Topic: My parents think I am going crazy.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU started this discussion 15 years ago #4,425

I'm getting told that the fact I:

spend all my time on the internet talking to one person
spend all my time on the internet
spend all my time alone
refuse to get my licence
refuse to get a part-time job
have no friends
hate being around people
and refuse to go out places

is bad.

My parents are now trying to limit me on the internet thinking it will force me to go out and be friendly. It won't. And they keep mentioning a psychologist and are asking how I'm going to make a life if I am a recluse...

And they're suspicious of a knife they found in the bathroom (I didn't use it), and I don't know what they think of that. They've been acting funny since then...

What the fuck do I do, guys?

Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #78,931

Start acting normal around them.

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,932

It's a phase, dear! Hopefully, just a phase. I so suggest you go to a psychologist though! Just to talk to someone who knows how you feel. Also to confirm if you're suicidal or not.

DrGreen !pFNWNYROxA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 22 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,934

I got sent to a day rehab for stuff like this.

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,936

You need to see a therapist.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,939

@78,932 (C)
well um, about that last part...I get a lot of suicidal thoughts rather vividly...But I don't talk about them much...
I don't know if I want to see a psychologist...

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,940

@78,936 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Why?

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,943

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

spend all my time on the internet talking to one person
spend all my time on the internet
spend all my time alone
refuse to get my licence
refuse to get a part-time job
have no friends
hate being around people
and refuse to go out places

Also, because you cut yourself.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,944

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
are those really reasons for therapy, though? O_o

Also, the last bit isn't often...

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 24 seconds later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,945

@78,939 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Go to one. For the serenity of your parents minds and for the benefit of your well being. :D

Do you think you're genuinely fine?

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,947

@78,944 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Yes, definitely.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 15 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,948

@78,945 (C)
Other people have it so much worse than me. My problems aren't important. I've always been like this to some degree.

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Just curious, but how? None of that seems like serious stuff.

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 49 seconds later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,949

My advice is buy some TOMS.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,954

@previous (F)
TOO LATE, BRAH

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,958

@78,948 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
So what if other people have it worse than you? A lot of people also have it BETTER than you. Don't worry about other peoples problems, that's their problem to deal with. Figure out your own first.

Falco !PZmcClOUDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,959

just do less of what they see you doing.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 23 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,962

@78,958 (C)
I try to put others before myself so i don't think about myself :/

@previous (Falco !PZmcClOUDk)
lol I never leave my room.

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,965

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Well babe, I'm sure you'll be happier when you learn to love yourself.

Tekamine !AnRbswGQv. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,968

I agree dude, you need to talk to a counselor. Especially after the stuff you've put yourself through lately.

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 35 seconds later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,970

@78,948 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
If your problems are hurting your everyday life, they are serious.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,972

@78,968 (Tekamine !AnRbswGQv.)
...the stuff I've put myself through lately?

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
I don't feel like it's been hurt, but my parents beg to differ :/

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 46 seconds later, 31 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,973

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
You have no life, and don't want to do anything. Most people would kill for free therapy.

Tekamine !AnRbswGQv. replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,975

@78,972 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Well yeah, especially with that one person. You got too involved and it's not healthy dude.

Nip it in the bud before it gets too detrimental to your health, I mean, I remember not so long ago that you were telling me you were going out all the time, what changed?

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 seconds later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,976

@78,973 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
I have a life, it just happens to be with better people than what live near me...

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 34 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #78,977

@78,975 (Tekamine !AnRbswGQv.)
Too involved? I love that person...I'm all that's keeping them alive...and it's a mutual feeling...

I only went out like, 3 times XD

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) triple-posted this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,079

Shit, I forgot to mention they think something is up with me hardly eating anymore :/ I just don't get hungry D:

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 37 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,081

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
No, it's because of your eating disordered girlfriend.

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,085

@78,977 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
> XD
I read that like Fran Drescher's laugh.

Ninjj joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,092

@previous (The Editor !FuckWtfW8M)
i love fran

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,093

@79,081 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
How could it be because of her? I stopped wilfully not eating when she didn't O-o

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 28 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,094

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
You just answered your own question.

