Topic: INTERNET PORN is apparently unhealthy FOR KIDS
Anonymous A started this discussion 12 years ago#38,094
I hate to say it, but it seems like its not a good idea to give children unsupervised access to the internet, what a shocker right? However what is the most common criticism to those little boys watching porn? That it harms WOMEN!
As someone who has been watching femdom porn since age 11, i am angry at how the older generations have no idea of what type of porn actually exists. They think internet porn
is just this one entity created for one thing, exploitation of women. When on earth will people see how delusional they all are.
Syntax joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 19 minutes later[^][v]#510,221
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I of course grew up b4 net and even b4 the 1st transistors were invented (don't pick on me re FETs invented 1926 cause impossible other then paper design as no working model possible)
One of the first photos I found and it was in the street in early am while on my paper route was a glossy 8 1/2 x 11 of wot I now no as a transexual - Dude with tits and full package which Confucius me.
Could not relate to my views of views kids see of other nakked kids when young - Like when I did view for first time I said to self is that all there is cause of course a kid only sees a simple slit
Sorta boring at 1st view in my opinion - Nothing there to C
tl;dr? I think 8-9-10-11 year olds end up with views of stuff that also makes no sense when viewed on net - Net has it down to more often anal then regular - or back a few years where it was more often sex was with an amputee (even a Jerry Seinfeld subject on show)
So is distortion of the normal good for kiddlets? and as to exploitation of women? If the gal is being paid for her work? where is the exploitation? In reading a new News of the Weird 2day - a Japanese woman artist did a detailed photo of her Vulva in full 3D and sent it out on web in Japan without the mandatory cover up as ordered by Japan law - She did it so others could 3d print it out and even make it on a 3d printer so they could have copy of her Vulva - She of course was arrested. And she did that totally for free to make a political statement that woman should be allowed to show their bits if they chose2
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 5 minutes later, 25 minutes after the original post[^][v]#510,222
Well you should consider yourself lucky, growing up with internet porn can have bad effects on some of us. At first i really disliked the strapon scenes, why do they always have to top it off like that? Why do they always go to far!? Why is there no softness in the domination!? But then as time went one, hardcore S&M became my thing.
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 12 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[^][v]#510,226
How does my faggot gay porn harm women?
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 1 minute later, 44 minutes after the original post[^][v]#510,227
@510,223 (D) > as time went one, hardcore S&M became my thing.
On lots of stuff I grew up clueless. I was already a manager of Engineering the first time I became aware of BDSM. Had yet to meet anyone gay (found out later of course I had but they were deep in closet)
AND at Manager point I was married and only knew/into soft touch slow sweet kindness kinda loving - Ventured into the manufacturing plant that cranked out my and mates designs and at lunch time just one very lovely adorable Latino girl was eating her lunch at her work station and reading a cheep soft copy book - Cover was a woman bound n gagged in chair and being whipped and bleeding
She tried to explain the text a bit to me and I said - BUT You could end up dying if you do that kinda stuff - her reply was and this is a direct quote What a way to go
Only once just once and I at my age have been with 34-39 women nakkid and only one asked me to beat her with a belt - I declined and that subject never did come up again. American Airlines flight attendant (have dated and been in long term relationships with many) Do have a very long term gal friend from age 13/14 who showed me her closet of BDSM stuff and then the hooks in ceiling for hanging out so to speak - Some bf intro her in2 that and since then its been her downfall to end up with guys that beat and whip her and she is 105 pounds wet and ends up hurt and broken heart'd when the guy moves on to fresh meat. She was Queen of the prom at her high school and its just sad to see her all these years continue on 2 fail over all when she needs to get off
Anonymous D replied with this 12 years ago, 8 minutes later, 53 minutes after the original post[^][v]#510,230
Times sure have changed. What you describe is something i am sure is a big problem with the BDSM scene. What starts out as a playful kinky sex suddenly turns into a messy abusive relationship
where the abuse is seen by both as harmless kinky stuff. This is why i was always told to only do this with someone i trust very well.
