Anonymous A started this discussion 11 years ago#43,730
Is pathological narcissism the outcome of verbal,physical and emotional abuse? Which is the ruling view? Or is it a result of idolizing the child? The child is instrumentalized or dehumanized when the child is idolized. Their parents love the child conditionally, not for what they really are but for what they wish and imagine them to be. The fulfillment of their dreams and frustrated wishes.
Its easy to feel like china is relevant, so many Chinese hope their children will make it big. They don't only hope it but expect it.