Topic: "Men ask women questions, women ask men questions"
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #3,777
Men: Doesn't it feel awkward looking at yourself naked with your balls cleanly shaved and the rest of your body absolutely hairy?stickybuns !bENfolDsOU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later[^] [v] #68,570
Yes, a bit. I'd shave all over if it wasn't considered 'gay'.
Women: how does it feel having multiple men vying for your attention?
Women: how does it feel having multiple men vying for your attention?
Ryan !PArADOx9ZU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,571
@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
So you do understand and acknowledge that people find a lot of the things that you do/say to be "gay".
So you do understand and acknowledge that people find a lot of the things that you do/say to be "gay".
Falco !PZmcClOUDk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 31 seconds later, 3 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,573
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Ryan !PArADOx9ZU replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,575
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Anonymous E replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,585
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 56 seconds later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,586
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,588
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I'm not obsessed with that. I find it silly. It shouldn't matter how someone else is.
I'm not obsessed with that. I find it silly. It shouldn't matter how someone else is.
Anonymous E replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,590
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It's just the time-old practice of berating others for being different, for not being masculine, testosterone-driven meatheads like they "should" be.
It's just the time-old practice of berating others for being different, for not being masculine, testosterone-driven meatheads like they "should" be.
Falco !PZmcClOUDk replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 20 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,591
Namj joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 34 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,595
@68,586 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
You don't act gay, you're just a huge faggot.
Women: How does it feel to know, that in every sex act imaginable, your sexual partner WILL be looking at your anus?
You don't act gay, you're just a huge faggot.
Women: How does it feel to know, that in every sex act imaginable, your sexual partner WILL be looking at your anus?
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 35 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,596
Namj replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 37 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,600
@previous (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
Your pseudo-hipster tweenie attitude is pretty annoying. Pretty annoying. You're not actually a huge faggot. Just pretty annoying.
Your pseudo-hipster tweenie attitude is pretty annoying. Pretty annoying. You're not actually a huge faggot. Just pretty annoying.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 40 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,604
@68,570 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)> how does it feel having multiple men vying for your attention?
I guess this is true for the internet. In the real world, I have like 2 friends. Both of whom are female. I would trade 1 man who I truly loved and cared about to give me attention. Putting that aside, multiple men vying for attention is normal. I often give the attention they want.
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 25 seconds later, 41 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,605
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 47 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,607
> How does it feel to know, that in every sex act imaginable, your sexual partner WILL be looking at your anus?
Well, I guess my partner would have to rely more on his touching senses because I'd like to have pitch black sex.
But, if the lights were on, I have a cute butt. I wouldn't mind. :O
Men: How does it feel to know that your partner will remember your retarded orgasmic facial expression while you put your sperm in her?
Well, I guess my partner would have to rely more on his touching senses because I'd like to have pitch black sex.
But, if the lights were on, I have a cute butt. I wouldn't mind. :O
Men: How does it feel to know that your partner will remember your retarded orgasmic facial expression while you put your sperm in her?
Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 48 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,608
@previous (A)
> How does it feel to know that your partner will remember your retarded orgasmic facial expression while you put your sperm in her?
> retarded orgasmic facial expression while you put your sperm in her
The same as when I see her retarded facial expression while I put my sperm on her face.
> How does it feel to know that your partner will remember your retarded orgasmic facial expression while you put your sperm in her?
> retarded orgasmic facial expression while you put your sperm in her
The same as when I see her retarded facial expression while I put my sperm on her face.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 50 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,609
@previous (H)
Grosssssssssssssss
I'd never fuck a woman that would allow her face to be covered in sperm
Grosssssssssssssss
I'd never fuck a woman that would allow her face to be covered in sperm
Anonymous H replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 51 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,610
Namj replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 54 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,615
@68,605 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
No. Falco has a "I'll play the hipster card because I wear tight pants" attitude.
No. Falco has a "I'll play the hipster card because I wear tight pants" attitude.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 55 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,616
@68,610 (H)Did you google image search rebellious and obviously not Carebear pictures for me? How sweet.
