Topic: girlfriend is moving to Fortworth
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk started this discussion 13 years ago #32,288
She wants me to move out there with her, and I've agreed to that. She's moving in with her sister, who might take me in, depending on how much she likes me, I am of course also offering to pay rent. This would make the transition easier than moving into an apartment, and would shorten my move in time from a couple months to a few weeks or less.
It's a bit scary for me, it will be my first time living away from my parents, and it will be an unfamiliar area, I won't really have a support network, or even any familiar faces, just my girlfriend, and then I need to make enough money to not only live, but to save up, so that's another thing.
I realize that I'm doing this purely out of love for this girl, I don't want to be apart from her, and this might be very foolish.
It's a bit scary for me, it will be my first time living away from my parents, and it will be an unfamiliar area, I won't really have a support network, or even any familiar faces, just my girlfriend, and then I need to make enough money to not only live, but to save up, so that's another thing.
I realize that I'm doing this purely out of love for this girl, I don't want to be apart from her, and this might be very foolish.
Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 5 minutes later[^] [v] #451,833
Good luck, John! I'm sure you'll be fine.
Remember, you've always got friends here if you need people to talk to. :)
Remember, you've always got friends here if you need people to talk to. :)
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,835
@previous (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
Thanks, I really appreciate that :). I know I've had my ups and downs with this community, but through my years being here I've grown pretty attached to this place, it's a familiar area, and brings me a lot of comfort.
Thanks, I really appreciate that :). I know I've had my ups and downs with this community, but through my years being here I've grown pretty attached to this place, it's a familiar area, and brings me a lot of comfort.
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 9 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,836
How long have you been together? It seems like you're jumping into things that shouldn't be jumped into until you've known the person for like, at least a year...
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,837
@previous (C)
I've known her for a month, which I realize isn't very much time at all, but I've also been through a lot with her, have seen her sides, met her family, and have basically live with her already, spending 80-100% percent of my day with her. It hasn't been long, but accumulative hours wise, it's been a while. Not to mention I can always move back in with my parents if everything goes to shit. But yeah, it is fast.
*I've been with her for a month, and a week, I've known her for a month, and like 9 days.
I've known her for a month, which I realize isn't very much time at all, but I've also been through a lot with her, have seen her sides, met her family, and have basically live with her already, spending 80-100% percent of my day with her. It hasn't been long, but accumulative hours wise, it's been a while. Not to mention I can always move back in with my parents if everything goes to shit. But yeah, it is fast.
*I've been with her for a month, and a week, I've known her for a month, and like 9 days.
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Syntax joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 18 seconds later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,838
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,840
Syntax replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 24 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,843
@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Keep some money hand for a return ticket home.
As I remember it you also had a job so the move means you ditch current income?
Keep some money hand for a return ticket home.
As I remember it you also had a job so the move means you ditch current income?
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,844
@previous (Syntax)
I'm inbetween jobs, but do get $60 a week for helping my parents out around the house, so that's technically an income. Even if everything goes how I want it to, I'm still not moving out there until I have at least $1, 000 saved up, which if I get any of the jobs I've applied to, shouldn't take me more than a month.
I'm inbetween jobs, but do get $60 a week for helping my parents out around the house, so that's technically an income. Even if everything goes how I want it to, I'm still not moving out there until I have at least $1, 000 saved up, which if I get any of the jobs I've applied to, shouldn't take me more than a month.
Syntax replied with this 13 years ago, 14 minutes later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,852
@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)OK so again checking my memory - You and ducky had job in common serving up and other Arab fair...So wot happened to that gig?
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 15 seconds later, 42 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #451,853
This is going to end badly. Get everything in writing!
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #451,859
@previous (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
Ur my favorite poster here. You insult me a lot, but I always find it humorous, or admittedly poignant. I will document everything.
Ur my favorite poster here. You insult me a lot, but I always find it humorous, or admittedly poignant. I will document everything.
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 8 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,860
So you move with her and then you break up a bit later. This sounds bad.
You should've stuck with Cupcake. She pleasured you so much that she got tonsilitis.
You should've stuck with Cupcake. She pleasured you so much that she got tonsilitis.
Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx replied with this 13 years ago, 13 seconds later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,861
@451,859 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Becky actually really likes you. She just has a funny way of showing it. :')
Becky actually really likes you. She just has a funny way of showing it. :')
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,863
post everything on minichan
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 hours later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,883
@451,861 (Killer Lettuce !!iNo3FkiZx)
She's actually been pretty cool with me when things have gotten especially awry, she's also a good moderator, and even if she does dislike me, she still manages things well.
She's actually been pretty cool with me when things have gotten especially awry, she's also a good moderator, and even if she does dislike me, she still manages things well.
Meta joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,886
@451,853 (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
You should represent him pro bono.
@OP
Good luck, John! You are a golden god!
You should represent him pro bono.
@OP
Good luck, John! You are a golden god!
TTEH !JXsxEkDBLs joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 16 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,888
Good luck!Dead !Pool..v42s joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 18 minutes later, 5 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,896
Good luck buddy! Enjoy life and share it with a friend if you can
Anonymous K joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 hours later, 7 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,909
I recommend against relationships with people whom have been diagnosed as bipolar
beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 13 years ago, 32 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,910
Anonymous K replied with this 13 years ago, 28 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,911
squeegee !first/o5zA joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 28 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #451,912
if you want me to show her around i'm happy to not go further than anal.