Topic: Getting a girlfriend didn't cure all my problems.
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #3,611
I am starting to get depressed and angry again.
totoforme !!hWKWsQ1mC joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 54 seconds later[^] [v] #65,544
Are you medicated?
Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^] [v] #65,545
Yea... could've told you that. :'|
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,548
Are you having any problems with your girlfriend?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 19 seconds later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,550
totoforme !!hWKWsQ1mC replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,554
protip !!pMmAiEwOm joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 7 seconds later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,555
Counseling.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,556
@65,548 (D)
Only that i'm insecure. I try to cover it up though; texting a couple of times a day. 2 days a weeks isn't a lot of time to see her. I feel like we're not connecting.
Only that i'm insecure. I try to cover it up though; texting a couple of times a day. 2 days a weeks isn't a lot of time to see her. I feel like we're not connecting.
Deckard Cain !xhERPesk0k joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 22 seconds later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,557
You thought getting a girlfriend would REDUCE the problems in your life? Ahaha, oh wow!
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 23 minutes later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,564
This isn't me, guys.
good luck, OP.
Try talking to your girlfriend from the moment you wake up to the minute you go to sleep (which is when she goes to sleep). You will connect better. 8 hours+ of communication per day is key.
good luck, OP.
Try talking to your girlfriend from the moment you wake up to the minute you go to sleep (which is when she goes to sleep). You will connect better. 8 hours+ of communication per day is key.
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Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,569
Hi Green.
Anonymous D replied with this 15 years ago, 16 seconds later, 34 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,570
@65,556 (A)
That's something you might want to talk to her about. The last thing, not the thing about the insecurity.
@65,564 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
We know, stickybuns.
Dammit, someone put coffee creamer in the Cheetos.
That's something you might want to talk to her about. The last thing, not the thing about the insecurity.
@65,564 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
We know, stickybuns.
Dammit, someone put coffee creamer in the Cheetos.
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 35 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,572
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 38 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,575
@65,564 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
...Light have mercy, you're probably the only one in this thread who hasn't figured out who OP is.
...Light have mercy, you're probably the only one in this thread who hasn't figured out who OP is.
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,577
@previous (Nega !34Kas0OdzM)
I have been absent for ages, mate. Don't expect me to know who replaced me as the socially awkward penguin.
I have been absent for ages, mate. Don't expect me to know who replaced me as the socially awkward penguin.
totoforme !!hWKWsQ1mC replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 43 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,580
Anonymous D replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,582
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 49 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,585
@65,577 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
OP is your predecessor and chan-senior.
Regain some of your previous humility: it suits you.
@65,580 (totoforme !!hWKWsQ1mC)
No, Jack is too preoccupied with other things.
OP is your predecessor and chan-senior.
Regain some of your previous humility: it suits you.
@65,580 (totoforme !!hWKWsQ1mC)
No, Jack is too preoccupied with other things.
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The Owl !yshAAUvyds joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 50 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,586
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 53 seconds later, 51 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,587
@65,564 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
I try too, but I don't want to look too clingy.
I try too, but I don't want to look too clingy.
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Anonymous H replied with this 15 years ago, 17 seconds later, 51 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,588
Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 52 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,589
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 54 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,591
@65,585 (Nega !34Kas0OdzM)
humility? me? Ijust had low confidence (and still do). I was always full of myself.
@65,587 (A)
You won't seem too clingy! If she really cares about you, she'll love to be able to talk to you as much as possible!
humility? me? Ijust had low confidence (and still do). I was always full of myself.
@65,587 (A)
You won't seem too clingy! If she really cares about you, she'll love to be able to talk to you as much as possible!
Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 57 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,593
@65,564 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
> 8+ hours of communication per day is key
Stickybuns....no. Just...no.
> 8+ hours of communication per day is key
Stickybuns....no. Just...no.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 18 seconds later, 57 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,594
@65,591 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
She takes hours to text back... Still waiting for the text I sent at 3.
She takes hours to text back... Still waiting for the text I sent at 3.
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 42 seconds later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,596
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU double-posted this 15 years ago, 45 seconds later, 59 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #65,598
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,600
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 50 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,602
Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 replied with this 15 years ago, 20 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,603
@65,596 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
I've been with my girlfriend for over two years. We have strong communication, and we are not afraid to be frank with one another, but 8+ hours of talking to one another is just silly. Even on days that she spends at my place we don't directly communicate that long. Sure at the beginning of a relationship a couple will talk all day and night about everything they have ever been through and all of their interests, but that will fade.
I've been with my girlfriend for over two years. We have strong communication, and we are not afraid to be frank with one another, but 8+ hours of talking to one another is just silly. Even on days that she spends at my place we don't directly communicate that long. Sure at the beginning of a relationship a couple will talk all day and night about everything they have ever been through and all of their interests, but that will fade.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,609
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,613
The Owl !yshAAUvyds replied with this 15 years ago, 29 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,614
Me and the girl I am courting talk constantly.
Constantly.
Constantly.
Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 replied with this 15 years ago, 44 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,616
@previous (The Owl !yshAAUvyds)
Key word is courting. Once you have been together a few months it dies down.
Key word is courting. Once you have been together a few months it dies down.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,620
@65,613 (stickybuns !bENfolDsOU)
http://bunker.minichan.org/topic/3518
I didn't 'sabotage' your thread...
http://bunker.minichan.org/topic/3518
I didn't 'sabotage' your thread...
The Owl !yshAAUvyds replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,622
stickybuns !bENfolDsOU replied with this 15 years ago, 15 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,624
Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #65,637
I got 99 problems but a bitch ain't one.