Ninjj replied with this 15 years ago, 6 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,095

@78,977 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
shut up shut up shut up

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,096

@79,092 (Ninjj)
Doesn't look a day over 45. Oh, the wonders of Jew magic.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 16 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,097

@79,094 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
explain, please..

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,109

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Your parents are worried that you aren't eating. When your girlfriend doesn't eat, you don't eat. Your girlfriend has a disorder that makes her not eat. That's a problem.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,114

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
I stopped not eating when she didn't. I just only eat when I'm hungry now.

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 33 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,116

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
How much weight have you lost?

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,119

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
I haven't looked. Hopefully a lot :/ I miss being 118 D:

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 25 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,120

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
How tall are you?

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic double-posted this 15 years ago, 37 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,122

Seriously Stickie, I would jump at the chance for free therapy.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 51 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,126

@79,120 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
5'6' when I last checked.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 29 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,127

@79,122 (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
But what if the guy says to get off the internet or something? I can't...

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 53 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,131

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Therapists talk to you about your feelings, they don't force you to follow orders.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 53 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,133

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
My parents would force me to, though :L

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M replied with this 15 years ago, 25 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,136

@79,127 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
guywiththestickingbuns. You hev an problem and you are too internets dependent. You need Dr. Phil. He has what it takes to whip your ass into shape. Amen.

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,147

@79,133 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
They don't get to hear what the therapist says.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 32 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,148

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
Oh, that doesn't seem bad, then :DDDD

totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,151

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
It won't be horrible, and could really help you. Why not try it and see?

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,153

@previous (totoforhire !!Phkn/3Gic)
I just don't want to be told what I don't want to hear..I don't want to be told that I need to change everything about myself in terms of outgoingness and shit because I am perfectly happy as I am..

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 9 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,154

@79,133 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
They can do it anyway. You probably won't be risking very much if you go to the therapist. It would probably be a good thing if you weren't allowed to use the Internet for several reasons, anyway. It's not a good thing to think you Yes, think. Your life doesn't depend on some teenage slag in a chatroom. need something or someone so avidly. It only leads you to where you are now, and I'm sure you'll eventually realise what a total faggot you're being. I used to like you and think you were a pretty okay guy, but your insufferable helplessness and now cocky persona pisses me off. A lot. You're only making these problems for yourself. And trust me, whoever you're talking to isn't going to die if you stop talking to her. So listen to everybody here and go see a therapist or something. You don't have to change everything you listed in the OP, but just don't be such a prick about it.

Anonymous J double-posted this 15 years ago, 44 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,155

@79,153 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
You're obviously not if you're tied to one person, don't eat when she doesn't, and cut yourself.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,159

@79,154 (J)
she's attempted suicide multiple times since I've known her.

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,160

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
But she's failed every time. And if she were actually going to do it, it wouldn't be your fault. She'd do it anyway.

(Edited 31 seconds later.)

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,165

@previous (J)
I'm the only thing keeping her from trying more...And, the first night I stopped her she would have succeeded if i didn't talk her in to calling an ambulance

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,174

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
I know you won't believe me, but it's not healthy anyway. O well

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,179

Have faith in God, and you will feel better.

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 28 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,181

@previous (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
Yes, and eat healthy foods with more Olive Oil.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,183

@79,179 (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
The Way that can be experienced is not true;
The world that can be constructed is not real.
The Way manifests all that happens and may happen;
The world represents all that exists and may exist.

To experience without abstraction is to sense the world;
To experience with abstraction is to know the world.
These two experiences are indistinguishable;
Their construction differs but their effect is the same.

Beyond the gate of experience flows the Way,
Which is ever greater and more subtle than the world.

@previous (J)
I already do!

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,187

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Oh shi-

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,194

@previous (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
What? Olive Oil bad or something?

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,201

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Not at all.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,203

@previous (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
So why react like that?

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,204

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
I was reacting to your responce to my first post, bud.

Anonymous L joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,207

@79,153 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

> I just don't want to be told what I don't want to hear..I don't want to be told that I need to change everything about myself in terms of outgoingness and shit because I am perfectly happy as I am..

