Topic: girlfriend thinks I don't want to have sex with her.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk started this discussion 13 years ago #32,002

She thinks I have sex with her because I love her, and I am trying to be nice. She also believes that I think about my ex-girlfriend during the act of coitus. This neediness, and insecurity is a curious trait in someone who wants me to choke them until they pass out.

How do I make her feel more wanted? Because I certainly do like having sex with her, and I don't have anyone else on my mind.

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Anonymous B joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later[^] [v] #448,893

You can't. Chicks like that are insecure vampires, who will constantly need your reassurance, no matter how many times you tell them...

Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 30 seconds later, 5 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,894

> She thinks I have sex with her because I love her, and I am trying to be nice.
She totally fell for it! You really have her fooled, don't you?

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 5 minutes later, 10 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,895

@448,893 (B)
Well, okay. She just brings it up a lot, and it's annoying to me. It's a back and forth between telling me how great I am at sex, and how I definitely don't want to have it.

@previous (C)
No, she's actually pretty great. I do love her, but I also like having sex with her.

Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 13 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,896

> who wants me to choke them until they pass out.

May I suggest you stick to hurting her hand. Otherwise you would have to develop a necrophilia fetish.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,897

@previous (D)
I'm actually pretty sadistic, and she's pretty masochistic. I believe I've mentioned the use of razor blades that have occurred between us, for example, the choking, blood drinking, etc. It's an all around good time. No necrophilia stuff though, that makes her uncomfortable due to person experience.

Syntax joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 21 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,898

@OP

Of course the traditional solution for this is traditional...

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 10 minutes later, 31 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,899

@previous (Syntax)
I'm actually not ruling that out, I mean not right now, financial stability is a must at the very least, but some time in the future. I've never gotten along with someone so well in my life. She's totally the bread to my butter.

Syntax replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 35 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,900

@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Ah well you could let her no.
Given you did call her Lexi during a moment of passion...and I made that slip up myself ...ONCE

But yea
> financial stability is a must at the very least

So now how does this new gal add to future financial stability?

Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 39 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #448,901

@previous (Syntax)
she can go on the game

Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 hours later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,907

@OP
more choking obviously

Anonymous H joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 3 hours later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,940

yeah just choke her more can't go wrong

beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 24 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,948

Odd that headcases are so attracted to you!

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,950

@448,900 (Syntax)
She's going to college, seeking a PhD. In psychology. So, that should work in my favor. Sure, I tell her romantic things, displays of devotion, etc. But of course actions speak louder than words.

@448,907 (G)
It is what she wants.

beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 13 years ago, 37 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,951

@448,897 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
> No necrophilia stuff though, that makes her uncomfortable due to person experience.
What

Anonymous G replied with this 13 years ago, 7 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,952

@448,950 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
post pics

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,953

@448,951 (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
Good question. She was date raped, so it's a big no-no on having sex with her while she's asleep.

@previous (G)
Will try to get some to post later tonight.

beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 13 years ago, 55 seconds later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,954

@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Oh, well I won't make fun of that then. That sucks.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,955

@previous (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
Yeah, it's her sister's husband, and she has to deal with him on a regular basis, which makes me feel terrible. Every time I'm forced to interact with him it takes quite a bit of acting skills to not let my contempt show.

beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,956

@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Have you considered necrophilia play with him?

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,957

@previous (beckyderp !8ElfFaoFao)
If I knew I could get away with murdering him, and ensure that my girlfriend never suspected I did it, I would, of course.

Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,981

@448,953 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
'she's been raped so raping her is a no-no'
but choking her is cool

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,983

@previous (J)
Date-rape, and just regular rape are different things. There's no assault involved with date-rape, and there's no waking up wondering what the hell happened with regular rape. So, yeah.

Ks !KansasxqvM joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,985

I don't think I could choke a girl and maintain an erection. That is some strange shit. I know it's popular and all, but whoa. Don't you feel weird or bad while doing it? Ugh, just the thought makes me feel bad.

Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 11 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,986

@448,983 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
oh look postmortem is now a rape expert
last time i checked all rape was assault
last time i checked drugging someone doesn't constitute a date
'so, yeah'

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 50 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,987

@448,981 (J)
Whatever gets her rocks off, man. Are you going to criticize me because I want to be violently fucked by pretty shemales?

Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 27 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,988

@448,985 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
yeah it's effed up to want to be choked and it's effed up to choke and it's effed up to justify choking a person you are having sex with because they say they want it

Anonymous J double-posted this 13 years ago, 41 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,991

@448,987 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
uh no i'm not i don't give a fuck who you want to get fucked by but if you ask to be choked or hit by them during sex then i might have a problem
if you are choking someone you are fucking then i will criticize you

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #448,998

@previous (J)
The choking is what makes it exciting. That, and hair-pulling. People see me and think I'm a dominant man, but goddammit that is so wrong.

Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,003

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
i see you and i see a fat man

Anonymous M joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 52 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,005

@448,985 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It's a weird feeling. They always make sure I know I can stop them any time. It works out alright.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,009

@448,991 (J)
Lol fuck off, thanks. Date-rape is a colluqial term, maybe I should have said "battery" or something, different strokes for different folks, as long as all parties are consenting I see no issue.

Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 54 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,010

@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
why don't you get fucked, scumbag

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,011

@448,985 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
There's a lot of "are you sure about this?" On my part, but as long as I'm not doing permanent damage, or leaving visible marks (will not do "hickys" or recieve them, they are trashy) we are all good.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 42 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,012

@448,988 (J)
That sums up my feels about it.

@449,005 (M)
What is it specifically about it that is enjoyable?

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Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,014

@449,010 (J)
You're trolling, right? Your posts are literally humorous, and I'm not trying to be snarky/malovolent, you're just quite the character.

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 13 years ago, 36 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,015

@449,003 (J)
Yeah, but all you see on the internet is a fat kid. In real life, I am fat but I am also tall and large.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 31 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,016

@449,012 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Power, and the feeling you could do anything to a person. I dunno.

Anonymous M replied with this 13 years ago, 11 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,017

@449,012 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It's not so much enjoyable. More that I sometimes feel very very strange and need to be used, if that makes sense. People were very touchy when I didn't want them to be and that has left me with some issues. This feels alright because it's someone I can trust and they hold me after. I've done similar things with other people and it always made me feel disgusted afterwards.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 6 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,020

@previous (M)
It all comes from some dark place then...

I'm sorry people were wrong to you, anon. You didn't deserve that. No one does.

@449,016 (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
When you find something that feels better than making someone genuinely happy, please enlighten me. =D

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,022

@448,985 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
I probably could, but it makes me uncomfortable thinking about it. Hitting is okay, though, as long as I am not the one receiving it.

Ks !KansasxqvM replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,024

@previous (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
Hitting like beyond playful spanking? To each their own I guess. The whole violence thing is a major turn off for myself though.

Anonymous J replied with this 13 years ago, 7 seconds later, 8 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,025

@449,022 (HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY)
so you want to hit a person you are having sex with
you want to punch them in the face while penetrating them in the missionary position

HaikerensGuide !dBGi/iH4eY replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,028

@449,024 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Some people enjoy that shit. It's something that neither arouses nor disgusts me.
@previous (J)
No. But smacking a girl around while fucking her doggy style would be okay by me. Not really into it, though, but I wouldn't say no to it.

Anonymous M replied with this 13 years ago, 19 minutes later, 9 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,036

@449,020 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
It's alright, it would have been fine if I'd stood up for myself more.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 5 hours later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,058

@449,020 (Ks !KansasxqvM)
Well, it's what makes her happy. So, yeah.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) double-posted this 13 years ago, 53 seconds later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,059

@449,025 (J)
How does that not sound awesome to you?

Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 14 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,060

My gf likes choking too. I kinda like it but that's probably just because she likes it. I'm always scared of hurting her though, I make her put her hand somewhere specific and tell her to take it off when she wants me to stop, that way I don't have to worry about her wanting it to be over but not being able to speak because I'm like strangling her lol

I've asked her why she wants me to do it and she says she likes the feeling that I'm holding her life in my hands and that it's "dangerous" (there's no danger at all in reality but it feels like there is).

Anonymous O joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 22 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,061

@OP
Well, do you want to have sex with her?

Anonymous F replied with this 13 years ago, 10 minutes later, 15 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,064

@previous (O)
He wants to have sex with himself, but he will fuck someone else if he gets to hurt them too.

Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 16 hours after the original post[^] [v] #449,066

@449,061 (O)
Yes

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