Topic: What would you do if you found out your kid is sexually active?
Methlyfe !KansasxqvM started this discussion 11 years ago #44,842
I gave him condoms. 14 is so young though, I'm seriously uncomfortable with this. Stopping him from having sex is unrealistic. I really wasn't prepared to deal with this situation yet, I didn't have a game plan.(Edited 6 minutes later.)
r04r joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 9 minutes later[^] [v] #592,217
I deleted brie's shitposts in this thread because this is a serious topic and he is incapable of anything but incoherent shitposting at the moment, it seems. Methlyfe, if you want them back I'll restore them.
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protip !!pMmAiEwOm joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,219
Yes, be supportive, provide some manner of instruction, and teach him about consent and respect.
Good on you for providing condoms.
Good on you for providing condoms.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 3 minutes later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,223
@OP
> I gave him condoms. 14 is so young though, I'm seriously uncomfortable with this. Stopping him from having sex is unrealistic. I really wasn't prepared to deal with this situation yet, I didn't have a game plan.
you better call the cops
get him to take pics as proof
> I gave him condoms. 14 is so young though, I'm seriously uncomfortable with this. Stopping him from having sex is unrealistic. I really wasn't prepared to deal with this situation yet, I didn't have a game plan.
you better call the cops
get him to take pics as proof
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TTEH !FFSTTEHV7. joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 40 seconds later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,224
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 53 seconds later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,225
Do you think he could give me any tips on getting laid?
The Owl !KThEOwLwbU joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 1 minute later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,226
just make sure he is well informed and shit
14 is well into puberty, did you not remember how horny you were at that age
also talk about stds so he doesn't ride the town bike and get cockrot
14 is well into puberty, did you not remember how horny you were at that age
also talk about stds so he doesn't ride the town bike and get cockrot
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Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 2 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,228
maybe also discuss stds though i guess thats not really a problem at that age yet
Methlyfe !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 11 years ago, 21 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,230
@previous (I)
@592,226 (The Owl !KThEOwLwbU)
I didn't even think of stds, I was too worried about the pregnancy prospect. Good advice guys.
@592,217 (r04r)
You did good.
@592,223 (E)
He told me his mom said sex at his age is illegal (like that is gonna do what?),
so he can't let her find out or he'll get in big trouble. I was baffled by that,
I'm no fan of my ex but I honestly expected more rational and pragmatic handling of the subject. What else is she royally fucking up?
@592,219 (protip !!pMmAiEwOm)
Consent and respect will be discussed in our next conversation on sex. I didn't think of that either. Good advice.
@everyone
I thought about making this topic here for weeks, but I just wasn't sure this was the place. I was wrong. You guys are the best. Any other advice is welcome.
@592,225 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
I will seriously ask him and report back with his advice. He will enjoy that.
@592,226 (The Owl !KThEOwLwbU)
I didn't even think of stds, I was too worried about the pregnancy prospect. Good advice guys.
@592,217 (r04r)
You did good.
@592,223 (E)
He told me his mom said sex at his age is illegal (like that is gonna do what?),
so he can't let her find out or he'll get in big trouble. I was baffled by that,
I'm no fan of my ex but I honestly expected more rational and pragmatic handling of the subject. What else is she royally fucking up?
@592,219 (protip !!pMmAiEwOm)
Consent and respect will be discussed in our next conversation on sex. I didn't think of that either. Good advice.
@everyone
I thought about making this topic here for weeks, but I just wasn't sure this was the place. I was wrong. You guys are the best. Any other advice is welcome.
@592,225 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
I will seriously ask him and report back with his advice. He will enjoy that.
squeegee joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 13 minutes later, 56 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #592,232
dispel all rumors about "washing cum out" or "she can't get pregnant the first time." i know two people with kids becuase they were misinformed.
good on you for the condoms, he should know he can at least get good helpful advice from one parent even if the other one has her head in the sand and thinks manipulation will work.
and give the little dude a high 5 for coming to you
good on you for the condoms, he should know he can at least get good helpful advice from one parent even if the other one has her head in the sand and thinks manipulation will work.
and give the little dude a high 5 for coming to you
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Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 37 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #592,234
protip !!pMmAiEwOm replied with this 11 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,248
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 58 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,265
I find it extremely difficult to believe that anyone here is a responsible parent.
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,281
perv on his gf probably
hater !JGlOo5d1iU joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 3 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,327
@OP
Teach him that young girls are fucking psychos and he needs to protect himself from accusations of rape. Teach him about affirmative consent, make sure he knows to text girls after to get them to say something positive to protect himself from rape accusations. Teach him about how, even if he is drunk too, he can be labeled and charged with rape if the girl had anything to drink.
This will be more important in college, but it's definitely something that will help him now. There is a movement in this country to vilify men and male sexuality and it's based in colleges around the country. A chick's regrets can ruin his life.
Maybe encourage him to go gay. More sex, less bullshit, but dudes are kind of not sexy to me so I don't know if you can make that work, but if you can its best bet.
At the very least, teach him about overt enthusiastic consent and to never fuck a chick on drugs or who's had a drink. Won't really help cause sex is a controlling force, but it's all you can do.
Teach him that young girls are fucking psychos and he needs to protect himself from accusations of rape. Teach him about affirmative consent, make sure he knows to text girls after to get them to say something positive to protect himself from rape accusations. Teach him about how, even if he is drunk too, he can be labeled and charged with rape if the girl had anything to drink.
