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Topic: Age difference

TheSheep !kJ.A4PF7.k started this discussion 15 years ago #3,463

How much do you consider fine? I'm 21 and I probably wouldn't date a girl younger than 17 atm, would be just too much...

If you wonder why I'm curious... my neighbor is born at 1995 and she's dating a dude born in 1984, saw 'em today, lol'd, but it got me thinking...

EDIT: inb4 pedo, as we learned, in Croatia, 14 year is legal... wouldn't go that way tho...

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totoforhire !!pNz4kjfeW joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later[^] [v] #62,726

26 and 16? That seems a little weird.

Nexus !jNexusRe/. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #62,729

@previous (totoforhire !!pNz4kjfeW)
This.

@OP
I think age gaps are fine. Say someone who is 25, dating someone who is 18. They both understand sex and pregnancy.
My issue comes when pedophiles try to justify being with someone who is 13, because they see adults with 10 year age gaps.

Homestar !RUNNERV7vk joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #62,735

I think it depends on how old you are.

10-20 +-3 years
20-25 +-4 years
25-30 +-7 years
30+ +-12 years

hamfist !!PRJFHZ7kb joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 6 seconds later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #62,736

Eh I dated a 13 year old this year (I'm 16) and I broke up with her because I felt too sleazy. The supposed "rule" is you can go as low as (your age)/2 + 7

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #62,740

[[your age] / 2] + 7 = lowest age that’s typically reasonable to date/fuck/etc

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 34 seconds later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #62,742

I am 19 and my boyfriend is 17. ;3

As long as none of the parties involved are under like... 15 or 16, I don't think it matters much.

Netrogo !K7LlUhtEes joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,908

My wife's four years younger than me. *shrug*

jump !VIfloDyEYo joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 15 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,919

I think it's highly dependant on the person, but I think 24 is my limit. Judging by interactions in the past few years with low 20s females. They are flakey and still lack a seriousness about life choices. I wouldn't expect a relationship with anyone under 22 to be lasting.

However, that's an ideal world. I am very lonely. I would probably go as low as 18 and out of high school. Because I am ever so lonely.

I mean, I find them attractive. That's all you really need.

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 25 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,942

Hmm...I'm a 17 year old female and I don't mind dating guys up to 9 years older than me. I guess 2 digits seems kind of.. :O It's really hard to generalize these kinds of things since there's so many factors to consider.

hamfist !!PRJFHZ7kb replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,947

@previous (J)
omg post pixxx

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 20 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,956

@previous (hamfist !!PRJFHZ7kb)
Hami, it's me. LOL.

nimj joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,957

@62,942 (J)
weird
lol
guys have no standards and girls' standards are too high

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,961

@previous (nimj)
What's wrong with standards?

jump !VIfloDyEYo replied with this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,963

@62,942 (J)
When my friend turned 18 she went on a "date" with her gymnastics coach.

She had the mindset "well I'm an adult now, I can date other adults."

She thinks differently now. Apparently, 18 year old women are extremely east to manipulate. That information should prove useful to me someday.

nimj replied with this 15 years ago, 26 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,964

@62,961 (J)
I didn't say anything was wrong with standards.

nimj double-posted this 15 years ago, 57 seconds later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,965

@62,963 (jump !VIfloDyEYo)
I hear a lot of teenage girls talking about how they only date older guys. mfw

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,966

@62,963 (jump !VIfloDyEYo)
I honestly don't think of it that way. I've just always liked dating guys older than me. Nor have I ever dated a guy younger than me.

jump !VIfloDyEYo replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #62,997

@62,965 (nimj)
@previous (J)
Yea, she seemed to think differently about dating much older men at that age after getting older and looking back on how different 18 year olds are from 25 year olds.

There is a huge difference in maturity in general, and that isn't saying that 18 year olds are immature (though many are) it's just perspectives on life. Obviously, he was only interested in her because she was young and he wanted to fuck her.

She also looks much younger than she is. When I first met her, I thought she was like 18-19. She was 26. The guy was a creep.

He also called her up a few months later at night drunk and was like "(name redacted) you, you do take it in the ass, don't you?"

The guy tried to kiss her after the date as well but she was all like "haha, gotta go."

Seriously though, I would feel creepy dating an 18 year old. Me. I'm 29 though. At 25 I would have thought it was creepy but I still would have done it.

22 and under I don't think is a big deal at all. Pretty much similar stages in life. Transitioning from one thing to the next.

Nega !34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 14 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,006

Really depends more on the individual ages: :-)

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Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,011

@62,997 (jump !VIfloDyEYo)
Oh it's those types. Sex as the foundation of a relationship doesn't last very long from what I've seen.
I'm pretty old fashioned when it comes to relationships.

Nega !34Kas0OdzM replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,012

A person very close to me is dating a 14yo at nineteen.

nimj replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,014

@previous (Nega !34Kas0OdzM)
That's a tough one. In my opinion, the situation is always different. Though that is nearly pushing it...
I particularly don't like it when I hear young girls making it a rule to not date younger than them because older guys are "more mature" than their age group. Why would a mature older man want to date an adolescent? Other than for pooty tang.

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Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,019

@previous (nimj)
Well I guess it works in a cycle. If a woman were to choose between a mature man and a man more mature than him, I guess she'd go for the more mature man.

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nimj replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,020

@previous (J)
Yes, but that's saying that it's a unique situation. I'm talking about stupid generalizations from young ditsy girls. That gets my goat.

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,021

@previous (nimj)
Oh, those. Alright. I like the new Ninji. ;)

Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 39 minutes later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,027

18 to <25 can date, 17 to <23, 16 to <21, anything less, I'd say a 2 year age gap would be maximum.

psychopath !PAHVpsycho joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 11 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,075

AS long as they aren't older than me by about 2 years, I'm fine.
For me, as long as they are above 16, they're good to go.

