a chance since they have the organ I am attracted too but I would try to make them as comfortable as possible so he doesn't feel emasculated.
I can respect that.
@688,297 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Yup! I would be a little uncomfortable at first but I would try it. My problem is buttplay. I am just not into it. I am not attracted to penises but I would give a transwoman a chance. I probably will not give a dude a chance however. Just not into them
I would give a transman a chance since they have the organ I am attracted too but I would try to make them as comfortable as possible so he doesn't feel emasculated.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 37 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,302
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,304
@688,301 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I kind of dont believe you, because I dont think that you would touch a dick, but thats okay. Being attracted to the organs that are opposite from yours doesnt make you a homosexual. If anything, you are a homogenderal because you are attracted to vaginas no matter the gender of the person who owns them.
I kind of dont believe you, because I dont think that you would touch a dick, but thats okay. Being attracted to the organs that are opposite from yours doesnt make you a homosexual. If anything, you are a homogenderal because you are attracted to vaginas no matter the gender of the person who owns them.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,306
@previous (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
You know... I would have a problem with it kook, you're right, I really would. But if I fell for a transwoman I would try to give sex a chance with her. I really would. Regardless of how it would personally make me feel I would still try. I haven't been with someone with a penis and I know how it makes me feel, but I also know how love makes me feel.
When I was with Isabel, that lesbian girl, she felt the same way about penises but she knew I loved her and she loved me and was willing to try being with me and it showed me a lot about what love and sex truly means. Even though she personally wasn't attracted to the organ I had she was attracted to me and willing to find out if she could be with me and that meant everything. I guess that is why I brag about it. It is because it had such a huge impact on my love life and how I will treat my partners in the future, if she could do it I can too.
You know... I would have a problem with it kook, you're right, I really would. But if I fell for a transwoman I would try to give sex a chance with her. I really would. Regardless of how it would personally make me feel I would still try. I haven't been with someone with a penis and I know how it makes me feel, but I also know how love makes me feel.
When I was with Isabel, that lesbian girl, she felt the same way about penises but she knew I loved her and she loved me and was willing to try being with me and it showed me a lot about what love and sex truly means. Even though she personally wasn't attracted to the organ I had she was attracted to me and willing to find out if she could be with me and that meant everything. I guess that is why I brag about it. It is because it had such a huge impact on my love life and how I will treat my partners in the future, if she could do it I can too.
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,308
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Not being mean, but I dont think that you would ever go after a transwoman and try to fall in love with them, because you know that they have a penis. Even though you would have a much better chance with them than with a lesbian.
Not being mean, but I dont think that you would ever go after a transwoman and try to fall in love with them, because you know that they have a penis. Even though you would have a much better chance with them than with a lesbian.
kook !!2HY00OZrM double-posted this 10 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,315
@688,306 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Also you say that you're a lesbian but you're also attracted to trans men. Which either means that you dont see them as men, or you realize that sex is much more important than gender.
Also you say that you're a lesbian but you're also attracted to trans men. Which either means that you dont see them as men, or you realize that sex is much more important than gender.
? replied with this 10 years ago, 2 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,316
@688,308 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I think it's more painful to watch you be incisive towards Nexi than when you were aggressively raving towards him about penis people.
It's like a handful of liver blows versus a frenzy of open handed slaps. :( be nice.
I think it's more painful to watch you be incisive towards Nexi than when you were aggressively raving towards him about penis people.
It's like a handful of liver blows versus a frenzy of open handed slaps. :( be nice.
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 54 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,317
Maddy !kCITGirlXc joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,321
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,324
@688,308 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I don't ever think I would go after one per se but I develop feelings for people quickly. Even more so as I have been on estrogen. I fall in love with personalities. Like I said before, I would date a post op in a heart beat. If I ebd up getting GRS it will he easier to date a trans woman. I don't mind if I date a lesbian, or a pansexual woman, or just a kinky woman. As long as love me for who I am.
@688,315 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I am working in the world of hypotheticals here kook. I am not saying I am attracted to them, I would much rather date a woman. That is what I am attracted to. I am saying if I sit here and think about it I would date one if I fell for one. I wouldn't date a Xy man period. If I would date any man it is going to be a transman. That is what I am saying. The only reason I would date a trans man and not an Xy man is because the genitals they have are what I am attracted to. Transmen are just as much men as I am a woman and I would treat them as such. Isabel married a transman and was happy with him. He is a man and has a vagina and doesn't care. Sexuality and gender aren't binart and black & white. Just a bunch of decimals and shades of grey.
@688,316 (?)
