Topic: Two different guys that both want me, can't decide.
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago#3,976
Well there's multiple guys that want me, but I'm talking about guys who want me as a girlfriend.
Guy #1 is a guy I met at a party when I was drunk - he was pretty heavily hitting on me, and making moves, so i kinda booked it from the party. We get along really well. I've spent a couple nights with him, and stupidly got drunk with him and kinda had sex, but it didn't exactly last very long due to the fact that we were both fucked up. He dragged me home from another party he went with me to when I got absolutely, completely trashed, and thinks i basically owe him the world because of that (it was a really nice thing to do). He tried to steal pills from me, and more than helps himself to my weed. He says he doesn't really want to commit right now, but insists that he really likes me. I don't know. That's not a very flattering description, but we have chemistry.
Guy #2 is my sister's boyfriend's friend... Awkward. But he really likes me and is an absolute sweetheart and doesn't try to fuck around with me like #1. he's done a lot of drugs (name it, he's done it) so he's a bit on the permafried side and thinks some weird things, but he has a job and his head on straight. He's older than me (I'm a junior in HS, #1 is a senior, and #2 is 21). I don't know him that well yet, but he seems perfect, and we like the same things, the same music... And when he kissed me last night it was almost definitely the most perfect kiss of my life. Sparks everywhere.
Oh, and he knows how to roll a fat ass blunt like a pro.
Obviously I should choose #2 right? But there's just something about #1.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 31 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,476
Number 2. Number 1 is a complete asshat with a sense of entitlement and obvious maturity issues. The fact that he always has to get you drunk and hits on you so hard shows that he's probably a pick up artist, and is trying to take advantage of you, and does take advantage of you. He says sweet things and makes you feel like there's chemistry but won't commit because he just wants in your pants and wants your weed, and as a pick up artist will skip you for the next hot chick he can get. Number 2 might be a little fried, but at least he has his head on straight and has a job, and is trying. He's definitely the more honest and responsible of the two. The fact that you both like the same things and have the same interests shows that there's potential for real chemistry, not the fake shit that guy 1 is throwing at you. Bo Burnham said "Girls can fake orgasms, but guys can fake love." Since guy 1 doesn't even want to really date you anyway, go out with guy 2.
Mister Misanthrope !NPN/W33CeE joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 35 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,481
...Yes... I'm starting to be certain. If this is what you've become, we're done forever. I have access to an entire population of sweet Norwegian girls, almost 100% virginal, who all want to live a clean life and have a family. A few of them like me. Maybe I'll start hanging out with some of them. When I start getting established in the world, one of them will marry me and that will be the end of that. No drugs, no sluts, no disgusting Normals, no brown eyes, no anything. Just us hanging out with all of our friends in a community completely closed to commoners.
Meanwhile, you're having drunken sex and your standards have fallen through the floor. Congratulations! I bet you feel like a big girl now.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 48 seconds later, 36 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,484
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,489
@71,481 (Mister Misanthrope !NPN/W33CeE)
Sounds like you're using delusions of grandeur as a defense mechanism because you can't deal with the fact that she left you, so you have to tell yourself, her, and everyone here, how much better than her you are. If you really believed it, you wouldn't have to come here spouting it. Telling yourself you can do better is a good way to move on, but seriously, it sounds like you're just not each others type. She does some drugs, that's fine, it doesn't mean she's a loser, it means you two have different lifestyles and obviously aren't compatible.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 47 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,499
Of course we're done forever, why would I ever want you again? Even typing "want" and "you" in the same sentence made bile rise in my throat... You really need to see a psychiatrist, you're crazy, obsessive, controlling and overanalytical.
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
You are the shit, broseph. Said it better than I could have any day!
Also, that is some really awesome advice, and I have been thinking along those lines.
dreamworks4mayor '11 !Ep8pui8Vw2 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 52 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,501
idc
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 57 minutes after the original post[^][v]#71,506
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#71,511
@71,499 (A)
Yeah, listen to Broseph. That sounds like pretty good advice.
You probably want to steer clear of people who constantly insist that they like you and who have to remind you why you should like them. Hold these people at arms length; have fun with them, yes, but genuine relationships don't have to be sold through sheer force of personality.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#71,513
@previous (N) > You probably want to steer clear of people who constantly insist that they like you and who have to remind you why you should like them. Hold these people at arms length; have fun with them, yes, but genuine relationships don't have to be sold through sheer force of personality.
Wow, I should take your advice.
Mister Misanthrope !NPN/W33CeE joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 35 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#71,534
@71,499 (A)
You don't even know what I'm like anymore. It's been too long, too much has happened. The two of us have changed too much.
All I know is that I'm still moving to Washington, and I'm going to laugh really hard when you see me walking with some clean cut mormon girl and rage.
Anonymous P joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#71,560
@71,464 (Triptych !!DP4/G/5A6)
So much this! Figure it out for yourself, christ.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#71,581
@71,534 (Mister Misanthrope !NPN/W33CeE)
Why would she rage? You just said yourself that you've both changed and grown apart, so why should either of you care? Sounds like you're the one raging, dude.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 37 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#71,585
Sure sure, project all you want. It's actually making me lol how much mental energy you've invested in me, we barely even knew each other, I'd met you like what three times?
Anonymous Q joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 42 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#71,645
nigger
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TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#71,687
@OP > he's done a lot of drugs (name it, he's done it)
Has he done heron?
Anonymous S joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#71,697