Also, your sperm will go nowhere near my face.
Namj replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 56 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,617
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 59 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,618
Anonymous H replied with this 15 years ago, 15 seconds later, 59 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #68,619
@68,616 (A)> implying it won't.
I beg to differ. You will drink my manjuice like its the nectar of the gods.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 51 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,656
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> Since you don't know what they all want from you
. . . Uh, what?
Men, are not nearly as complicated as you think. They want sex, no exception. Even if they think they don't want sex, they want sex eventually or they're working up to sex. They're trying to get you to show that you're interested, but you sound like you don't because you're too busy thinking "I wonder what he wants from me." It's not complicated at all. Women just make it complicated, which is why men play all these different complicated games to get your affection and fake all these different roles. If you were just more open and went after the guys you wanted, or just stopped making it complicated, or stopped thinking silly things like "I wonder what he wants..." It wouldn't be so damn complicated.
Guy starts talking to you for no reason, is being very nice, is being funny, is trying to get your attention, is trying to get you to talk to him, it means he wants to fuck.
> Since you don't know what they all want from you
. . . Uh, what?
Men, are not nearly as complicated as you think. They want sex, no exception. Even if they think they don't want sex, they want sex eventually or they're working up to sex. They're trying to get you to show that you're interested, but you sound like you don't because you're too busy thinking "I wonder what he wants from me." It's not complicated at all. Women just make it complicated, which is why men play all these different complicated games to get your affection and fake all these different roles. If you were just more open and went after the guys you wanted, or just stopped making it complicated, or stopped thinking silly things like "I wonder what he wants..." It wouldn't be so damn complicated.
Guy starts talking to you for no reason, is being very nice, is being funny, is trying to get your attention, is trying to get you to talk to him, it means he wants to fuck.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,659
@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
> Guy starts talking to you for no reason, is being very nice, is being funny, is trying to get your attention, is trying to get you to talk to him, it means he wants to fuck.
Or he might just think she's cute and want to get to know her further, which could possibly lead to a relationship. Yes, sex is a part of the reason why people seek partners, but it is not the only reason like you're making it out to be.
> Guy starts talking to you for no reason, is being very nice, is being funny, is trying to get your attention, is trying to get you to talk to him, it means he wants to fuck.
Or he might just think she's cute and want to get to know her further, which could possibly lead to a relationship. Yes, sex is a part of the reason why people seek partners, but it is not the only reason like you're making it out to be.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,663
@previous (J)
Actually, yeah it is. Even if he wants to get to know her further, and maybe date her, it's ultimately because he wants to see if she'll make a decent sex partner. Yes, there are other aspects to relationships, but for guys, sex is still the ultimate driving factor. Women want sex too, but they also look at other factors like status and how good of a provider the man will be, even if this is only on a subconscious level. It can't be helped; it's biological. Women are inclined to seek providers who will take care of their offspring (even if on a conscious level they don't want any offspring) and men are inclined to want to fuck as much as possible to impregnate as many women as possible (even if on a conscious level he doesn't want any kids and/or wants the benefits of a monogamous relationship.)
These are just natural instincts. That doesn't mean that all guys are pigs and that that's ALL they want, and they have no potential for romance and other things, but if you can't accept that sex drive is the main factor, sex drive uis why they come up to talk to you, and that all guys want sex, then yes all guys will always seem like pigs to you because you're setting the bar to high.
Actually, yeah it is. Even if he wants to get to know her further, and maybe date her, it's ultimately because he wants to see if she'll make a decent sex partner. Yes, there are other aspects to relationships, but for guys, sex is still the ultimate driving factor. Women want sex too, but they also look at other factors like status and how good of a provider the man will be, even if this is only on a subconscious level. It can't be helped; it's biological. Women are inclined to seek providers who will take care of their offspring (even if on a conscious level they don't want any offspring) and men are inclined to want to fuck as much as possible to impregnate as many women as possible (even if on a conscious level he doesn't want any kids and/or wants the benefits of a monogamous relationship.)