Kook is trying to be nice. She is trying to treat me like a human instead of like a freak. I appreciate it a lot and have seen how far she has come from us fighting constantly. It means a lot to me.
I don't ever think I would go after one per se but I develop feelings for people quickly. Even more so as I have been on estrogen. I fall in love with personalities. Like I said before, I would date a post op in a heart beat. If I ebd up getting GRS it will he easier to date a trans woman. I don't mind if I date a lesbian, or a pansexual woman, or just a kinky woman. As long as love me for who I am.
@688,315 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I am working in the world of hypotheticals here kook. I am not saying I am attracted to them, I would much rather date a woman. That is what I am attracted to. I am saying if I sit here and think about it I would date one if I fell for one. I wouldn't date a Xy man period. If I would date any man it is going to be a transman. That is what I am saying. The only reason I would date a trans man and not an Xy man is because the genitals they have are what I am attracted to. Transmen are just as much men as I am a woman and I would treat them as such. Isabel married a transman and was happy with him. He is a man and has a vagina and doesn't care. Sexuality and gender aren't binart and black & white. Just a bunch of decimals and shades of grey.
@688,316 (?)
Kook is trying to be nice. She is trying to treat me like a human instead of like a freak. I appreciate it a lot and have seen how far she has come from us fighting constantly. It means a lot to me.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,325
@688,317 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I know. This is you being nice and I get that. You want to have a discussion with me and I am happy to do that. I like this kook.
@688,321 (Maddy !kCITGirlXc)
Kook-lite
I know. This is you being nice and I get that. You want to have a discussion with me and I am happy to do that. I like this kook.
@688,321 (Maddy !kCITGirlXc)
Kook-lite
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,330
@688,324 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
But saying that you'll date a post op is kind of a cop out. You're okay with dicks when they dont look like or function like dicks.
Its like if someone considered them selves to be a vegan, but they still eat chicken nuggets because they have no resemblance to the actual animal that they are made from.
If you were attracted to women, than a dick shouldnt matter. Isabel married a transman, because they are butch lesbians. She is attracted to vaginas and so married someone with a vagina.
You say that you dont mind if you date a lesbian, or a pansexual woman, or a kinky woman, but you do very much mind if those women have dicks.
You say this while calling yourself a lesbian and that you are same sex attracted while the only sex that you've had is heterosexual intercourse. It feels appropriative. just like when you call yourself a vulnerable woman when you still leave the house looking like a man.
But saying that you'll date a post op is kind of a cop out. You're okay with dicks when they dont look like or function like dicks.
Its like if someone considered them selves to be a vegan, but they still eat chicken nuggets because they have no resemblance to the actual animal that they are made from.
If you were attracted to women, than a dick shouldnt matter. Isabel married a transman, because they are butch lesbians. She is attracted to vaginas and so married someone with a vagina.
You say that you dont mind if you date a lesbian, or a pansexual woman, or a kinky woman, but you do very much mind if those women have dicks.
You say this while calling yourself a lesbian and that you are same sex attracted while the only sex that you've had is heterosexual intercourse. It feels appropriative. just like when you call yourself a vulnerable woman when you still leave the house looking like a man.
kook !!2HY00OZrM double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,331
@previous (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I only say any of this and the Chris Chan stuff, because I need you to understand how you come across to people.
I only say any of this and the Chris Chan stuff, because I need you to understand how you come across to people.
kook !!2HY00OZrM triple-posted this 10 years ago, 10 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,336
@688,330 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Once again, not being mean, but I think that you either might be a political lesbian, or that you just really enjoy the idea of being a lesbian because you hate/dislike cis men so much.
Once again, not being mean, but I think that you either might be a political lesbian, or that you just really enjoy the idea of being a lesbian because you hate/dislike cis men so much.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,338
@688,330 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I cannot help what sexual organs I an attracted to. That is who I am. I Am trying to tell you that I would give a transwoman a chance even though I would not be attracted to the organ they have. You are right, I have never had anything but "heterosexual" sex. I have no idea what the future holds for me, I don't know who I will meet, who I will date and who can actually be attracted to me. It is all up in the air. The only thing I can do is be as open as possible about it. You seem to keep forgetting that my penis does not work.Hormones killed it. I cannot do PIV sex. That is not the reason I am attracted to vaginas. It is more than that.
Yes Isabel is attracted to people with vaginas, so is her husband. She married someone who was compatible with her sexual preferences. I am trying to tell you it wouldn't matter nearly as much as you are making it sound like it would, I would still try to be with that girl regardless of the organ she has. I would still try having sex with her and see how it goes. I like to experiment, if I love that person I am with. Even though I am not attracted to a penis does not mean I will simply walk away and refuse to be with them because they have a penis. Taking hormones doesn't change what I am attracted too. Even if I have GRS I am still going to feel this way. But I will try and that is the best I can do.
