Topic: Straight males and females: Do you ever have intimate dreams involving the same gender as you?
Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #333
This is something I've simply wondered for a little while. The question asked in the title is what should be answered in the poll.
Also, while we're on the subject, have you ever viewed and got off to porn involving the same gender as you? If so, did you enjoy it, were you neutral to it, or did you just not care? Lastly, when you view porn--do you imagine yourself as a bystander, the man, or the woman? Answer truthfully please, thanks.
Same applies for the homosexuals of minichan (except instead of the same gender, it'll be the opposite.)
Also, while we're on the subject, have you ever viewed and got off to porn involving the same gender as you? If so, did you enjoy it, were you neutral to it, or did you just not care? Lastly, when you view porn--do you imagine yourself as a bystander, the man, or the woman? Answer truthfully please, thanks.
Same applies for the homosexuals of minichan (except instead of the same gender, it'll be the opposite.)
| Poll option | Votes | Percentage | Graph |
|---|---|---|---|
| Yes, and it makes me krame. | 3 | 20% | |
| Yes, but I'm impartial to it. | - | 0% | |
| No. | 12 | 80% |
Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later[^] [v] #6,177
Not really OP, and yourself?
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,181
@previous (B)
No, I don't, but I used to have them sometimes when I was younger. What are your answers to the other questions asked in the OP?
No, I don't, but I used to have them sometimes when I was younger. What are your answers to the other questions asked in the OP?
Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,188
(Citing a deleted or non-existent reply.)
I see. I'm mainly curious if any of you will come out and admit to anything.
So, how often do you guys dream about the other gender in sexual/intimate ways? It's pretty much every single night for me, except they're always innocent like holding hands, going on dates, stuff like that.
I see. I'm mainly curious if any of you will come out and admit to anything.
So, how often do you guys dream about the other gender in sexual/intimate ways? It's pretty much every single night for me, except they're always innocent like holding hands, going on dates, stuff like that.
Mindwurms !!4IKKtS9GG joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 47 seconds later, 11 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,189
@previous (A)
> they're always innocent like holding hands, going on dates, stuff like that.
http://endlessvideo.com/watch?v=jmgcjRu1s-8&feature=related
> they're always innocent like holding hands, going on dates, stuff like that.
http://endlessvideo.com/watch?v=jmgcjRu1s-8&feature=related
Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 43 seconds later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,192
I never dream about sex with the same gender. It's always with the opposite gender, and whenever I'm about to have sex (like I move my dream-penis into a dream-vagina) I wake up because I have no idea what it feels like, and my brain can't imitate what it might feel like.
As for porn, the only porn involving men I can stand is Male POV porn with a silent cameraman so I can pretend that it's my dick in the film. If it's anything else involving men, I can't really get off on it. Lesbian porn is definitely the best, though I don't know why; nor do I know whether I am interested in being merely an observer or if I subconsciously want to be a woman in the porno.
As for porn, the only porn involving men I can stand is Male POV porn with a silent cameraman so I can pretend that it's my dick in the film. If it's anything else involving men, I can't really get off on it. Lesbian porn is definitely the best, though I don't know why; nor do I know whether I am interested in being merely an observer or if I subconsciously want to be a woman in the porno.
Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,198
@6,181 (A)
Hmm I'm not the ideal person to ask. But from what I remember of pornography... I never imagined myself ever being a part of the video. I just watched, did my business, and closed it.
I'm not fond of lesbian pornography and it usually grosses me out that they take turns using dildos and clit vibrators. So no, I've never gotten off to the same gender as me either.
Hmm I'm not the ideal person to ask. But from what I remember of pornography... I never imagined myself ever being a part of the video. I just watched, did my business, and closed it.
I'm not fond of lesbian pornography and it usually grosses me out that they take turns using dildos and clit vibrators. So no, I've never gotten off to the same gender as me either.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 19 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,204
All of the time, OP!