The Owl !yshAAUvyds joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 hours later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,453

I don't think age matters. The youngest I'd consider is 15.5 years though.

Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #63,460

@63,027 (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
> 2 year age gap
This is just my personal preference.

wowaname !LSD69pSotU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,511

@62,740 (F)
13/2+7=13 lol

oh and also 1/2+7 = 7

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Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,616

@previous (wowaname !LSD69pSotU)
I'm sure that 7 + 0.5 = 7.5

Anonymous J double-posted this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,617

@63,511 (wowaname !LSD69pSotU)
Hold on... 13/2 = 6.5 Then, 6.5 + 7 = 13.5

Anonymous S joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,618

@63,511 (wowaname !LSD69pSotU)

You're too young to date, young man. You should be focusing on school! You can't even do proper arithmetic!

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Lawrence !9p5vCatBBQ joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 30 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,628

@63,511 (wowaname !LSD69pSotU)
Derp...

Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 36 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,641

@63,460 (Ph !5pM9NZR/l6)
I think it's what's socially acceptable amongst people of those ages.

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #63,679

@63,617 (J)
It doesn't work with ages that young, because at those ages you're too young to date anyway. 13 year old "dating" isn't really dating anyway. One of the moms takes them to the movie theater in the minivan, they hold hands, and they're home before 10. They might make out, but before age 13 that's kinda gross.

Anyway, starting at age 14, the Age/2 + 7 rules seems to work incredibly well.

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 14 hours later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #64,032

@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
That rule is flawed.
Wasn't your ex girlfriend like 17?

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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #64,082

@previous (J)
21, Dumbass. I've never broken that rule, even before I knew about that rule, and I turn 25 tomorrow.

Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #64,087

@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
lololololo
Sorry.

The Owl !yshAAUvyds replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,178

@63,679 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)

> 13 year old "dating" isn't really dating anyway. One of the moms takes them to the movie theater in the minivan, they hold hands, and they're home before 10. They might make out, but before age 13 that's kinda gross.

You clearly have not grown up in the same work as me.

pizza day joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,491

@63,679 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)

> 13 year old "dating"
> they hold hands
> They might make out
> but before age 13 that's kinda gross.

Did you spend your childhood in the 18th century?

Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,496

@previous (pizza day)
It all depends on the area. That was pretty accurate for me when I was that age, but today, 12 year olds claim to have been laid, in love and seriously considering children.

ヲワナメ !LSD69pSotU replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,502

@63,618 (S)
mfw anyone would want to

ヲワナメ !LSD69pSotU double-posted this 15 years ago, 22 seconds later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,505

@64,491 (pizza day)
someone in my spanish class has had sex before

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,762

@64,491 (pizza day)
It might have seemed normal at that age, because you wanted it more than anything, but watch two 6th graders make out now that you're older and tell me that it doesn't look messed up. They don't know what the fuck they're doing or what the fuck they're thinking. I firmly believe that until you're at least a freshman in high school, there's no such thing as a real relationship.

@64,496 (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
That's because they're retarded. No, really, their brains haven't developed to a point yet where they fully understand the magnitude of something like having kids, especially having kids at age 12. I know 30 years olds who didn't understand the magnitude of having kids until they actually did.

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Anonymous W joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,785

@64,491 (pizza day)
In the 18th century, AOC was lower.

Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6 replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,788

@64,762 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Nobody truly understands the magnitude of having a kid until the do, do they?

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,790

@previous (Unintentional Jackass !LASXURl1b6)
Nope. That's both a good thing and a bad thing though, I think.

The Owl !yshAAUvyds replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,819

@64,762 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)

> It might have seemed normal at that age, because you wanted it more than anything, but watch two 6th graders make out now that you're older and tell me that it doesn't look messed up. They don't know what the fuck they're doing or what the fuck they're thinking. I firmly believe that until you're at least a freshman in high school, there's no such thing as a real relationship.

You CLEARLY did not grow up in the same world as I did.

Srsly, "One of the moms takes them to the movie theater in the minivan, they hold hands, and they're home before 10"?

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Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,896

@previous (The Owl !yshAAUvyds)
Yeah, seriously. Until you at least have a car that you can drive, any "relationship" is a joke, imo. Clearly we did not grow up in the same world.

The Owl !yshAAUvyds replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #64,985

@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)

> Until you at least have a car that you can drive, any "relationship" is a joke, imo.

What the fuck does a car have to do with anything, lol. My parents don't have cars and they've been together for like 19 years.

Anonymous W replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #65,005

@64,896 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
This is only true if you really love the car. Remember to wear a condom if you want to stick it in the exhaust.

Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #65,012

@previous (W)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5sOCEUpGZI

pizza day replied with this 15 years ago, 26 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #65,049

@64,762 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)

> They don't know what the fuck they're doing or what the fuck they're thinking.
> making out
You're an idiot.

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #65,075

@64,985 (The Owl !yshAAUvyds)
Because if you're a teenager and you don't even have a car to drive places, and actually go on dates. If your parents have to drive you places and/or babysit you on your dates, that's a joke. You're kids hanging out. You're not really dating. And it's stupid to think that a 13 year old is mature enough for a real relationship. It might become more serious as they get older and more emotionally mature, but at that age "dating" is a joke.

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 double-posted this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #65,076

@65,049 (pizza day)
No, you're a moron if you think a 13 year old is emotionally mature enough for a real relationship. They can like each other and hang out and all that shit, but it's not dating, it's not a real relationship, and it's not love. The few 13 year olds who are very mature for their age is mature enough to understand this.
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