@688,331 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Chris chan fucks blow up dolls and posts videos on the internet. Do not compare me to that. I don't draw sanic comics, I don't draw comics of myself having a huge erection fucking girls. I don't mace people in stores. I don't burn down my house making coffee at 4 in the morning. I don't make videos on the internet begging for money and I don't beg the government for SSI because I am an autistic retard. I work for a living.
I cannot help what sexual organs I an attracted to. That is who I am. I Am trying to tell you that I would give a transwoman a chance even though I would not be attracted to the organ they have. You are right, I have never had anything but "heterosexual" sex. I have no idea what the future holds for me, I don't know who I will meet, who I will date and who can actually be attracted to me. It is all up in the air. The only thing I can do is be as open as possible about it. You seem to keep forgetting that my penis does not work.Hormones killed it. I cannot do PIV sex. That is not the reason I am attracted to vaginas. It is more than that.
Yes Isabel is attracted to people with vaginas, so is her husband. She married someone who was compatible with her sexual preferences. I am trying to tell you it wouldn't matter nearly as much as you are making it sound like it would, I would still try to be with that girl regardless of the organ she has. I would still try having sex with her and see how it goes. I like to experiment, if I love that person I am with. Even though I am not attracted to a penis does not mean I will simply walk away and refuse to be with them because they have a penis. Taking hormones doesn't change what I am attracted too. Even if I have GRS I am still going to feel this way. But I will try and that is the best I can do.
@688,331 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Chris chan fucks blow up dolls and posts videos on the internet. Do not compare me to that. I don't draw sanic comics, I don't draw comics of myself having a huge erection fucking girls. I don't mace people in stores. I don't burn down my house making coffee at 4 in the morning. I don't make videos on the internet begging for money and I don't beg the government for SSI because I am an autistic retard. I work for a living.
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,339
@688,336 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Another thing. You put a lot of emphasis and importance on Isabel (who seems very nice and did you a solid by taking your virginity) being a lesbian. When Isabel had sex with you, a woman with a penis, and is currently having sex with a man with a vagina. So you either dont consider the transman to be a man, you need Isabel to be a lesbian for your own personal identity problems, or like I said before, you have such a problem with cis men that you consider anyone who identifies as anything but a cis man, as a woman.
Another thing. You put a lot of emphasis and importance on Isabel (who seems very nice and did you a solid by taking your virginity) being a lesbian. When Isabel had sex with you, a woman with a penis, and is currently having sex with a man with a vagina. So you either dont consider the transman to be a man, you need Isabel to be a lesbian for your own personal identity problems, or like I said before, you have such a problem with cis men that you consider anyone who identifies as anything but a cis man, as a woman.
kook !!2HY00OZrM double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,340
@688,338 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I dont consider you to be Chris Chan like. I do though see you two do some similar things, and you should know because you need to realize how you come across.
I dont consider you to be Chris Chan like. I do though see you two do some similar things, and you should know because you need to realize how you come across.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,341
@688,336 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I am not sure what I am yet kook. Gay, straight, heteroflexible, bisexual, lesbian. I know I am attracted to girls so that is where I am going to start and since I don't know any trans women I am going to try and date XX women. I am 3 months into this. Tomorrow I am getting my hair and my nails done and going shopping for clothes. This June my boss and I are going to be planning when in July I can have my coming out party and what exactly I am going to do for that party. She has to talk to her boss first. I am taking this in steps. I am not going to go head first into this and make everybody think I am just some crossdressing wierdo, I want to answer peoples questions and make sure people understand that everything is the same as before.
I am not sure what I am yet kook. Gay, straight, heteroflexible, bisexual, lesbian. I know I am attracted to girls so that is where I am going to start and since I don't know any trans women I am going to try and date XX women. I am 3 months into this. Tomorrow I am getting my hair and my nails done and going shopping for clothes. This June my boss and I are going to be planning when in July I can have my coming out party and what exactly I am going to do for that party. She has to talk to her boss first. I am taking this in steps. I am not going to go head first into this and make everybody think I am just some crossdressing wierdo, I want to answer peoples questions and make sure people understand that everything is the same as before.
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,342
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Do you think that having a coming out party might make you look like a weirdo?
Do you think that having a coming out party might make you look like a weirdo?
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,344
@688,340 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I will continue, chris beats his mother. Doesn't shave his face. Buys toys instead of hormones, Tried to be a stripper and flipped out when he got told no.