These are just natural instincts. That doesn't mean that all guys are pigs and that that's ALL they want, and they have no potential for romance and other things, but if you can't accept that sex drive is the main factor, sex drive uis why they come up to talk to you, and that all guys want sex, then yes all guys will always seem like pigs to you because you're setting the bar to high.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,665
@68,659 (J)
But besides all that, my main point still stands. Asking yourself a question like "I wonder what he wants" is still silly, because whether he wants to fuck you, or date you then fuck you, or get to know you them date you then fuck you, the motive is clear and asking yourself something like that is pointless and complicated. He's not being nice because he wants to borrow a cup of sugar.
But besides all that, my main point still stands. Asking yourself a question like "I wonder what he wants" is still silly, because whether he wants to fuck you, or date you then fuck you, or get to know you them date you then fuck you, the motive is clear and asking yourself something like that is pointless and complicated. He's not being nice because he wants to borrow a cup of sugar.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 triple-posted this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,672
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OK, well if it's that obvious, why do you wonder what they want? Why do they have to talk to you in a very certain way to make it click in your head?
Let me phrase it another way: When you're asking yourself "I wonder what he wants," what's going through your head? What motives do you suspect? If you know he likes you, and you like him, why do you have to continue to test him?
OK, well if it's that obvious, why do you wonder what they want? Why do they have to talk to you in a very certain way to make it click in your head?
Let me phrase it another way: When you're asking yourself "I wonder what he wants," what's going through your head? What motives do you suspect? If you know he likes you, and you like him, why do you have to continue to test him?
jump !VIfloDyEYo joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,681
Serious question. Since many females here are 18-22ish can you tell me easy ways to manipulate women that age? I'm verybsocially detached from my peers. Where would I go to meet women that age and not be creepy. I'm really a nice guy and I promise I wouldn't use this knowledge for evil.
I just want a female companion and I know being an older guy has it's benefits with younger women.
My friend alluded to being really vulnerable at 18, but wouldn't provide more details. If you could examine your psyche and give any info I could use, I would appreciate. I will even call out your name during sex as thanks.
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That ends shortly after high school. Maybe it's different for different groups, but at least in the non-douche bag crowd you get over that shit.
Some guys will even talk openly about experimenting. It's much rarer than with chicks, but it does happen and you aren't consider gay for it.
I just want a female companion and I know being an older guy has it's benefits with younger women.
My friend alluded to being really vulnerable at 18, but wouldn't provide more details. If you could examine your psyche and give any info I could use, I would appreciate. I will even call out your name during sex as thanks.
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That ends shortly after high school. Maybe it's different for different groups, but at least in the non-douche bag crowd you get over that shit.
Some guys will even talk openly about experimenting. It's much rarer than with chicks, but it does happen and you aren't consider gay for it.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,685
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I fucking knew it! But that just proves that you weren't honest in your first post. You're not asking "I wonder what he wants from me," you're asking "How badly does he want me and what hoops can I make him jump through to get it." Now on some levels, that's perfectly understandable, because you don't want to be easy, and you're not fearless so you worry about rejection or him fucking you and leaving you, so asking "I wonder what he wants" makes sense in that respect, BUT consider the following:
How many guys have you scared away using this tactic? Chances are, if he managed to work up the courage to talk to you, he's sincerely interested, which is why I thought it was a silly question to begin with. So if you try to test him and put him through hoops he's either going to think a) that you're not interested, or b) that you just want to play games. If you really like him, you should reciprocate and start flirting back, and show him that you're interested. He's not going to disrespect you or think you're easy, if that's the reaction he's going for.
For example, you mentioned earlier that most guys don't know how to talk to women. That's because one sided conversations are socially awkward and painful. If you do what I said above, he'll feel so good about himself for immediately getting you to respond to him that it will give him a HUGE boost in his confidence and it will make him act the way you want him to act, and say the things you want him to say, because it creates positive feedback. Don't give him any feedback, and you scare him off, which is why it seems like most guys never know what to say. Make sense?
