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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,913
@previous (E)
Drugs are a better solution for rapists. It's too easy for a rapist to break/escape one of those devices, and I imagine that being required by to wear it at all time with no exceptions can lead to complications. I guess they could use them as a sort of parole, but drugs already work. Also, "I'm strictly talking about it as a sort of sexual game."
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,934
@previous (F) @79,808 (r04r)
Anyway, I think some guys like it because the sexual frustration and teasing can be fun, as long as it's not taken too far. Also, they say they hide underneath clothing and things well, and wearing one around all day and not having anyone know it sounds kinky. Kind of a reminder of what you might have waiting for you. I've been reading up on it, and some couples take it to the extreme of cuckolding, where the wife fucks other guys while the husband is locked up in chastity. I think that's only OK if the guy really wants to do it and gets off on his wife doing other guys. I think some wives might take it too far, and the guy might not really like it but she pretty much torments him anyway and just want to be with other guys. Maybe the guy really gets off on being humiliated to that extent, but I just think that's unhealthy and taking it too far. Who am I to judge if he's really into it.
I have heard some stories online, where the wife really controls the husband and puts him in a position where he's pretty much be out on the street unless he does it. Like it really isn't so much a game as the wife really is just coercing him and there's not much he can do about. Then the wife brags about how she does other guys behind his back, while he can't even jack off or watch porn because she considers that cheating. This is just plain sick IMO and should not be used that way. These stories might be just that: stories. I'm sure some people post about their roleplaying as if it were real, and some online trolls might just be throwing stories out there to scare people, but it really scares me that some people might do this.
There are also women who say they do this because they consider masturbating or looking at porn to be cheating. That's complete bullshit and I'd never date a woman who thought that. If there is a dispute about that, you should either talk your way through it or end the relationship. Locking up a dick for any reason other than playing around just doesn't seem right to me. Now, I can see how not being able to masturbate can make the tension build up, the release that much better, and the attention to your partner that much greater, but you do it for those reasons, not because masturbation is cheating. Then there are also some wives who say they lock up their husbands because they don't trust them or don't want them cheating, especially if they have cheated before. Again, if infidelity is an issue, that's something that you need to talk about, and making a man wear one against his will won't solve the real problems in the relationship. These people might just be telling more stories though. Like I said, I don't know how everyone roleplays. Bottom line is I think using them for anything other than fun is just wrong. If a woman insists on keeping the keys, she should at least give the man a safe word just like in any other game.
Anyhoot, those are all my thoughts now that I can type them out. I hope this opens that conversation a bit. Any thoughts? Questions?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,942
@previous (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
That's kinda the idea, but it reality it's impossible for them to prevent boners completely. All they really do is inhibit them, and apply a lot of pressure if they do get passed it and get a strong one. It's kinda like pressure in a soda bottle. I've heard they're not meant to be too painful or uncomfortable, but something about the feeling sends a signal to the brain to knock it off. They say the first few nights they had to be taken off because they couldn't sleep from the discomfort, but after a while the body sort of gets used to it and you no longer get erections at night.
Also, even with an erection, masturbation is extremely difficult (but I've been told sometimes possible), not to mention that penetration is also pretty much not an option. I've heard that getting the shaft out of it is possible too, but you'll never get it back in without unlocking it, taking it off completely and putting back on completely and relocking it. You can get your shaft out, but getting your balls out is impossible, so that would be awkward. They also say you have to sit down when you pee. Some say they can stand up, but if everything isn't perfectly lined up it will spray everywhere and in public that would be just plain embarrassing. Best to just sit down or take it off.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,944
I mentioned earlier that I have a whole suitcase full of kinky shit, but this is one thing I wouldn't do. One of my exes wanted me to get a prince albert piercing, and then later wanted me to get something like this designed for it. There was no way in hell I was getting my dick pierced, let alone having it used against me afterwards.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 48 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,945
@79,943 (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
What part of all that would be awkward? And yes, a lot of people are into it. Just google it and you'd be surprised at how much comes up. You might work with someone wearing one and not even know it. Then again, what isn't there a lot of on the internet.
Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6 replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,946
@previous (A)
Not being able to piss normally, or it being very difficult.
Not jacking off, for most people.
The lack of control of your genitals. But, yeah, I can see how people would be into that. Are you?
Lol, it's not so surprising, no. It's just...disconcerting, a little.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,949
@previous (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
I don't think pissing is difficult, but yeah I can see how it's awkward. The no jacking off part, and the not having control over your genitals part, I agree that could be awkward but that's why I said that it should only be used as a game, and the guy should either be given a key just in case, or a safe word. It should be voluntary, but obviously there should be incentive to leave it on, if that makes sense. That's why I said it's not right if the woman just does it because there are trust or control issues. This would probably just create more problems than it solves in that case. Some people on forums have told me that I'm wrong and just don't get it, or think I'm judging them, but I think they're judging me just for not wanting to take it to that extreme a level.