The only way I am similar to chris is the fact that we are both transitioning.
I will continue, chris beats his mother. Doesn't shave his face. Buys toys instead of hormones, Tried to be a stripper and flipped out when he got told no.
The only way I am similar to chris is the fact that we are both transitioning.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,346
@688,342 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Probably. It is better than showing up one day in a dress. People at my work love a good party to get away from those fucking phones so I think they will appreciate the time away from them.
Probably. It is better than showing up one day in a dress. People at my work love a good party to get away from those fucking phones so I think they will appreciate the time away from them.
kook !!2HY00OZrM replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,348
@688,344 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Okay well,you are both trans women who consider themselves to be lesbians. You both had your first sexual experiences with women where you had penetrative intercourse. You both brag about losing your virginity. You both hate cis men. You're both uncomfortable/disgusted by dicks.
But you see these things as a reason why he is not actually a woman. that is my problem.
Okay well,you are both trans women who consider themselves to be lesbians. You both had your first sexual experiences with women where you had penetrative intercourse. You both brag about losing your virginity. You both hate cis men. You're both uncomfortable/disgusted by dicks.
But you see these things as a reason why he is not actually a woman. that is my problem.
kook !!2HY00OZrM double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,350
@688,346 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Well maybe you should just have a party. If I saw a gay person having a coming out party, I would see them as an attention whore who is basing their whole identity on being gay.
Well maybe you should just have a party. If I saw a gay person having a coming out party, I would see them as an attention whore who is basing their whole identity on being gay.
Anonymous H replied with this 10 years ago, 5 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,352
@688,282 (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
> If I am correct you are the anon who said you would namefag but I would "listen" if you remained anonymous but how am I supposed to know that?
Yes that is correct.
> You choose to derail threads making them about me when they are not and should not me.
Incorrect. With you I do my best to not derail threads.
> If I am correct you are the anon who said you would namefag but I would "listen" if you remained anonymous but how am I supposed to know that?
Yes that is correct.
> You choose to derail threads making them about me when they are not and should not me.
Incorrect. With you I do my best to not derail threads.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 32 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,356
@688,348 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
Most transwomens first experience was with the opposite sex having PIV sex. Technically the first time of sex I had was oral, but that it was all the same act so it ended up being PIV. That is a moot point however. I do not hate cis men, I just have no attraction to them. I can't help that. Some transwomen do and more power to them. I am happy to be friends with one. I have plenty of them. I was just always attracted to girls. I honestly wish I didn't feel this way sometimes. Girls are finally starting to be attracted to the male version of me and I have to disappoint them because I have to do this.
Chris is not disgusted by dicks. Look at his "drawings" He spends an enormous amount of time drawing how large and veiny his penis is. I sincerely believe he is doing this as a last ditch effort of finding a girlfriend. My reasons for not believing chris are none of the reasons you listed. I don't believe him because of the past things he said, I do not believe him because of the comics he drew. He draws himself as a man fucking women. In none of his old art do you see where he drew himself as a woman. That is why. When a doctor starts giving him prescriptions I will start believing he is really transgender because then he has a verifiable case of GD.
@688,350 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I might have a huge pizza, I am not sure. I am afraid all the fat people will come and eat it all like last time. Morbidly obese people at work are party food hogs.
Most transwomens first experience was with the opposite sex having PIV sex. Technically the first time of sex I had was oral, but that it was all the same act so it ended up being PIV. That is a moot point however. I do not hate cis men, I just have no attraction to them. I can't help that. Some transwomen do and more power to them. I am happy to be friends with one. I have plenty of them. I was just always attracted to girls. I honestly wish I didn't feel this way sometimes. Girls are finally starting to be attracted to the male version of me and I have to disappoint them because I have to do this.
Chris is not disgusted by dicks. Look at his "drawings" He spends an enormous amount of time drawing how large and veiny his penis is. I sincerely believe he is doing this as a last ditch effort of finding a girlfriend. My reasons for not believing chris are none of the reasons you listed. I don't believe him because of the past things he said, I do not believe him because of the comics he drew. He draws himself as a man fucking women. In none of his old art do you see where he drew himself as a woman. That is why. When a doctor starts giving him prescriptions I will start believing he is really transgender because then he has a verifiable case of GD.
@688,350 (kook !!2HY00OZrM)
I might have a huge pizza, I am not sure. I am afraid all the fat people will come and eat it all like last time. Morbidly obese people at work are party food hogs.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,357
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 hours later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,386
welp this thread is long gone
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 2 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,397
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Grate draad
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Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,412
@688,399 (N)
I mean, it is Nexus' own thread. If she wants to detail it im not gonna say no. Also she and kook seem to be disagreeing in tones that are not hostile or mean-spirited so it's within the ambit of the rules in the old sticky. If you want to make your own version of the draad you can do that and I'll delete off topic transgender arguments.
