Topic: Happy day of mothers
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL started this discussion 10 years ago #52,084
my mums really mad at me (c pic)Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later[^] [v] #677,686
Oh, the joys of family.
Sorry, bud.
Sorry, bud.
Maddy !kCITGirlXc joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,687
So, your mom is Indian, and your dad is whyte?
Nexi !jNexusRe/. joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 9 minutes later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,691
@OP
Don't worry. You really aren't alone. My mother was like this too. She ended up disappearing so I kind of understand what you are going through.
Don't worry. You really aren't alone. My mother was like this too. She ended up disappearing so I kind of understand what you are going through.
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 9 minutes later, 24 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,696
@677,687 (Maddy !kCITGirlXc)
No they're both ethnically Indian (dad was born/grew up in Africa)
@previous (Nexi !jNexusRe/.)
A couple years ago she followed me to my uni town then ran out of money, became homeless, ran out of time at the homeless shelter, had no more welfare. I hated that.
No they're both ethnically Indian (dad was born/grew up in Africa)
@previous (Nexi !jNexusRe/.)
A couple years ago she followed me to my uni town then ran out of money, became homeless, ran out of time at the homeless shelter, had no more welfare. I hated that.
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,697
@previous (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Oh. Ok. Either way, sorry your mom is being so hostile towards you.
Oh. Ok. Either way, sorry your mom is being so hostile towards you.
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,698
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 17 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,707
Nexi !jNexusRe/. replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 48 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,710
@677,696 (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
I am really sorry to hear that. That is what is worrying me about my brother. Homeless shelters are not infinite use, there is a finite space in those and he doesn't really understand that. People think they are free lodging and they aren't.
I am really sorry to hear that. That is what is worrying me about my brother. Homeless shelters are not infinite use, there is a finite space in those and he doesn't really understand that. People think they are free lodging and they aren't.
Nexi !jNexusRe/. double-posted this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 49 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #677,711
@677,707 (Maddy !kCITGirlXc)
I am sorry but that is the wrong answer. The correct answer was A. Embarrassment Journey.
I am sorry but that is the wrong answer. The correct answer was A. Embarrassment Journey.
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 43 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #677,732
Nexi !jNexusRe/. replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #677,733
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,757
@677,710 (Nexi !jNexusRe/.)
:c that's rough
I dunno most shelters only let you stay a certian amount of time and welfare requires you to prove you're looking for a job
it's totally possible to have shelter always if you know people and the system but from what you say your brother won't be able to navigate that
she's still not back on welfare she is borrowing money from friends
that's not sustainable
I hate her for being mentally ill and incompetent at life
:c that's rough
I dunno most shelters only let you stay a certian amount of time and welfare requires you to prove you're looking for a job
it's totally possible to have shelter always if you know people and the system but from what you say your brother won't be able to navigate that
she's still not back on welfare she is borrowing money from friends
that's not sustainable
I hate her for being mentally ill and incompetent at life
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,768
@previous (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Don't hate her, it's not her fault. Plus, that just creates a burden for you.
Don't hate her, it's not her fault. Plus, that just creates a burden for you.
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,771
@previous (Maddy !kCITGirlXc)
Easier said than done
And plenty of shit was her fault
You can't just abdicate responsibility for all your actions because you have mental illnesses you refuse to treat or acknowledge
Easier said than done
And plenty of shit was her fault
You can't just abdicate responsibility for all your actions because you have mental illnesses you refuse to treat or acknowledge
Maddy !kCITGirlXc replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,773
@previous (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Well, that's true.
While I can't make you not hate her, I can advise against putting in the energy to hate someone who isn't worth it.
Well, that's true.
While I can't make you not hate her, I can advise against putting in the energy to hate someone who isn't worth it.
(Edited 6 minutes later.)
buttons joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,774
Nexi !jNexusRe/. replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,781
@677,757 (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
I totally get it. One day her friends will stop loaning her money. I hate mental illness period. It destroys so many lives.
I totally get it. One day her friends will stop loaning her money. I hate mental illness period. It destroys so many lives.
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 7 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,782
@677,774 (buttons)
She was diagnosed bipolar years before I was born
Hates doctors, refused to get me glasses, told me not to go to the dentist
Slapped the shit out of me and denies it
She didn't let me go to school or have extracurriculars for almost two years, the only "social" thing I had was violin lessons with this molesty fuck
No fuck her
She was diagnosed bipolar years before I was born
Hates doctors, refused to get me glasses, told me not to go to the dentist
Slapped the shit out of me and denies it
She didn't let me go to school or have extracurriculars for almost two years, the only "social" thing I had was violin lessons with this molesty fuck
No fuck her
lost soul joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 12 hours later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,977
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lost soul replied with this 10 years ago, 6 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #677,983
Metæ joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #678,000
@OP
What's all the stuff about "white master bastards" and slavery and having your mother locked up?
What's all the stuff about "white master bastards" and slavery and having your mother locked up?
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #678,028
@previous (Metæ)
February 2012. Our house gets foreclosed. My dad and brother come over and we pack up all the shit inside to go into storage. My mom is legally not allowed on the premises. She comes. My dad calls the cops. She is in jail for a week, gets out, and does the exact same fucking thing. My birthday is during this time, thus the reference to cake.
Therefore my dad is in cahoots with these white/jewish bastards who are continually ruining her life and stealing her documents.
February 2012. Our house gets foreclosed. My dad and brother come over and we pack up all the shit inside to go into storage. My mom is legally not allowed on the premises. She comes. My dad calls the cops. She is in jail for a week, gets out, and does the exact same fucking thing. My birthday is during this time, thus the reference to cake.
Therefore my dad is in cahoots with these white/jewish bastards who are continually ruining her life and stealing her documents.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #678,071
@previous (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Jeez I'm sorry. I also have a mentally ill mom (though she is way more functional than yours) and I know how much this sucks. This is gonna be a sore spot but eventually when you have a job and can afford to live in your own, you'll be able to cut her out of your life. The in-between years are just going to suck unfortunately but I'm sure you know that by now.
Jeez I'm sorry. I also have a mentally ill mom (though she is way more functional than yours) and I know how much this sucks. This is gonna be a sore spot but eventually when you have a job and can afford to live in your own, you'll be able to cut her out of your life. The in-between years are just going to suck unfortunately but I'm sure you know that by now.
chili dog !!81dzJNNYL (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #678,074
@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
I only pick up the phone so she doesn't end up calling my dad every day instead, she's not involved in supporting me in any way
I only pick up the phone so she doesn't end up calling my dad every day instead, she's not involved in supporting me in any way
Metæ replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #678,102
@678,028 (chili dog !!81dzJNNYL)
Yikes! Was she insane from birth or did she get that way later in life?
Yikes! Was she insane from birth or did she get that way later in life?