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,205
No. I have an irrational hatred of visible veins, and I also hate babies, so naturally, I would hate the seed and the thing that releases them.
Also, I do not view pornography, as I make all kinds of negative assumptions about the participants the whole time.
Also, I do not view pornography, as I make all kinds of negative assumptions about the participants the whole time.
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Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 26 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,213
@6,189 (Mindwurms !!4IKKtS9GG)
Haha. I'm not lying. It really is how it tends to go, probably because I, like Fake Anon, am a virgin. Otherwise I'm sure all of my dreams would be chock full of myself having sex with women.
@6,192 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
> Lesbian porn is definitely the best
*Hi-five*
> though I don't know why; nor do I know whether I am interested in being merely an observer or if I subconsciously want to be a woman in the porno.
Likely an observer. I think you would know by now if you wanted to be a woman.
@6,198 (B)
> Hmm I'm not the ideal person to ask
Because you're asexual?
> But from what I remember of pornography
Why don't you view it anymore?
> it usually grosses me out that they take turns using dildos and clit vibrators.
Understandably. I happen to find it extremely hot.
Haha. I'm not lying. It really is how it tends to go, probably because I, like Fake Anon, am a virgin. Otherwise I'm sure all of my dreams would be chock full of myself having sex with women.
@6,192 (Fake anon !ZkUt8arUCU)
> Lesbian porn is definitely the best
*Hi-five*
> though I don't know why; nor do I know whether I am interested in being merely an observer or if I subconsciously want to be a woman in the porno.
Likely an observer. I think you would know by now if you wanted to be a woman.
@6,198 (B)
> Hmm I'm not the ideal person to ask
Because you're asexual?
> But from what I remember of pornography
Why don't you view it anymore?
> it usually grosses me out that they take turns using dildos and clit vibrators.
Understandably. I happen to find it extremely hot.
Anonymous F replied with this 15 years ago, 5 minutes later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,216
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 56 seconds later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,219
Anonymous B replied with this 15 years ago, 25 minutes later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #6,243
@6,213 (A)
Yes. Asexual.
I don't view it anymore because I'd spend half an hour or so looking for videos and watch 2 minutes of it....then feel utterly disgusted with myself for 2 hours.
Yes. Asexual.
I don't view it anymore because I'd spend half an hour or so looking for videos and watch 2 minutes of it....then feel utterly disgusted with myself for 2 hours.
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,244
I've never dreamed about women that I can remember, and am not really interested in porn. Rarely, I will find myself attracted to a female though.
Anonymous F replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,248
Anonymous I joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,251
@6,243 (B)
OP here from a different device. So, how would you describe being asexual as? I'm not particularly familiar with it's meaning/definition and I'd rather hear your description of it.
I see. Well, you shouldn't feel disgusted, it's perfectly a natural thing. If anything you should feel good afterwards. Why do you think it is that you feel disgusted after finishing?
OP here from a different device. So, how would you describe being asexual as? I'm not particularly familiar with it's meaning/definition and I'd rather hear your description of it.
I see. Well, you shouldn't feel disgusted, it's perfectly a natural thing. If anything you should feel good afterwards. Why do you think it is that you feel disgusted after finishing?
Anonymous I double-posted this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,253
@6,244 (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)
> Rarely, I will find myself attracted to a female though.
Hot. Do you ever feel inclined to act on it? Or, if a female you were attracted to approached you and was interested in something, would you go through with it? Also, have you ever messed around with a woman?
> Rarely, I will find myself attracted to a female though.
Hot. Do you ever feel inclined to act on it? Or, if a female you were attracted to approached you and was interested in something, would you go through with it? Also, have you ever messed around with a woman?
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w replied with this 15 years ago, 8 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,262
@previous (I)
I had a roommate in college I was really attracted to. We messed around a few, once with a guy she was into, and the other two just by ourselves after drinking some. It was always a little awkward the next day, and we never talked about it after it happened.
