Topic: The horrible plague of victim-hood

Anonymous A started this discussion 11 years ago #42,905

Am i the only one who has come to realize that it is best to avoid victim-hood by all means? That the groups concerned with equality are contaminated with it all? They have this uncomfortable feeling with them, this feeling is the feelings of victims.

I am not saying that all kinds of people do not face injustice but that it feels a lot like almost all the groups concerned with those things are not something that gives you hope or
the energy to be in them or even around them. If you do so, you will slowly feel the uncomfortable feelings of victim hood.

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 11 minutes later[^] [v] #568,247

I do agree that there seem to be people who want to "change" things by trying to spread the victim-ness around by shaming others. I do not think this helps. If anything, it seems to alienate others and decrease their ability to empathize. It's just making resentful enemies when your goal is to make understanding friends.

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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 11 years ago, 4 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #568,248

@previous (B)

Yeah well said. I think this is a huge problem in my life, all my life i have been growing up with this victim-hood culture which just seems to be more and more about being the victim or seeing other people as victims. The problem is that you realize that there is injustice and something needs to be done about it but being brought up in victim culture means you are kind of unable to deal with it in other ways then to just make victims of people and yourself. Which is in a way dehumanizing.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0x6m4WVX3kk

EDIT: Oh god its like i am painting myself as a victim of victim-hood

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Anonymous B replied with this 11 years ago, 13 minutes later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #568,252

@previous (A)
> EDIT: Oh god its like i am painting myself as a victim of victim-hood

Meta-meta levels are too high! Pull back! Pull back!

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 6 minutes later, 37 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #568,255

@OP
Your neckbeard is showing.

Anonymous D double-posted this 11 years ago, 1 minute later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #568,256

@OP
Also, stop hyphenating "victimhood".

Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,266

@previous (D)
I'll hyphenate any-thing I fucking want-to.

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,273

@previous (E)
leave the hyphen-ation to the pros. thanks.

kook !!mCVqftDha joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 5 hours later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,304

I completely agree.

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 8 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,305

@previous (kook !!mCVqftDha)
Of course the resident MRA agrees...

vocalon !74TdoRkjCc joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,306

dont want people to be victims? dont do things that make people victims

kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 11 years ago, 3 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,307

@568,305 (H)
If this is an MRA view, then feminism is in trouble.

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 6 hours later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,372

@568,306 (vocalon !74TdoRkjCc)

Better try my best then, victim-hood has a way of making everything victimizing

kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 11 years ago, 14 minutes later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,376

@previous (J)
Very true

FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI joined in and replied with this 11 years ago, 2 hours later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,413

@568,306 (vocalon !74TdoRkjCc)
Tell me how you're a victim of middle class American luxury.

Anonymous D replied with this 11 years ago, 6 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,414

@568,372 (J)

> Better try my best then, victim-

Stopped reading at that exact point.

kook !!mCVqftDha replied with this 11 years ago, 31 minutes later, 19 hours after the original post[^] [v] #568,419

@568,413 (FuckAlms !vX8K53rFBI)
But capitalism!

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