I fucking knew it! But that just proves that you weren't honest in your first post. You're not asking "I wonder what he wants from me," you're asking "How badly does he want me and what hoops can I make him jump through to get it." Now on some levels, that's perfectly understandable, because you don't want to be easy, and you're not fearless so you worry about rejection or him fucking you and leaving you, so asking "I wonder what he wants" makes sense in that respect, BUT consider the following:
How many guys have you scared away using this tactic? Chances are, if he managed to work up the courage to talk to you, he's sincerely interested, which is why I thought it was a silly question to begin with. So if you try to test him and put him through hoops he's either going to think a) that you're not interested, or b) that you just want to play games. If you really like him, you should reciprocate and start flirting back, and show him that you're interested. He's not going to disrespect you or think you're easy, if that's the reaction he's going for.
For example, you mentioned earlier that most guys don't know how to talk to women. That's because one sided conversations are socially awkward and painful. If you do what I said above, he'll feel so good about himself for immediately getting you to respond to him that it will give him a HUGE boost in his confidence and it will make him act the way you want him to act, and say the things you want him to say, because it creates positive feedback. Don't give him any feedback, and you scare him off, which is why it seems like most guys never know what to say. Make sense?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,698
@68,681 (jump !VIfloDyEYo)
Emotionally manipulating is most efficient from what I've seen. As well as personal experience, sadly. You can get a girl to do whatever the fuck you want once you have the key to her heart.
Emotionally manipulating is most efficient from what I've seen. As well as personal experience, sadly. You can get a girl to do whatever the fuck you want once you have the key to her heart.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,711
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I've been on the other end of that situation. I ended up breaking up with one girl and then hooking up with the other. In hindsight, I did play games with the other girl (not really meaning to, and it got her very frustrated) and it sounds like you're going through the same thing. You're not playing games with him, he's playing games with you. He wants to see how far he can go, and has a sort of "get a hold of the next branch before letting go of the other" mentality. He's not sure about you. What you should do, is give in. Make him think that he has you, and then just stop completely. Then, you should make the move. Ask him out, and tell him he should break up with her and get with you. If he really doesn't like her and is just dragging his feet, this will put pressure on him to make a move. If he won't break up with her, then you know he's playing games and you shouldn't waste your time. But he'll still probably chase after you. Just keep reminding him that he can have you if he's willing to do the right thing.
I've been on the other end of that situation. I ended up breaking up with one girl and then hooking up with the other. In hindsight, I did play games with the other girl (not really meaning to, and it got her very frustrated) and it sounds like you're going through the same thing. You're not playing games with him, he's playing games with you. He wants to see how far he can go, and has a sort of "get a hold of the next branch before letting go of the other" mentality. He's not sure about you. What you should do, is give in. Make him think that he has you, and then just stop completely. Then, you should make the move. Ask him out, and tell him he should break up with her and get with you. If he really doesn't like her and is just dragging his feet, this will put pressure on him to make a move. If he won't break up with her, then you know he's playing games and you shouldn't waste your time. But he'll still probably chase after you. Just keep reminding him that he can have you if he's willing to do the right thing.
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 24 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,712
@68,665 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
> Asking yourself a question like "I wonder what he wants" is still silly, because whether he wants to fuck you, or date you then fuck you, or get to know you them date you then fuck you, the motive is clear and asking yourself something like that is pointless and complicated.
Uh, I'm not crabbie.
Also, why did you word your posts as if I'm female? Anyway, your points are excellent. Meh, I guess I was just trying to take the things that I desire when I'm romantically interested in someone, and then apply them to the points you were making. I mean, I know that sex is the main factor for men to talk to women, but it's different for me. I have quite the sex drive, but that isn't what totally drives me to get to know girls. I mostly desire someone who I could potentially fall head over heels for, and enjoy life with, so I'm not sure if I'd be so quick to agree that the reason men try to get to know girls is just to see if they'd make a good sexual mate. Then again, maybe I'm just different.