I had a roommate in college I was really attracted to. We messed around a few, once with a guy she was into, and the other two just by ourselves after drinking some. It was always a little awkward the next day, and we never talked about it after it happened.
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Anonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,267
@previous (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)
> it was always awkward the next day
Haha, bummer.
Thanks for the answer though, I came.
> it was always awkward the next day
Haha, bummer.
Thanks for the answer though, I came.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 23 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,268
@6,251 (I)
Anon B from laptop.
To be asexual is to have no desire to have sex or to be involved in sex.
@6,251 (I)
@6,248 (F)
I don't know why I feel disgusted, but I just do. The only way I saw to eliminate such a horrible feeling is by not watching porn at all.
Anon B from laptop.
To be asexual is to have no desire to have sex or to be involved in sex.
@6,251 (I)
@6,248 (F)
I don't know why I feel disgusted, but I just do. The only way I saw to eliminate such a horrible feeling is by not watching porn at all.
Bobby2Sox !dinhUJfbqA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 38 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,269
I don't get a lot of chance to see much porn. But what I do see, whatever the subject/gender, fascinates and excites me. And sometimes makes me feel dirty or guiolty. I never realised there was so much to do/learnAnonymous I replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,272
@6,268 (J)
I see. For how long have you identified this way? Do your friends in IRL know? Also, are you okay with these questions?
> I don't know why I feel disgusted, but I just do.
:-( You sound kind of like my christian friend. Except she thinks it's outright wrong to masturbate before marriage (or so she says.)
I see. For how long have you identified this way? Do your friends in IRL know? Also, are you okay with these questions?
> I don't know why I feel disgusted, but I just do.
:-( You sound kind of like my christian friend. Except she thinks it's outright wrong to masturbate before marriage (or so she says.)
Bobby2Sox !dinhUJfbqA replied with this 15 years ago, 4 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,273
@6,269 (Bobby2Sox !dinhUJfbqA)
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Sorry I think my hands were shaking!!
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Sorry I think my hands were shaking!!
cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,274
Captain SquaЯeD !L.....AlN. joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,278
I can't even remember the last dream I had... :-/
Anonymous J replied with this 15 years ago, 34 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,279
@6,272 (I)
Yeah, my IRL friends know. I don't mind the questions either.
I'm not even Christian. Or religious. ):
I don't have a problem with masturbation, I just don't like to masturbate.
Yeah, my IRL friends know. I don't mind the questions either.
I'm not even Christian. Or religious. ):
I don't have a problem with masturbation, I just don't like to masturbate.
Bobby2Sox !dinhUJfbqA replied with this 15 years ago, 24 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,280
Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #6,283
@OP
> This is something I've simply wondered for a little while. The question asked in the title is what should be answered in the poll.
Yes, only once though and it was romantic, not sexual. It was quite vivid and it left me feeling stunned for a few days afterwards.
> Also, while we're on the subject, have you ever viewed and got off to porn involving the same gender as you?
Yes.
> If so, did you enjoy it, were you neutral to it, or did you just not care?
It wasn't really my thing, but it wasn't totally a turn off either.
> Lastly, when you view porn--do you imagine yourself as a bystander, the man, or the woman? Answer truthfully please, thanks.
The woman.
> This is something I've simply wondered for a little while. The question asked in the title is what should be answered in the poll.
Yes, only once though and it was romantic, not sexual. It was quite vivid and it left me feeling stunned for a few days afterwards.
> Also, while we're on the subject, have you ever viewed and got off to porn involving the same gender as you?
Yes.
> If so, did you enjoy it, were you neutral to it, or did you just not care?
It wasn't really my thing, but it wasn't totally a turn off either.
> Lastly, when you view porn--do you imagine yourself as a bystander, the man, or the woman? Answer truthfully please, thanks.
The woman.
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 5 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #7,051
I sometimes have dreams where I'm a female and I'm kissing another girl. Does that count?