Topic: When I was like 14...
Anonymous A started this discussion 10 years ago #50,273
...I was coerced into having sex (got me high, drunk, guilted me into it with 'don't you think I'm attractive') by a somewhat older woman
She never talked to me again after that and I thought we were friends before that. My best friend at the time was there and I told him not to tell people but he told everyone.
But now I'm older and I feel like I was taken advantage of/assaulted or something
It's not a big deal but I've never told anyone or complained about it and felt like I should now
She never talked to me again after that and I thought we were friends before that. My best friend at the time was there and I told him not to tell people but he told everyone.
But now I'm older and I feel like I was taken advantage of/assaulted or something
It's not a big deal but I've never told anyone or complained about it and felt like I should now
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later[^] [v] #652,551
Cool story bro
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #652,557
> by a somewhat older woman
If she was frumpy ugly you are lucky she never talked to you again.
If she was cute and shapely with proper girl parts? Than I feel sorry for you.
If she was frumpy ugly you are lucky she never talked to you again.
If she was cute and shapely with proper girl parts? Than I feel sorry for you.
Denmark guy !jJEom8Ii3E joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 47 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #652,569
Your friend is a dick and that woman is a cunt. Both of them can go fuck themselves.
Thanks for sharing op. It's good to let this stuff out.
Thanks for sharing op. It's good to let this stuff out.
kook !!mCVqftDha joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,606
How old are you now?
Sheila LaBoof joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 4 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,631
Your alarm bells would have gone off with the alcohol and drug part if it wasn't for the fact that you wanted the alcohol and drug parts too. So, did you get what you wanted or not -- you already were participating in illegality willingly?
Best to stone everyone involved to death.
Best to stone everyone involved to death.
kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 10 years ago, 47 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,639
Sheila LaBoof replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,644
society wants us to find problems
but it raises us to be problems
but it raises us to be problems
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 29 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,646
@652,631 (Sheila LaBoof)
I was 14, not expecting sex, kill yourself you are the most useless poster here
@652,606 (kook !!mCVqftDha)
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@652,569 (Denmark guy !jJEom8Ii3E)
Thanks Denmark guy
I was 14, not expecting sex, kill yourself you are the most useless poster here
@652,606 (kook !!mCVqftDha)
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@652,569 (Denmark guy !jJEom8Ii3E)
Thanks Denmark guy
Sheila LaBoof replied with this 10 years ago, 53 minutes later, 10 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,662
@previous (A)
you expect drunkeness and highness at that age just fine though apparently
You are hateful
you expect drunkeness and highness at that age just fine though apparently
You are hateful
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 31 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,665
@previous (Sheila LaBoof)
Yes I'm hateful
I hate you
Don't cost me a thang to hate you either
You are a real piece of shit loser who has nothing good to say. Ever. and don't give me that 'I'm just shitposting' excuse bc it's bullshit. Even your shitposts are mind numbingly bad. because you are stupid as shit
I'm not even mad or upset with you I just genuinely hope you realize what a piece of shit you are in time or at least feel bad that someone dislikes you this much
Because I'm hateful
Yes I'm hateful
I hate you
Don't cost me a thang to hate you either
You are a real piece of shit loser who has nothing good to say. Ever. and don't give me that 'I'm just shitposting' excuse bc it's bullshit. Even your shitposts are mind numbingly bad. because you are stupid as shit
I'm not even mad or upset with you I just genuinely hope you realize what a piece of shit you are in time or at least feel bad that someone dislikes you this much
Because I'm hateful
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 10 years ago, 10 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,667
@652,644 (Sheila LaBoof)
And do you really think it's appropriate to parrot your dumb-shit angsty platitudes in a topic where someone is talking about something deeply personal and possibly troubling to them? When you have less capacity for sympathy than Denmark Guy (whose sympathies are usually ingenuine and passive aggressive as hell) you know you're in trouble
Work on yourself
And do you really think it's appropriate to parrot your dumb-shit angsty platitudes in a topic where someone is talking about something deeply personal and possibly troubling to them? When you have less capacity for sympathy than Denmark Guy (whose sympathies are usually ingenuine and passive aggressive as hell) you know you're in trouble
Work on yourself
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,672
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 2 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,687
@652,665 (A)
Interestingly, he only pretends to be stupid. He once made a very insightful post about communism, proving that he is merely an undercover memester.
Interestingly, he only pretends to be stupid. He once made a very insightful post about communism, proving that he is merely an undercover memester.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 14 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,689
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 3 hours later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #652,701
@652,687 (I)
> Interestingly, he only pretends to be stupid. He once made a very insightful post about communism, proving that he is merely an undercover memester.
No. He's just a shitbag. Like you.
> Interestingly, he only pretends to be stupid. He once made a very insightful post about communism, proving that he is merely an undercover memester.
No. He's just a shitbag. Like you.
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 8 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #652,870
Sheila LaBoof replied with this 10 years ago, 5 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #652,953
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 20 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,161
Sheila LaBoof replied with this 10 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,186
kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 10 years ago, 21 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,187
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 56 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,190
@653,186 (Sheila LaBoof)
I was just making a post. I don't feel the need to blame anyone or even feel very bad about any of this. stop with the angsty shitpost garbage
I was just making a post. I don't feel the need to blame anyone or even feel very bad about any of this. stop with the angsty shitpost garbage
kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 10 years ago, 13 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,194
@previous (A)
I'm glad that you did make this post. More males should speak out about their experiences involving sexual misconduct against them.