> Asking yourself a question like "I wonder what he wants" is still silly, because whether he wants to fuck you, or date you then fuck you, or get to know you them date you then fuck you, the motive is clear and asking yourself something like that is pointless and complicated.
Uh, I'm not crabbie.
Also, why did you word your posts as if I'm female? Anyway, your points are excellent. Meh, I guess I was just trying to take the things that I desire when I'm romantically interested in someone, and then apply them to the points you were making. I mean, I know that sex is the main factor for men to talk to women, but it's different for me. I have quite the sex drive, but that isn't what totally drives me to get to know girls. I mostly desire someone who I could potentially fall head over heels for, and enjoy life with, so I'm not sure if I'd be so quick to agree that the reason men try to get to know girls is just to see if they'd make a good sexual mate. Then again, maybe I'm just different.
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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 6 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,717
@previous (J)
I'd like to find someone who I could fall in love with, and be happy for the rest of my life, but you're never gonna find anyone that way. You've gotta play the game and meet as many people as possible until you find the right one. It's not like you can scope out a bar or club thinking "who am I gonna fall in love with tonight?" You're thinking "Who do I want to hook up with?" You need to trust your instincts more. That whole "all I want is love" thing, is a defense mechanism for the fact that you're not confident around women.
I'd like to find someone who I could fall in love with, and be happy for the rest of my life, but you're never gonna find anyone that way. You've gotta play the game and meet as many people as possible until you find the right one. It's not like you can scope out a bar or club thinking "who am I gonna fall in love with tonight?" You're thinking "Who do I want to hook up with?" You need to trust your instincts more. That whole "all I want is love" thing, is a defense mechanism for the fact that you're not confident around women.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 double-posted this 15 years ago, 10 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,722
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I don't mean sleep with him and then see how it goes, but I've done that before. If you've already been somewhat intimate, and he has a girlfriend, then you should ask him out. If he says no, stop giving him attention completely. Not saying act like you're mad or ignore him completely, but maybe ignore him a little and no more flirting or anything. If he really likes you, this will put pressure on him to break up with her and get with you. If he's not willing to break up with her, then he's just playing games, and it's best if you just ignored him anyway. He's the one playing games, not you.
I don't mean sleep with him and then see how it goes, but I've done that before. If you've already been somewhat intimate, and he has a girlfriend, then you should ask him out. If he says no, stop giving him attention completely. Not saying act like you're mad or ignore him completely, but maybe ignore him a little and no more flirting or anything. If he really likes you, this will put pressure on him to break up with her and get with you. If he's not willing to break up with her, then he's just playing games, and it's best if you just ignored him anyway. He's the one playing games, not you.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,725
BROSEPH.
CRABBIE IS A MAN.
CRABBIE IS A MAN.
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,727
@68,717 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
> You've gotta play the game and meet as many people as possible until you find the right one.
Where did I say otherwise?
> That whole "all I want is love" thing, is a defense mechanism for the fact that you're not confident around women.
Nah, broseph. Don't tell me what I am and what I'm not. When I'm in a setting where there are cute girls and I'm a bit intoxicated, yep, I'll think "hmm, who can I go dance with and possibly mess around with tonight?" and I'll gladly act on my desires, but at the end of the day, when I see a cute girl in a normal setting, I'm mainly interested in the prospect of (call me crazy!) getting to know her and hanging out with her. Jesus.
> You've gotta play the game and meet as many people as possible until you find the right one.
Where did I say otherwise?
> That whole "all I want is love" thing, is a defense mechanism for the fact that you're not confident around women.
