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Topic: Why am I such an anti-social mess?

Catherine !TGirlYJKXM started this discussion 10 years ago #52,004

I was invited by a few friends from school and yet once again I always end up the quiet one. It literally feels like I do not even have any business there and that I am merely a pet rock.

I just cannot understand how I can be overly sociable online to near attention/drama whore levels yet be so shy, timid, and quiet in public.

It's kind of depressing.

Falco !a7Q.SWNEJw joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 25 minutes later[^] [v] #676,154

Where are you

Catherine !TGirlYJKXM (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #676,155

@previous (Falco !a7Q.SWNEJw)
I'm home now.

Falco !a7Q.SWNEJw replied with this 10 years ago, 53 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #676,164

@previous (Catherine !TGirlYJKXM)
if you force yourself to be part of social situations like I do maybe youd still be at the party

Catherine !TGirlYJKXM (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #676,165

@previous (Falco !a7Q.SWNEJw)
It was just a social outing, but it ended because everybody had to leave.

Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #676,169

Just go out and have some fun, bud.

Antikhristos !M6R0eWkIpk double-posted this 10 years ago, 46 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #676,170

@676,165 (Catherine !TGirlYJKXM)
Oh, nvm then. Still, sometimes it's good to go out and get out of your comfort zone, even if all humans need to be euthanized, sometimes they can be fun.

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,188

@676,165 (Catherine !TGirlYJKXM)
Isn't that normally how social outings end? Or maybe you caused the leavings?

Catherine !TGirlYJKXM (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 15 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,193

@previous (D)
Yeah, that was what I was getting at, it ended normally.

They had rehearsals since they're in theater.

Anonymous D replied with this 10 years ago, 12 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,198

@previous (Catherine !TGirlYJKXM)
Theater people are not normal, they are competitive drama queens by definition. Find some normal people to hang with and they'll just be chilling and shit and hanging out and trying to make jokes about stuff.

Catherine !TGirlYJKXM (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 5 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,201

@previous (D)
> they'll just be chilling and shit and hanging out and trying to make jokes about stuff
So basically these people?

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,202

@676,198 (D)

That only describes a select group of theatre people, most theatre people are chill AF.

Anonymous D replied with this 10 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,203

@676,201 (Catherine !TGirlYJKXM)
Yes, but people that don't want to be attention whores

Anonymous D double-posted this 10 years ago, 46 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,204

@676,202 (E)
Not from what I've experienced

Sheila LaBoof joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 3 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,251

hanging around is fuckin boring after a few decades of adulthood

do actual things for christ sake

Nexus !jNexusRe/. joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 7 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,259

Put yourself in social situations. You don't have to be miss center of attention but you can definitley talk to people. Don't be scared if they don't like you or move on to someone else, you do the same.

kook !!mCVqftDha joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 7 hours later, 13 hours after the original post[^] [v] #676,390

You don't seem overly social online because you do a lot of it anonymously.
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