Fuck, at least get a job and contribute to society in some small way. It isn't all about *you* and *your* happiness. How happy do you think your parents feel when they see their child turning into a basement-dwelling parasite? People don't just put expectations on you to make your life miserable. They want you to actually contribute to the society that's so far basically given you a free ride.

Also,

@79,154 (J)

> It's not a good thing to think you need something or someone so avidly. It only leads you to where you are now, and I'm sure you'll eventually realise what a total faggot you're being.

This.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 13 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,208

@79,204 (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
Oh, derp.

Anonymous L replied with this 15 years ago, 40 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,210

@79,181 (J)

> Yes, and eat healthy foods with more Olive Oil.

This. Olive oil and whole grains. Also less red meat.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 38 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,213

@79,207 (L)
They already got a fuck up with my sister, and they don't want me to be that. But, she was a druggie. I'm not.

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,214

@79,208 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Don't worry, I forgive you.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 11 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,215

@79,210 (L)
Already go without red meat. Fuck yeah.

niamj replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,218

@79,213 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Nope, you're a shut-in asshole. No doubt you're not very friendly with them. You take your angster out on them because you don't like them telling you how to live your life. You delude yourself to think that you're perfectly happy the way you are now and get angry at them for "judging" you or bossing you around regardless of your independent spirit. They are interested in your wellbeing. They want to help you. Your behaviour is worrisome and they're doing the right thing as parents. Just lighten up a bit. I expect you won't listen to anything I've said in this thread, but I'm sure you will figure it out over time. Thanks.

Anonymous L replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,220

@79,213 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
But your still sort of a fuck up... you don't even have a job... no offence...

Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,221

@79,218 (niamj)

niamj replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,230

@79,220 (L)
He's not even 18.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,231

@79,218 (niamj)
Fair points.

@79,220 (L)
Bro, I'm just now at the age I can get one.

Anonymous L replied with this 15 years ago, 48 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,232

@79,230 (niamj)
@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

kk

understood

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 16 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,241

Guys, what would a counsellor/psychologist/therapist do...?

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,242

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Try to talk all the sense into ya that money can buy, ya derned fool.

niamj replied with this 15 years ago, 1 second later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,243

@79,241 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Talk to you. Works for some people, not for others.

niamj double-posted this 15 years ago, 40 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,244

@79,241 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Oh yes, and steal all of your family's money.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,245

@79,242 (The Editor !FuckWtfW8M)
@79,243 (niamj)
@previous (niamj)
well I get that from you guys, but for free :L

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,248

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
The difference is, we aren't professionals.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 35 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,249

@previous (The Editor !FuckWtfW8M)
Very true, but I know you. Doesn't that count for something?

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,251

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Nooope, nope nope. Nah-uh. Not really. Can't substitute the work quality of someone who's earning cold hard cash for what they do.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,254

@previous (The Editor !FuckWtfW8M)
but how can I be sure that they help/I listen?

The Owl !KThEOwLwbU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,258

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

Because that's what you're paying them to do

The Editor !FuckWtfW8M replied with this 15 years ago, 44 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,260

@79,254 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
> but how can I be sure that they help/
You can't.
> I listen?
Let me just put it this way: If you want help badly enough, you'll listen.

Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 33 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,276

Stickybuns, you are such an adolescent idiot. Jesus fucking christ. I don't even know what to say.

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,278

@previous (N)
We were wondering where you were, Captain Obvious.

Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,281

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Shut up, you stupid fucking teenaged prick. You never follow advice, so why do you ask for it?

stickybuns !bENfolDsOU (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,283

@previous (N)
Someone's observant.

Anonymous N replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,288

@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Okay, whatever man. Complaining on the internet about your sad suburban life will get you nowhere. Also, falling in love with someone you met on the internet is the worst mistake you could have made. Especially with someone as unstable as she seems.

What happened to that girlfriend of yours who used to post here?

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,293

@79,278 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Stop being a fucking dipshit and listen to what everyone in this thread and your parents are trying to tell you. I was also hesitant about going into therapy because I was worried that I wouldn't want to hear the happy hippie bullshit that counselors stereotypically spew, but once I did it, I wished I had done it four years earlier. Plus, it's free and you have absolutely nothing to lose.

