postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ started this discussion 12 years ago#34,793
Got a hold of her by making a new KIK, finding her, and messaging her, she replied, and we chatted for a few hours, caught up, etc.
She was funny, made me laugh, and is doing alright. Then started telling me how Kirby is trash, and such, and I didnt like it, it kind of got too weird for me. So, I deleted the account I made, and havent made an attempt to talk to her since.
squeegee !first/o5zA joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 11 minutes later[^][v]#479,307
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 1 minute later, 13 minutes after the original post[^][v]#479,308
But Kirby is trash. You should go back to Lexi.
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 3 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^][v]#479,309
> Got a hold of her
Oh. For a second, I thought that this story was going somewhere dark.
A person only has so many hands, you know.
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 34 minutes later, 50 minutes after the original post[^][v]#479,310
@479,308 (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
Lexi is crazytown, too difficult to please, and our basic principles dont even match up. Sure, she's fun to talk to, and we really get along in some respects, but I tried to make it work for a long time, and it never did. The conversation had a simultaneous tone of "youre a moron", and "I havent forgotten you/still care", it was just odd.
Kirby shares my principles, really sticks by me through good and bad, and is much more on my page. It's just a better dynamic for me.
Garak joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,321
@479,308 (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
Why are you giving him reasonable advice he doesn't deserve it
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 6 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,324
Kill yourself
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 56 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,330
Get out, faggot
dw skg II distribution co. RIP joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 35 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,335
right now OP is like 'my ex called kirby trash so i won't talk to her' but in a few months he'll be like 'kirby is trash i wish i had talked to lexi'
The Captain !PundosRBSM joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 30 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,337
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 2 hours later, 10 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,410
Didn't kirby cheat on you? lol
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 7 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,413
@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Kinda sorta. But not full on.
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 12 years ago, 4 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,415
@previous (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
What the fuck does that mean? Did she cheat or did she not? Did she fuck another dude and did you walk in on it?
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 16 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,424
@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Half naked with another guy, no fucking though. She swears she wasnt going to, I give her the benefit of the doubt.
dead dw !jdTkvovFCQ joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,425
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 12 years ago, 12 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,429
@479,424 (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
You're fucking stupid. I'd have broken her hand for that.
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 2 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,430
@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
I already met my hand breaking quota.
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 12 years ago, 3 minutes later, 11 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,431
@previous (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+) > half naked with another guy
squeegee joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 22 minutes later, 12 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,432
she did fuck him, bro.
no wasn't going to about it
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 1 hour later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,441
@previous (squeegee)
I dont think so, but if she did then she did. It isn't the end of the world,and if she's perpetuating a lie then that's fine too, I would do the exact same thing. If I cheated no one would ever know, it would only make me look bad, and Kirby feel bad. Admittence of guilt is a cure for the guilty, not the actual victim.
Garak replied with this 12 years ago, 22 minutes later, 13 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,444
@previous (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
It's a thing to say 'i wasn't going to' when caught almost cheating
Ash !bbKEtchUp. joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 4 hours later, 18 hours after the original post[^][v]#479,459
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 5 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#479,483
@479,444 (Garak)
Yeah, I'm sure it is. But I have also nearly cheated on people, and backed out at the last possible second without ever getting busted. Sometimes your conscience has a delayed reaction.Furthermore, she says she feels super guilty, and all that, so I decided to give her another chance, as I would do if she full on cheated on me. If she's really as torn up as she said she is, she won't do it again, andif she does, I'll look at the situation. The thing is that I internally forgive her, I have no issue with her, so why should I make myself sad because of some social expectation?
Garak replied with this 12 years ago, 24 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#479,486
@previous (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+)
yeah i don't care about cheating stuff personally
Syntax joined in and replied with this 12 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#479,488
@479,483 (postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+) > Half naked with another guy, no fucking though. She swears she wasnt going to, I give her the benefit of the doubt.
Hey wood you consider buying the San Francisco Golden Gate bridge from me? You wood have to give me the benefit of the doubt that I own it.
postmortem !!Qe8ScDbX+ (OP) replied with this 12 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^][v]#479,493
@479,486 (Garak)
It's an issue, but not as an enormous one as it's made out to be, at least for me. She was much more in fear of me breaking up with her than I was considering actually breaking up with her. So some biological thing makes me jealous and posessive sexually, okay, that's fine, but a feeling shouldnt dictate my life decisions.