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Topic: Do you think I see my girlfriend enough?

Anonymous A started this discussion 15 years ago #3,258

I see her twice a week. I would like to see her more, but she says she's busy...

Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 30 seconds later[^] [v] #58,909

She's fucking someone else...

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #58,916

lock her in your house

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,195

Nothing is worse than a man who can't control his goddamn emotions.

Anonymous C replied with this 15 years ago, 4 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,203

@previous (D)
dm can barely control his sphincter let alone his emotions

The Owl !yshAAUvyds joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 42 seconds later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,205

@previous (C)

It's funny how you all claim to be sick of him and yet don't shut the fuck up about him.

totoforhire !!pNz4kjfeW joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,481

@previous (The Owl !yshAAUvyds)
Really, this thread has nothing to do with Matt. Who is this anon bringing him up?

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 45 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,524

Well, she obviously has a life and is probably busy. Twice a week is plenty, especially if you call and/or text each other. If you constantly nag her to spend more time with you, she might feel smothered or feel like you're too clingy, especially if you just started this relationship. Take it slow, take it easy, and don't get all worked up over seeing her twice a week.

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 8 hours later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,697

Does she make it a point not to specify what she's busy doing?

Born This Way !dLadyGAgAA joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 12 minutes later, 17 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,698

She's cheating on you.

!34Kas0OdzM joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 42 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,702

@previous (Born This Way !dLadyGAgAA)
@59,203 (C)
Hush.
@OP
Are you in contact otherwise?
You're both adults, and not married, so that's actually pretty okay.
@59,524 (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)
Listen to the Broseph.

cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 3 minutes later, 18 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,703

Hm, how long have you been dating?

If you live near each other, IMO twice a week is not all that much...

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 2 hours later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,792

@previous (cccuuunnttt !nIGga.SL0w)

Since december. She lives 3 miles from me.

Anonymous A (OP) double-posted this 15 years ago, 21 seconds later, 20 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,794

@59,702 (!34Kas0OdzM)
Yeah. Text.

Nyarth joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 21 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,887

What's Love?

It should be about us.
It should be about trust, babe.

The Owl !yshAAUvyds replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,948

@previous (Nyarth)

> What's Love?

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

Ph !5pM9NZR/l6 joined in and replied with this 15 years ago, 17 minutes later, 23 hours after the original post[^] [v] #59,966

@59,792 (A)
> 3 miles
Bah, take a tip from The Proclaimers http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tbNlMtqrYS0
The movie they show clips from is "Benny and Joon"

Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4 replied with this 15 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #60,067

@59,792 (A)
Hmm, twice a week doesn't seem like much now that you mention you've been together for almost 4 months and you only live 3 miles away. 2 questions: a) Did you used to see her more but now it feels like she's avoiding you? b) How much time do you spend together when you do see her? Is it like 2 hours a week or more like 12 hours a week?

How do you really feel about all this? Does it feel like she's pushing you away? Do you feel neglected or ignored? Does she pay attention to you through texts? Maybe you need to let her know how you feel.

Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 15 years ago, 11 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #60,084

@previous (Broseph !!fxnDb+Ve4)

> Hmm, twice a week doesn't seem like much now that you mention you've been together for almost 4 months and you only live 3 miles away. 2 questions: a) Did you used to see her more but now it feels like she's avoiding you?
3-4 times a week.
b) How much time do you spend together when you do see her? Is it like 2 hours a week or more like 12 hours a week?
5 hours a day.
> How do you really feel about all this? Does it feel like she's pushing you away? Do you feel neglected or ignored? Does she pay attention to you through texts?
I feel as though she is slightly apathetic.
Maybe you need to let her know how you feel.

totoforhire !!pNz4kjfeW replied with this 15 years ago, 19 minutes later, 1 day after the original post[^] [v] #60,118

I don't think that there is a right or wrong amount of time. But if you want to spend more time with her, you8 should make that happen.
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