Also, even if you don't like what he/she has to say, and you don't want to change your life, too bad. You're going through a phase in your life where you don't want to grow up and you think your parents are just going to take care of you forever, but like it or not, you are going to grow up, your life is going to change, your parents aren't going to let you leech off them forever, you're going to have to get a job and/or go to college and get off the internet and do things like normal adults do whether you like it or not. In short, no one cares how happy you think you are. Your lifestyle and attitude and outlook on life are not healthy and it needs to change even if that change is painful and unpleasant because that's part of life. Either do it now and get it out of the way because otherwise you're going to have to do it several years from now after you've already fucked up a lot of shit in your life and it will be that much more painful.

Tl;dr- stop being a whiny aspie emo faggot

Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 35 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,307

ITT people rage at their former self.

niamj replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,308

@previous (P)
seriously :|

Anonymous P replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,316

@78,962 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

> I try to put others before myself so i don't think about myself :/

@79,153 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)

> I just don't want to be told what I don't want to hear..I don't want to be told that I need to change everything about myself in terms of outgoingness and shit because I am perfectly happy as I am..

@79,153 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU) contradicts @78,962 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU).

This whole thread contradicts @78,962 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU).

Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,326

People are taking this thread too seriously. Stop taking life so seriously. That's the entire problem here.

Anonymous R joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,339

AND?
Oh, that's right, there is no "and".

Anonymous R double-posted this 15 years ago, 48 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,341

@79,326 (Q)

> People are taking this thread too seriously. Stop taking life so seriously. That's the entire problem here.

Yup.
This thread is bad, and OP should feel bad for making it.

Anonymous P replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,345

@79,326 (Q)

True story: Once upon a time there was two Greek philosophers. Every day one would wake up, look out his door, and start laughing at the absurdity of life. The other would wake up every day, look out his door, and start crying at the tragedy of life. Here's the twist: THEY WERE BOTH RIGHT.

Really makes you think, doesn't it?

Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,347

@previous (P)
It does. Great post.

Anonymous R replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,350

100 GET.
Everybody go home.
OP is simply looking for excuses not to change his life, and each reply helps him.

Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6 replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,357

Stickybuns, you're being a faggot.
You need to chill out and stop being so fucking angsty, alright? Your life's not horrible. Don't cut yourself, you moron.
The chick you're talking to on the Internet won't die if you stop talking to her. People like that have fucking shittons of people to listen to them, trust me.

Fucking go to that psychologist, and fucking listen to what s/he says.

Anonymous S joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,362

> this thread
dotdotdot ellipses ellipses ellipses

niamj replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,371

@79,357 (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
10/10 post would read again

seriously though that's my favorite post of yours

hamfist !wzWb.CLhWQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 51 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,374

@79,214 (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
dude i love ben folds

Anonymous S replied with this 15 years ago, 42 seconds later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,376

@79,371 (niamj)
> seriously though that's my favorite post of yours
So much this.

Trip, am proud.

Anonymous Q replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,380

@79,357 (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
I think that's the first post of yours that doesn't have an emoticon. D'awww you're growing up!

hamfist !wzWb.CLhWQ replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,382

Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,384

@79,357 (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)

> Stickybuns, you're being a faggot.
> You need to chill out and stop being so fucking angsty, alright? Your life's not horrible. Don't cut yourself, you moron.
> The chick you're talking to on the Internet won't die if you stop talking to her. People like that have fucking shittons of people to listen to them, trust me.
>
> Fucking go to that psychologist, and fucking listen to what s/he says.

You're wise, sis, you're wise beyond your years.

Anonymous S replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,386

@previous (Nega !34Kas0OdzM)
I know, right? This has come up before, but she doesn't come off as a 14 year old--at fucking all. She sort of just restated the key things other people said... but she still did it with some personality, and she did it well. Awesome.

Anonymous U joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 hours later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,481

Are you happy how you are?

If so, either tell them to get fucked or say "I'm going out with so and so" and in fact go to an Internet cafe and enjoy your peace.

Anonymous V joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,489

I see. Glad I haven't missed much.

Anonymous O replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #79,592

@79,481 (U)
That's like telling a heroin addict that as long as they're happy, there's nothing wrong with their lifestyle.

Minichan