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Topic: A message for angry, bitching, nagging, complaining, cold bitch wives.
Anonymous A started this discussion 11 years ago#38,941
Ladies: We are not here to do what you tell us to do. You want the water cleaned up, the cabinet door shut? Then clean up the water and shut the cabinet door. If we wanted it done it would be done. If *you* have a preference, make it how you want it.
So many women out there saying “if only he would do what I tell him to do, I wouldn’t have to nag.”
News flash: It’s not his job to do what you tell him to do. It’s his job to do what actually *needs to be done*. You know: fixing dangerous problems around the house (not drops of water on the counter), earning money to pay the bills, taking care of the family.
If he’s doing the stuff that’s actually important for survival and health, take a moment and appreciate that. He works long hours, brings in the money, and you want him to worry about nonsensical, unimportant bullshit?
I laugh when women say “How long does it take to put the toilet lid down?”
No time at all. Which is why you should *put the god damned toilet lid down* if it matters to you. What, the task is too trivial for your important ass, but you naturally expect him to do it, and not only that, but you expect him to do it because you *said so?*
He’s feeding you. Help him do it. Either earn some money yourself to lighten his load, do all of those “little things” that you admit are *soo easy to do*, or just learn to live with it.
Marriage is supposed to be a partnership. You each bring strengths. You each have responsibilities. Having every last little thing in your life the way you want it? That’s *your* responsibility.
If he’s so bad, divorce him, move on, and get the person that you want. If you’re going to sit around bitching and moaning about it while he works at the important stuff around you, what that screams is that you’re entirely dependent. There is one grown-up in the relationship, and it’s not you.