Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk started this discussion 13 years ago#32,363
Going to her lake house for the weekend, and looking at it as a sort of test. If everything goes well, then I'll stay with her, but if not, I'm going to move on.
She's fun to be with, but her unstable personality, bipolarity, promiscuity, and excessive alcohol use make her uncomfortable to be with, amongst other things. She also has this "everybody's shit, and life is meaningless" schtick going, while still believing in the Jesus, so thar's a whole bunch of bullshit.
I can't tell if she's intelligent with a few warped ideas about reality, or stupid with a few intelligent ideas.
We shall see, I suppose. This weekend will be a good way for me to evaluate things.
HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 33 seconds later[^][v]#452,464
Why are you dating Green?
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 54 seconds later, 1 minute after the original post[^][v]#452,465
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That does sound like green, yikes. Yeah, not Green though. The good news is that she's moving to Fortworth, as of now she wants me to move with her, but if I decide she isn't worth my time, I don't really have a whole lot I have to deal with. No awkward encounters or anything like that. Just a quick phone call, and then cut off contact.
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Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 4 minutes after the original post[^][v]#452,466
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Oh, you're dating Bella then.
Syntax joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^][v]#452,467
> unstable personality, bipolarity, promiscuity, and excessive alcohol
4 out of 4
Dude you need to take
Finding quality woman 101
Barnes and Nooble.
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 11 minutes after the original post[^][v]#452,468
Those things are all not issues I have with who she is as a person, simply flaws that piss me off to no end, and all of them also have a positive aside, that is excluding the promiscuity, which upsets me more than anything else, and is of course a result of the other things.
The question is: Do I want to deal with a pile of bullshit to be with a girl I'm fond of, or do I want to leave her to save myself many a head ache?
And what I really fear is being in another Cupcake situation, putting up with everything, morphing myself into someone else just to please someone, all to enjoy the little bit of them that I fell for in the beginning.
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Morbid !CsjD2LWaco joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 16 minutes after the original post[^][v]#452,470
I forget but perhaps you swing both ways? So like with this new GF you end up with Sloppy 2nds and even in a 3 to 8-Way with what is a Googleplex of dudes.
If you're not bi then you need to buy cases of Mouth wash and serious powerful soap to wash off the spurge of them dudes dicks from your penis.
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 14 minutes later, 58 minutes after the original post[^][v]#452,478
@previous (Syntax)
The only people she's full on sexual with is girls, has made out with a few guys. Not bisexual, but it's more of a "you can't handle yourself" issue than anything else.
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 hours later, 3 hours after the original post[^][v]#452,495
It's not the promiscuity you know about, it's the promiscuity you don't know about. When you move in with her, you will be her bitch. She can kick you out at any time.