Topic: Dating in the closet
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #4,360
I am still not out in the closet, but I tried dating in the closet twice before. The one guy and I really didn't hit it off, but the other, lets call him Adam, was someone I might like to get to know. We met on a dating site and we talked for a while on the phone. We didn't have too many similar interests, but there was some chemistry. I called it all off, I guess because of nervousness that I would be "caught" on a date and we haven't talked for a few months. He called tonight and I was too cautious to pick up the phone and I guess I am coming here for help. I want to date guys, I really do, but I'm not ready to come out to everyone (at least not for a few years). Adam says he is fine with me being in the closet, for a little while, and it would be nice to have someone supporting me when I come out to my ultra Conservative parents and homophobic best friend (long story). Any advice? Please...(Homophobic moderators: There is no "half naked" picture in this thread any more, you don't need to delete.)
The Owl !KThEOwLwbU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #77,862
Dating in the closet is fine and well if you don't want to move or see your partner, but if you want to walk, move or talk in comfort, or maybe go to a meal or something, you need to step outside the closet and tell yourself that trying to date someone in a room which is 1 square metre is silly.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,864
The Owl !KThEOwLwbU replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,869
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,870
@previous (The Owl !KThEOwLwbU)
> In the closet
> Not open about one's homosexuality or bisexuality; By extension, not open about some feature of one's life; often construed with about
> http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/in_the_closet
> In the closet
> Not open about one's homosexuality or bisexuality; By extension, not open about some feature of one's life; often construed with about
> http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/in_the_closet
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,871
woah, didnt i just post ITT?
my mind is full of FUCK
my mind is full of FUCK
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The Owl !KThEOwLwbU replied with this 15 years ago, 5 seconds later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,872
@77,870 (A)
> closet
> A piece of furniture or a cabinet in which clothes or household supplies may be stored.
> closet
> A piece of furniture or a cabinet in which clothes or household supplies may be stored.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,883
Minichan: Gay threads erryday
Falco !PZmcClOUDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 34 seconds later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,887
Dating inside a closet is weird. How do you have breathing room with all those clothes?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,898
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,902
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. double-posted this 15 years ago, 33 seconds later, 19 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,905
@OP
Oh yea, and I stick by my original advice.
Oh yea, and I stick by my original advice.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,946
@previous (SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN.)
> I stick by my original advice
More bullshit about how a closet is too small or some other nonsense?
> I stick by my original advice
More bullshit about how a closet is too small or some other nonsense?
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 37 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,972
SQUARED :3 !S1Em5FO1Iw replied with this 15 years ago, 46 seconds later, 37 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,975
SQUARED :3 !L.....AlN. replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 40 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #77,985
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The Owl !KThEOwLwbU replied with this 15 years ago, 20 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #78,036
> (Homophobic moderators: There is no "half naked" picture in this thread any more, you don't need to delete.)
mods delete plz
mods delete plz
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 29 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #78,087
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 24 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #78,115
ITT: to4str getting trolled. hard
protip !!pMmAiEwOm joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 39 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #78,137
lolto4str
psychopath !PAHVpsycho joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #78,144
Maybe try and date a passable trap?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #78,150
psychopath !PAHVpsycho replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #78,154
@previous (A)
Yeah. Just have him trap when parents around and then have him wash off makeup before sex. Make sure they're not on HRT.
Yeah. Just have him trap when parents around and then have him wash off makeup before sex. Make sure they're not on HRT.