This will be more important in college, but it's definitely something that will help him now. There is a movement in this country to vilify men and male sexuality and it's based in colleges around the country. A chick's regrets can ruin his life.
Maybe encourage him to go gay. More sex, less bullshit, but dudes are kind of not sexy to me so I don't know if you can make that work, but if you can its best bet.
At the very least, teach him about overt enthusiastic consent and to never fuck a chick on drugs or who's had a drink. Won't really help cause sex is a controlling force, but it's all you can do.
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Methlyfe !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 11 years ago, 5 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,329
@previous (hater !JGlOo5d1iU)
Yeah, the consent discussion will take place. I'm not too worried about that right now because it's his girlfriend of 6 months, but covering his ass later with other girls would be a good idea. The only problem I'd have with gay kids is a lack of grandchildren.
Yeah, the consent discussion will take place. I'm not too worried about that right now because it's his girlfriend of 6 months, but covering his ass later with other girls would be a good idea. The only problem I'd have with gay kids is a lack of grandchildren.
hater !JGlOo5d1iU replied with this 11 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,332
@previous (Methlyfe !KansasxqvM)
Doesnt matter how long they've been together. Make sure he knows now. Also, explain 14 is too young, and he rally should be sticking to handjobs, blowjobs, Titjobs, dry humping, and anal. A kid will ruin his life. Stress that. Make sure he knows that kids are a horrible expensive waste of resources and all parents regret having them.
Doesnt matter how long they've been together. Make sure he knows now. Also, explain 14 is too young, and he rally should be sticking to handjobs, blowjobs, Titjobs, dry humping, and anal. A kid will ruin his life. Stress that. Make sure he knows that kids are a horrible expensive waste of resources and all parents regret having them.
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kook !!Phkn/3Gic joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 21 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,333
Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,335
@592,327 (hater !JGlOo5d1iU)
lol you're attracted to girls who legally cannot consent but also convinced there's a giant conspiracy to entrap men whom did not obtain consent
lol you're attracted to girls who legally cannot consent but also convinced there's a giant conspiracy to entrap men whom did not obtain consent
hater !JGlOo5d1iU replied with this 11 years ago, 59 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,336
@592,333 (kook !!Phkn/3Gic)
Colleges should have prostitutes on staff to rub bothered frat guys off.
Colleges should have prostitutes on staff to rub bothered frat guys off.
hater !JGlOo5d1iU double-posted this 11 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,339
@592,335 (Q)
Huh? It's not a conspiracy to entrap men. The intention is to stop rape, however, it's not because of rape but because of feminism and they're over zealous. If they were simply malicious it would be a lot easier to prevent, cause girls don't wanna fuck over their boyfriends and shit.
It's not like its likely to happen to any particular kid, but it can.
Edit: also, I fail to see what the ability to legally consent has to do with anything.
Huh? It's not a conspiracy to entrap men. The intention is to stop rape, however, it's not because of rape but because of feminism and they're over zealous. If they were simply malicious it would be a lot easier to prevent, cause girls don't wanna fuck over their boyfriends and shit.
It's not like its likely to happen to any particular kid, but it can.
Edit: also, I fail to see what the ability to legally consent has to do with anything.
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Anonymous Q replied with this 11 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,340
hater !JGlOo5d1iU replied with this 11 years ago, 2 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,341
@previous (Q)
You seem really jealous. I'm sorry your typical. Not everyone can be special.
You seem really jealous. I'm sorry your typical. Not everyone can be special.
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Anonymous D replied with this 11 years ago, 2 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,345
@previous (hater !JGlOo5d1iU)
Now, I understand this thread has you super excited about the thoughts of 14 year olds taking dick, but Imma need you to just clam down.
Now, I understand this thread has you super excited about the thoughts of 14 year olds taking dick, but Imma need you to just clam down.
hater !JGlOo5d1iU replied with this 11 years ago, 15 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,349
Triptych joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 9 hours later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,394
Wow there are a lot of surprisingly good responses in this thread
Stds/pregnancy/what to do if the condom breaks/consent/sex is generally overrated don't get pressured
Stds/pregnancy/what to do if the condom breaks/consent/sex is generally overrated don't get pressured
Anonymous N replied with this 11 years ago, 4 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,395
Anonymous L replied with this 11 years ago, 17 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #592,401
@592,345 (D)
@592,349 (hater !JGlOo5d1iU)
It's the son who is 14, not the girl(s) (or boys) taking his dick. Their age, gender and count was not specified. Perhaps they are older?
@592,349 (hater !JGlOo5d1iU)
It's the son who is 14, not the girl(s) (or boys) taking his dick. Their age, gender and count was not specified. Perhaps they are older?
kook !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 11 years ago, 5 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #592,466
Anonymous S joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #592,469
Anonymous T joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 31 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #592,477
@592,335 (Q)
> lol you're attracted to girls who legally cannot consent but also convinced there's a giant conspiracy to entrap men whom did not obtain consent
> lol you're attracted to girls who legally cannot consent but also convinced there's a giant conspiracy to entrap men whom did not obtain consent
Methlyfe !KansasxqvM (OP) replied with this 11 years ago, 13 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #592,482
@592,395 (N)
Same kind of dummy it seems. I just googled 'this kills the man' and found it.
@592,401 (L)
They are both 14.
Same kind of dummy it seems. I just googled 'this kills the man' and found it.
@592,401 (L)
They are both 14.