Yes, I'm interested in it, but I don't currently have a partner or a device. Just something I wanted to talk about anonymously. See if anyone has similar thoughts, see if anyone else was into it and what sort of advice or experiences someone might want to share.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^][v]#79,961
@previous (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
Trust is obviously a big issue, and it's probably only for people who have been in a relationship for a long time. I guess with the safe word and/or having your own key just in case, there doesn't have to be that much trust. At least enough trust where you know the other person will keep a secret. Now, for the people who take it to much higher roleplaying levels, where the man is really into being dominated and humiliated, he doesn't have a choice and likes it that way, yeah, I can see how that takes a huge amount of trust, and is probably only for couples who have been married for a very long time and have a very healthy marriage where no issues will interfere with the power balance of the game. For example, even if they've been married for 10 years, if they have issues where the wife constantly threatens divorce and uses that to coerce the man, or there's infidelity and the device is used for that reason, those are obviously unhealthy situations that you wouldn't want to be in.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 13 hours later, 18 hours after the original post[^][v]#80,147
@79,954 (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
Also, the people who do it for spiritual or religious reasons aren't going to wear one of these devices. It's not like a catholic priest is going to keep his dick in a cage, and even if one does that's pretty perverted. The people who do it for spiritual/religious reasons aren't going to do so in any sort of kinky way. They do it through self-control. I'm not talking about chastity as a virtue.
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^][v]#80,195
@previous (A)
This could prove to be pretty interesting. You should definitely show a timestamp in the photos. @OP
Chastity devices are hot in general. The concept is somewhat new to me, but I certainly like the idea of it. Not as a forced restriction, but as a way to tease yourself/a consenting partner.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^][v]#80,200
@previous (I)
They will be timestamped. I'm glad I finally caught someone's interests. Are you a guy who's interested in it or a girl who's interested in locking up a guy?
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^][v]#80,283
@80,254 (A)
Yes. I know that's not really what the thread is about, but oh well. Figured I'd contribute my thoughts to chastity devices in general. I've seen a few pictures of female chastity devices from what someone has sent me in the past, but I haven't really done too much research on them myself. But I still like the idea. What pushed you to buy one for yourself, though?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 22 hours after the original post[^][v]#80,285
@previous (I)
I've been intrigued by them for years, and I've been in relationships where it was sort of an option, and while I'm not in that sort of relationship right now, I can see myself in one in the future. I couldn't stand the curiosity anymore and had to get one, try it, get used to it, and then maybe find a girl who's into it.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 31 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,424
@80,285 (A)
Nice. How many hours/days do you plan to keep it on for when you do wear it? @80,369 (r04r)
Random question: do you tend to be a pushover irl?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,456
@80,424 (I)
I'll just have to wait and see what I handle. I hear that it can take a long time to adjust to it, so you sometimes have to take it off at night and can only wear it for so many hours a day, and you just gotta work your way up. I hope I can eventually keep it on for a month.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,459
@80,455 (r04r)
I was just curious. I was also wondering how easily you might give in to a partners request to have the device removed. I think it's extremely sexy when women aren't pushovers, though. Maybe this can just be considered bitchiness, but I also love it when women, for example, bluntly tell people to get the fuck out of their way, (not with those words exactly), instead of just shyly standing by, trying a different route, or quietly and timidly saying "Excuse me". I wouldn't think its hot if she were to do that to random folk, but if we were in a setting where some rude ass holes were blocking an exit or something and she spoke up, I would admire and love that.
/pointless opinions and thoughts @previous (A)
Have you tried it on yet today? If so, how does it feel? > I hope I can eventually keep it on for a month. > A month.
Holy cow.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,463
@80,461 (r04r)
That's what I figured. I would probably make for a terrible dom in a situation like this. I'm too easily influenced by other peoples requests and desires. I'd likely take it off after a cute look and "preeeetty pleaaaase." @previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
To be honest, I'm really not sure.
r04r replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,467
@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Of course it's severely limited, but most of it is possible. A good idea would be to take it off under supervision every (few) day(s) to preform a proper cleaning and then put it back on.
r04r replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,479
@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Well she has also spent some longer time in it without being let out (Two weeks or so) when her boyfriend was away, and has had no issues so far.
r04r replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,484
@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
She did manage to clean rather well with the belt on. Obviously I don't have the specifics, but she didn't seem to be too negative about it.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,658
k, I'm wearing it now. It's a pretty tight fit, especially since it was impossible to get it on without becoming somewhat aroused, which made it harder to get on, and the more you struggle to get everything in place, well it just goes downhill from there.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,664
@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
You know that feeling you get when you're wearing kinda tight jeans, and your dick is pointing down, and you get an erection but it can't point up, and so you feel a lot of pressure? It's kinda like that, but in all directions and you can't do anything to fix it. At least, when you're aroused anyway. Once you calm down you can almost forget it's there. There's just a slight tug.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,913
@80,526 (A) @80,658 (A) @80,659 (A) @80,660 (A)
Interesting. Also, do you ever namefag? I feel like this is the first thread to ever have time stamped photos of genitals lol. This is MC history. So, is it still on now?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#80,932
@previous (I)
I'm not wearing it now. I woke up sometime after 4 in morning because nocturnal erections were making it painful. Not unbearably painful, just enough to wake me up and not let me get back to sleep. They say if that happens you should take it off until you get used to it. I do sometimes namefag, but for obvious reasons decided to go anon in this thread. So yeah, first time MC has had timestamped genitals and I might be someone you know.
Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#81,340
@80,932 (A)
Ah alright. And yeah, it looked to be a bit tight fitting. It appears painful. > and I might be someone you know.
That's interesting. Care to drop any hints? I understand if you'd rather not. @81,209 (A)
Good luck.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 14 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^][v]#81,700
@previous (I)
It's really not painful, or at least not in those pics anyway. It hurt when I woke up this morning, but that's because I'll have morning wood for several hours and feel sore as soon as I wake up, so I took it off again. Gonna try again tonight. I did manage to wear it all day one day, and it didn't bother me much. It's only wearing it at night that can be uncomfortable.
Actually, I might just leave it off tonight and try wearing it all day Tuesday, and Tuesday night, then see how I feel Wednesday. It takes some time to adjust.
NameFag !i06UdJ5ksI replied with this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 4 days after the original post[^][v]#82,665
@82,661 (A)
yeah but what kind of secluded retard would put one of those on himself... you can't clean yourself that easy and it's gotta be bad for blood pressure or gives you testicular cancer or something
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[^][v]#82,674
@82,664 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Right now, no, not at all. It only hurts at 4 in the morning when I can't control my morning erections and wake up feeling sore.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 4 days after the original post[^][v]#82,688
@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
I'm aroused by it, which in a way makes it more difficult. I enjoy the sexual frustration. As mentioned earlier, I did dabble in orgasm denial with a previous girlfriend. I'm only showing it here to find out what people think, and see if there's anyone here with similar fetishes. I know a couple swingers who might be interested in it, but don't know how to bring it up with them.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 14 years ago, 9 hours later, 1 year after the original post[^][v]#326,057
@previous (T)
I've been OK. I've been feeling kind of lonely and depressed over the past couple months. People keep blowing me off. I've been using my spare time to job search and focus on career stuff to take my mind off the personal stuff. As far as the chastity thing goes, I don't really use it much. It's too hard to wear at night and it's more fun when you have someone to play the game with you. I can still post some pics and find some links. Maybe I'll try wearing it again tonight and take some more pictures.
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 14 years ago, 9 hours later, 1 year after the original post[^][v]#326,345
@326,108 (T)
This is a really good website for starting out. It dispels a lot of the myths/misconceptions. It doesn't talk much about the devices though. http://www.malechastityblog.com/
I think the worst myth is that you have to be a submissive male to be into chastity/orgasm denial. I don't think that's the case at all. I don't consider myself submissive at all. I just like the idea of orgasm denial and orgasm control. In fact, if I were in a relationship where my girlfriend tried to use it as a way to control, coerce, or humiliate me, that would be an instant deal breaker. I find it demeaning. I respect couples that go that route, but it's not for me.
It's interesting, but as mentioned above, I don't like the idea of women using it as a method of control to that degree. Part of me still wants to try it though.
> I've been OK. I've been feeling kind of lonely and depressed over the past couple months. People keep blowing me off. I've been using my spare time to job search and focus on career stuff to take my mind off the personal stuff. As far as the chastity thing goes, I don't really use it much. It's too hard to wear at night and it's more fun when you have someone to play the game with you. I can still post some pics and find some links. Maybe I'll try wearing it again tonight and take some more pictures.
Anonymous R replied with this 7 years ago, 4 minutes later, 7 years after the original post[^][v]#921,444
@previous (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
I'm aroused by it, which in a way makes it more difficult. I enjoy the sexual frustration. As mentioned earlier, I did dabble in orgasm denial with a previous girlfriend. I'm only showing it here to find out what people think, and see if there's anyone here with similar fetishes. I know a couple swingers who might be interested in it, but don't know how to bring it up with them.
> I mentioned earlier that I have a whole suitcase full of kinky shit, but this is one thing I wouldn't do. One of my exes wanted me to get a prince albert piercing, and then later wanted me to get something like this designed for it. There was no way in hell I was getting my dick pierced, let alone having it used against me afterwards.
LadyD !Pool..v42s joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 6 minutes later, 11 years after the original post[^][v]#1,205,938
@previous (mandark)
I thought it was, but he joined in a third of the way through and mentioned he wouldn't be interested in this. He mentioned something about not wanting a prince Albert also itt
Anonymous Z-25 joined in and replied with this 3 years ago, 7 hours later, 11 years after the original post[^][v]#1,206,113
@1,205,988 (mandark)
his career demanded that he return to the forum and ask a kindly moderator to help remove some of the content. it wasn't a huge loss, and now (perhaps) he is very successful!!