squeegee joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 hours later[^][v]#430,237
Hmm. She lost me at "it's not enough to just feel bad." By the time she got to "actively working to dismantle," I was like, gone.
I'm a pretty "hand's off" kinda white person. Once it gets to the level of active participation, I'd just as soon walk away.