postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ started this discussion 12 years ago#35,962
So, as you all know I have opted to build multiple relationships, have them be sexual, intimate, etc. instead of making myself exclusive.
It's already proving difficult, and like maybe I'm just trying to have my cake, and eat it too. The one has caught feelings, and keeps throwing relationship talk at me, telling me she wasnt going to sleep with anyone else, and gets upset when I don't text her for a day or two.
The other is scared of catching feelings, and wants to lay down all these rules to ensure neither one of us gets hurt. The funny thing is, this is the one I actually could see catching feelings for, though even if I did I wouldnt give up the idea of having more than 1 person sucking my dick, and telling me how beautiful I am.
The third one just texts me she misses me here and there and makes plans that one of us cancels. So that isnt too bad. But she's playing the "I only have sex in comitted relationships" game, so she's a tough nut to crack. I will crack her though. It is my destiny!
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 8 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#492,108
casual fucking is all about using and being used. like when you are drinking a bottle of vodka you intensily in love with it, but after it turns empty you toss it into the trash like it was nothing
Handel !XFpaTU3A5E joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 1 hour later, 14 hours after the original post[^][v]#492,125
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 10 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#492,128
@492,108 (E)
That's actually a really good metaphor.
@previous (Handel !XFpaTU3A5E)
It took me a while to realize what I needed to do be happy, and I realized that having one girlfriend who eventually breaks my heart was not the way. Rather if I have more than one then if one of them leaves, well no big deal, there are still more, and someone will soon replace her anyway. There is no fear, no sacrifice, no promises, only fun.
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 18 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^][v]#492,138
Pain is a part of life ya dope, you cannot avoid it.
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 12 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#492,278
@492,253 (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
You say that now
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 2 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#492,369
@492,270 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
I can't avoid it completely, no, but I can be cautious, and minimize it. I do wear a seat-belt for example. Obviously at some point I will probably fall for someone, and it probably won't work out at some point, and I'll have to deal with it. But for now I don't want to do that.
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 19 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#492,377
ive been reading your posts postmortem and heres what ya do:
lock your door
cook up the biggest shot of dope you possibly can without clogging the needle
shoot it and kill yourself you fucking faggot
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 9 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#492,387