I'm glad that you did make this post. More males should speak out about their experiences involving sexual misconduct against them.
Sheila LaBoof replied with this 10 years ago, 12 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,271
@653,187 (kook !!mCVqftDha)
His social environment, including family, friends, locality, media and so forth made it easy for him to grow into a someone who is an easy target. A kid who is not directed away from mischief, and subsequently crime, is far more likely to be a target of mischief and crime. Being a drink-craving, drug using, law-ignoring juvenile is what our society produces with shameful ease. It's as if that is what our society wants. Who is benefitting from this situation? Who is pulling the strings? If we follow the money, where does it lead?
His social environment, including family, friends, locality, media and so forth made it easy for him to grow into a someone who is an easy target. A kid who is not directed away from mischief, and subsequently crime, is far more likely to be a target of mischief and crime. Being a drink-craving, drug using, law-ignoring juvenile is what our society produces with shameful ease. It's as if that is what our society wants. Who is benefitting from this situation? Who is pulling the strings? If we follow the money, where does it lead?
Anonymous H replied with this 10 years ago, 9 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,273
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,276
@653,271 (Sheila LaBoof)
That doesn't describe me at all. You're being really presumptuous and rude. Have a drink
That doesn't describe me at all. You're being really presumptuous and rude. Have a drink
Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 17 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,279
@previous (A)
A question if I may. Did the early abuse affect your relationships with girls, when you began dating? Besides the hurt you now feel over this event of the past; have there been any positives?
A question if I may. Did the early abuse affect your relationships with girls, when you began dating? Besides the hurt you now feel over this event of the past; have there been any positives?
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,281
@previous (L)
What abuse? Did I say I felt hurt? I had shitty friends and got new ones and got over it
Neutral experience
What abuse? Did I say I felt hurt? I had shitty friends and got new ones and got over it
Neutral experience
kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 10 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,286
Anonymous L replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,290
@653,281 (A)
> Neutral experience
OK. However you did lose your virginity in an unexpected way. Usually based on what my friends tell me, the first experience was not terrific anyway. In my case and it was even a little younger than yours - It was beyond wonderful. It was also at great risk for loss of more than just friends.
> Neutral experience
OK. However you did lose your virginity in an unexpected way. Usually based on what my friends tell me, the first experience was not terrific anyway. In my case and it was even a little younger than yours - It was beyond wonderful. It was also at great risk for loss of more than just friends.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,294
Anonymous L replied with this 10 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,296
@previous (A)
So share. How old were you when you lost it and how was that. True you have not shared what it was like with the somewhat older woman. Care to share? I was 12-13. becky used to get on my case when I shared details.
So share. How old were you when you lost it and how was that. True you have not shared what it was like with the somewhat older woman. Care to share? I was 12-13. becky used to get on my case when I shared details.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,298
@previous (L)
You probably just like reading stories involving adolescents engaged in sex acts so I'm going to say No
You probably just like reading stories involving adolescents engaged in sex acts so I'm going to say No
Anonymous L replied with this 10 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,301
@previous (A)
Sorry that was not the purpose for asking you.
As good as my experience was, it could have resulted in pregnancy and years later with a condom, past teen years I ended up making a child. So there is great danger to starting out to young. Stories about it may encourage a teen, to make a mistake that has lifelong effects.
Sorry that was not the purpose for asking you.
As good as my experience was, it could have resulted in pregnancy and years later with a condom, past teen years I ended up making a child. So there is great danger to starting out to young. Stories about it may encourage a teen, to make a mistake that has lifelong effects.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,302
@previous (L)
Effects like having to pay for your daughter's Harvard education and she'll never know that you're her father?
Effects like having to pay for your daughter's Harvard education and she'll never know that you're her father?
Anonymous L replied with this 10 years ago, 48 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,311
@previous (A)
Exactly
If however the father that raised her dies before I do. Then she will no.
And there are other ways she can find out. For instance his blood type and hers - If she ever asks him, she will no immediately he is not the bio dad
Nor did I have to pay anything. That is my choice.
Exactly
If however the father that raised her dies before I do. Then she will no.
And there are other ways she can find out. For instance his blood type and hers - If she ever asks him, she will no immediately he is not the bio dad
Nor did I have to pay anything. That is my choice.
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 10 years ago, 5 hours later, 3 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,350
@previous (L)
I don't give a hoot old man I have heard that story way too many times
And it's a bad story
Stop telling it please
I don't give a hoot old man I have heard that story way too many times
And it's a bad story
Stop telling it please
Sheila LaBoof replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,415
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,454
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 10 years ago, 7 minutes later, 3 days after the original post[^] [v] #653,457
@previous (M)
> ...I was coerced into having sex (got me high, drunk, guilted me into it with 'don't you think I'm attractive') by a somewhat older woman
Text is full of male angst. OP has been boozing it up almost as bad as bert.
> ...I was coerced into having sex (got me high, drunk, guilted me into it with 'don't you think I'm attractive') by a somewhat older woman
Text is full of male angst. OP has been boozing it up almost as bad as bert.