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 12 years ago, 13 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#510,231
@510,227 (Syntax)
How can you say so much that means nothing?
Anonymous C replied with this 12 years ago, 4 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#510,232
@510,226 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
It doesnt pays attention to them.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 24 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^][v]#510,237
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 27 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,245
Take the OP's text and replace the Internet with naked people in books at libraries in the 19th and 20th centuries and then you realize this moral panic is the same old tired bullshit.
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,249
@510,230 (D) > This is why i was always told to only do this with someone i trust very well.
I am educatedly guessing that Men are far more wary then women when it comes to trust. Its one reason why you read about women who were clueless when the husband ends up gay or arrested for pedophilia.
So the woman falls in love and that means her man can do no wrong. Then at some point while engaged in mutual BDSM play he drinks to much or for some other reason the beast inside himself goes off 1/2 cocked and then he hits her to hard or does not hear any safe word and gal ends up hurt mean as fuck.
As an employer years ago with lots of women reporting to me (in theory cause most had other supervisors under me) I wood visit women in the hospital in recovery over a beating. Only later to discover a gal wood often instigate horrific behavior out of her man. Memories of Jan who did indirectly work for me as a prototype assembler who was the most intelligent woman I have ever met butttt she drank till drunk - her bf one of many wood hit her - later she wood get drunk and set his car on full destruct fire as just one example of many
I miss Jan as she followed me in my career except of course for the most part 3 letter us gov agencies wood not touch her as employee directly ( i did contract her as independent contractor ) and her work record was OUTSTANDING - except of course for time off for hospital and recovery - Had to part ways with her and damn lucky I did not go with her invite to get to know her better if you get my drift - Married or Single she was a black widow type of woman - Super attractive Super bright with IQ in high 160's and just a mess with taste in bedroom trouble
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 1 hour later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,258
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 3 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,279
@510,258 (H)
Yes you did and the proof is: You later will be quoting me.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 5 hours later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,347
Bdsm is perfectly safe. If either partner is in danger its not bdsm its abuse.
Stop correlating adult activities with abuse -- a healthy sex life (including bdsm or not) bertween concesnsual adults is perfect!y natural and healthy.
Everyone is different and likes different things. There is a huge difference between domination, spanking etc and beating the shit out of someone.
Syntax replied with this 12 years ago, 12 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,351
@previous (J)
If people want to be whipped - ripped apart - pain to get turned on - shat on - and that is there thing and no one is hurt beyond what hurt they need to get off - Its a free world in many parts but not all parts of the world so sure - Just thrilled its nothing I want in my life n thank the gods I am not wired as such.
> Everyone is different and likes different things. There is a huge difference between domination, spanking etc and beating the shit out of someone.
For me as an employeer of a lot of people over a long time - just to many visits to people who ended up in BDSM play where it got out of control nor do I see anything that wood change any of that.
Its human nature to venture out and if someone is wired as a very best gal friend is wired so that she needs to be hung from her ceiling nakkid and whipped and role play a bad child that needs beating
So far she over the years has not had any incidents of excessive bad treatment OTHER then for some reason the guys split shortly after they get their kicks dominating her
She is open to say she can no play with herself cause she needs pain provided by other then herself so she is stuck in the world of needing a willing partner
You have no clue how much I wood have loved to want her but me? I wood end up impotent at giving her wot she needs. She has tried to as she says - open me to a new world if I just wood b happy to whip her
Of course I think its sick but I love her as only a long term friend can love her but for sure its never going to be intimate even back when that is wot I wanted
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 6 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^][v]#510,439
> i am educatedly guessing that Men are far more wary then women when it comes to trust
I think its safe to say that this is a fact. At least when it comes to men who want to be dominated. Many of us men with dreams of dominant women go through a period of time where we are deppressed because not only does it seem that only submissive women exist but also that submissive men are looked down upon.