I mean, it is Nexus' own thread. If she wants to detail it im not gonna say no. Also she and kook seem to be disagreeing in tones that are not hostile or mean-spirited so it's within the ambit of the rules in the old sticky. If you want to make your own version of the draad you can do that and I'll delete off topic transgender arguments.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 46 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,415
@688,386 (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
I just wanted to have an LGBT discussion and Anon D and Anon H both ruined that.
@688,399 (N)
They do every time. I cannot make a thread without this shit happening. I am so tired of it..
I just wanted to have an LGBT discussion and Anon D and Anon H both ruined that.
@688,399 (N)
They do every time. I cannot make a thread without this shit happening. I am so tired of it..
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,417
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Fuckin' fags. Fags everywhere. I think this is the end of MC.
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 3 hours later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #688,483
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Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 4 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,594
@688,422 (?)
> Broken record
@688,430 (Meowth)
I am disappoint meowth.
@688,417 (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
I am attracted to personalities. If the girl I like is cute, great that is a bonus. I love someone I can get along with.
> Broken record
@688,430 (Meowth)
I am disappoint meowth.
@688,417 (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
I am attracted to personalities. If the girl I like is cute, great that is a bonus. I love someone I can get along with.
? replied with this 10 years ago, 10 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,627
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
I... What? You post the same thing over and over at great length. Your lack of self awareness is impressive.
I... What? You post the same thing over and over at great length. Your lack of self awareness is impressive.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 59 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,642
@previous (?)
You are doing the same thing, buddy. I know I repeat myself. I have too, some people will not listen.
You are doing the same thing, buddy. I know I repeat myself. I have too, some people will not listen.
Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,658
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
> I know I repeat myself. I have too, some people will not listen.
The more often you repeat over and over until Ad infinitum. You will only see, increasing numbers of people despising you. You cannot get it through your thick drug induced head, it does not have to be about gender issues. It is your fucking attitude.
> I know I repeat myself. I have too, some people will not listen.
The more often you repeat over and over until Ad infinitum. You will only see, increasing numbers of people despising you. You cannot get it through your thick drug induced head, it does not have to be about gender issues. It is your fucking attitude.
RWBY Rhunarb? !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,690
@previous (Q)
Well no, it is about gender issues a bit. If you have a strong opinion about certain things on here, you're gonna get trolls going for you.
Not feeding them is the most helpful thing (and Nexus should really look into that), but it's not the only factor.
Well no, it is about gender issues a bit. If you have a strong opinion about certain things on here, you're gonna get trolls going for you.
Not feeding them is the most helpful thing (and Nexus should really look into that), but it's not the only factor.
Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 4 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,755
@688,658 (Q)
I cannot change that people will despise me. People are going to hate me regardless of what I do. I am transgender and some people do not agree with that. I know people are getting tired of hearing me say the same things over and over but it doesn't make it any less true, I am going to fight for my beliefs. This is all about gender issues. I don't want to keep having the same conversation over and over. I am tired of it too but I am not going to be insulted. It sounds like your attitude needs to change as well.
@previous (RWBY Rhunarb? !!iNo3FkiZx)
I am trying KL, I just get pissed easily. Hormones are a bitch.
I cannot change that people will despise me. People are going to hate me regardless of what I do. I am transgender and some people do not agree with that. I know people are getting tired of hearing me say the same things over and over but it doesn't make it any less true, I am going to fight for my beliefs. This is all about gender issues. I don't want to keep having the same conversation over and over. I am tired of it too but I am not going to be insulted. It sounds like your attitude needs to change as well.
@previous (RWBY Rhunarb? !!iNo3FkiZx)
I am trying KL, I just get pissed easily. Hormones are a bitch.
? replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #688,772
@previous (Nexi !tRAnsGiRLo)
Why don't the other MTF posters receive even a small portion of the disdain directed your way if it is about identity?
What Anon Q is saying, as many others have, is that your attitude can be more than a little hard to tolerate. I want you to be able to defend your identity, but if you think your behavior doesn't have a lot to do with how others see you then you are deluding yourself sweet pea.
Why don't the other MTF posters receive even a small portion of the disdain directed your way if it is about identity?
What Anon Q is saying, as many others have, is that your attitude can be more than a little hard to tolerate. I want you to be able to defend your identity, but if you think your behavior doesn't have a lot to do with how others see you then you are deluding yourself sweet pea.