Nah, broseph. Don't tell me what I am and what I'm not. When I'm in a setting where there are cute girls and I'm a bit intoxicated, yep, I'll think "hmm, who can I go dance with and possibly mess around with tonight?" and I'll gladly act on my desires, but at the end of the day, when I see a cute girl in a normal setting, I'm mainly interested in the prospect of (call me crazy!) getting to know her and hanging out with her. Jesus.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 16 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,731
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No, you're doing the right thing. If he regrets his decisions with you, then he should respect that you'd rather act like it never happened, and can't get mad at you if he also acts like it never happens. He also can't get mad at you for not showing him any attention, if he's not willing to do the right thing and end it with the other girl. If he won't end it with the other girl, then he can't expect you to keep chasing after him. I still think you should ask him out, to make what you want clear, and go along with everything else I said. If he keeps being a dick because he wants to have you without having to break up with the other girl, just fucking forget about him. He'll either get over it or come around eventually.
I know this because I've been the bad guy before, without even realizing it, and it took having the girl ignore me completely to make me realize what I was doing was wrong, and made me realize what I really wanted.
No, you're doing the right thing. If he regrets his decisions with you, then he should respect that you'd rather act like it never happened, and can't get mad at you if he also acts like it never happens. He also can't get mad at you for not showing him any attention, if he's not willing to do the right thing and end it with the other girl. If he won't end it with the other girl, then he can't expect you to keep chasing after him. I still think you should ask him out, to make what you want clear, and go along with everything else I said. If he keeps being a dick because he wants to have you without having to break up with the other girl, just fucking forget about him. He'll either get over it or come around eventually.
I know this because I've been the bad guy before, without even realizing it, and it took having the girl ignore me completely to make me realize what I was doing was wrong, and made me realize what I really wanted.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 double-posted this 15 years ago, 27 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,755
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Well if he would call you his girlfriend, that means he's either a complete dickhead, or he really likes you. But anyway, still stick to the plan.
Well if he would call you his girlfriend, that means he's either a complete dickhead, or he really likes you. But anyway, still stick to the plan.
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 triple-posted this 15 years ago, 9 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,762
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No problem. I think I should do a Tarot reading for you.
No problem. I think I should do a Tarot reading for you.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 7 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,768
Alright, bumping this shit after being anal raped by Crabbie and Broseph. Broseph, you're a bro.
Men: There's a guy I talk to that I maintain a very close friendship with. He has a troll persona, but I do believe he has been genuinely honest whenever we talk on a personal level. We have great and meaningful conversation but on several occasions, he randomly stops talking. He usually does this after he dumps emotional baggage on me. I always found this strange. So, could it be that he's intimidated about revealing so much about himself to me? Or when we're having a great conversation, does he think he shouldn't be because he's depressed? <-- (maybe that one needs more elaboration but I don't have the right words at the moment)
Men: There's a guy I talk to that I maintain a very close friendship with. He has a troll persona, but I do believe he has been genuinely honest whenever we talk on a personal level. We have great and meaningful conversation but on several occasions, he randomly stops talking. He usually does this after he dumps emotional baggage on me. I always found this strange. So, could it be that he's intimidated about revealing so much about himself to me? Or when we're having a great conversation, does he think he shouldn't be because he's depressed? <-- (maybe that one needs more elaboration but I don't have the right words at the moment)
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,769
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Maybe he just doesn't know what to say after pouring his heart out so much? I'm not sure to be honest budski.
Maybe he just doesn't know what to say after pouring his heart out so much? I'm not sure to be honest budski.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,773
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It's not a matter of not knowing what to say :O He just...ignores me. I think he feels embarrassed in a sense.
It's not a matter of not knowing what to say :O He just...ignores me. I think he feels embarrassed in a sense.
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,774
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I see. Just try your best to attempt to understand where he's coming from, and I'd imagine that the conversation would progress from there. Have you tried bringing this up? If so, what was his response?
I see. Just try your best to attempt to understand where he's coming from, and I'd imagine that the conversation would progress from there. Have you tried bringing this up? If so, what was his response?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #68,777
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I brought it up teasingly today and he told me he's been going through rough times. Then he tells me about it, etc. I don't mind, I'm usually flattered and glad people chose me to release their emotions to.
I brought it up teasingly today and he told me he's been going through rough times. Then he tells me about it, etc. I don't mind, I'm usually flattered and glad people chose me to release their emotions to.