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Topic: I've been thinking about going back to my ex-girlfriend.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY started this discussion 13 years ago #32,018

We split up on good terms and I miss her company. Perhaps I shall talk to her tomorrow. Maybe plan on watching a movie next week.

Ks !KansasxqvM joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 5 minutes later[^] [v] #448,972

> We split up on good terms

Then you should probably leave it at that.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,974

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
I don't know, man. I think I may be ready to get back with her. I just keep on forgetting about her, and I don't know why.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 12 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,975

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Best of luck to you either way, bud. Just don't get her pregnant.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 14 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,978

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It will almost certainly be without the drama of my first girlfriend. She was insane, and, at the time, so was I.

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 17 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,979

Is this the same chick whose mom tried to get a restraining order against you after you split or…?

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 53 seconds later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,980

@previous (C)
That would be my first girlfriend.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 22 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,982

@448,978 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
All teenagers are insane, lol. It doesn't get any easier for awhile. You won't be the same person you were five years ago for a looong time. The best you can do is not fuck up in any big way, and plan for the future. Most people can't even get those things right.

You shouldn't date a girl because you're lonely though. It's so much more fun when it's spontaneous and real. Go meet some new girls!

(Edited 3 minutes later.)

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 24 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,984

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It's just that I felt a connection with her. I feel like reuniting with her when I get a nice car. Perhaps that would be romantic.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 27 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,992

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Let me tell you something, son. Once a relationship has ended once it's pretty much destined to fail every time you try again. You will just be chasing a high you'll never get, like a coke fiend, or a professional jumper. I'm telling you this from experience well documented on this very site.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 28 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,995

@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
It wasn't even that serious beforehand. We were friends, then we dated and now we're just friends again. But I feel something in her. I feel a connection, man. Hopefully, she does too.

Triptych !IupsXZPnnU joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,999

@448,992 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Maybe that's something more to do with you than all relationships.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk replied with this 13 years ago, 3 seconds later, 30 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,000

@448,995 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Well, go for it then. You have nothing to lose, really. Good luck.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 31 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,002

@448,999 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
I think his current relationship has potential.
@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Thanks, man. I'm going to call her tomorrow.

Anonymous C replied with this 13 years ago, 40 seconds later, 32 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,004

@448,999 (Triptych !IupsXZPnnU)
yeah this

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 49 seconds later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,006

@448,984 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Most women don't care that much about cars. Rekindling an old flame is complicated, it rarely goes well IME. You may ruin that connection you feel. You never forget the girls you date, man. You build some kind of connection with them all, some good, some bad, some meh. The good connections you have with exes are nice. And it's not very often things end like that, more often than not it's indifference or bad. But hell, you're young, you gotta make your own mistakes, learn all these things firsthand. Ah to be a teenager again. Enjoy it.

Triptych !IupsXZPnnU replied with this 13 years ago, 49 seconds later, 33 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,008

@449,002 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
He seems to be doing better now. We'll see.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 5 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,013

@449,006 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It just kind of felt a bit weird since we have been friends since 1st grade. Perhaps we have friendzoned each other but maybe our time without each other has diminished that feeling.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 9 minutes later, 49 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,021

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Why did the two of you break up??

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 51 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,026

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Lack of interest, really.

Anonymous C replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 53 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,027

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
you sound bored to me

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 54 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,029

@previous (C)
Yeah. Life may have been miserable during the middle school years, but at least it was interesting.

Anonymous C replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 56 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,030

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
get a job and stop reminiscing about MIDDLE SCHOOL loser

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 51 seconds later, 57 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,031

@449,026 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Doesn't sound there was much there then. The two of you are probably better off friends.

Ks !KansasxqvM double-posted this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 58 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #449,032

@449,029 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Wait, we're talking about middle school here? pfffftt, everything changes in high school. Go for it.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #449,033

@449,031 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Maybe. I can't really think of her in a sexual way. Not like my first GF that I could have wild sex with.
@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
I'm in college now.
@449,030 (C)
I'm working on it, man.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #449,034

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
> I'm in college now.

They grow up so fast. :')

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #449,035

@previous (Ks !KansasxqvM)
The hardest part is having to take 4-hour maths classes.

Anonymous C replied with this 13 years ago, 10 minutes later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #449,039

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
cant you just take a shorter class on more days

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 42 seconds later, 1 hour after the original post[^] [v] #449,040

@previous (C)
Nope. I would love to, but I can't.
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