Topic: How do I get a girl to stop cutting herself?
Anonymous A started this discussion 13 years ago #28,571
Yea, that's right; cutting herself.
Dead !Pool..v42s joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 3 minutes later[^] [v] #421,823
you wont.
Anonymous C joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 7 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #421,826
postmordem
Anonymous D joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 10 minutes later, 18 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #421,830
fuck her ass until she stops cutting herself
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 28 minutes later, 46 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #421,832
@421,823 (Dead !Pool..v42s)
Is there anything I can do to really influence her? I try explaining that it hurts everyone around her but she's just so thick headed.
@421,826 (C)
Lolno.
@previous (D)
Very funny.
Is there anything I can do to really influence her? I try explaining that it hurts everyone around her but she's just so thick headed.
@421,826 (C)
Lolno.
@previous (D)
Very funny.
Anonymous E joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 49 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #421,833
stop giving her attention
Anonymous F joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 32 seconds later, 49 minutes after the original post[^] [v] #421,834
Umm... Wait until she is older than 16? Does that help?
Protip: Paying attention to her cutting herself and treating it like some 'great big deal' is probably the wrong approach. An "Oh, you feel like doing that sometimes too?" approach usually gets them talking -which helps because they
probably intended the 'cutting' bit as a pretext for the 'talking' bit.
Proprotip: This can backfire if she is actually suicidal.
Proproprotip: If you are a teenage boy with feelings for said girl, then you are not in a position to make rational decisions.
So there.
Protip: Paying attention to her cutting herself and treating it like some 'great big deal' is probably the wrong approach. An "Oh, you feel like doing that sometimes too?" approach usually gets them talking -which helps because they
probably intended the 'cutting' bit as a pretext for the 'talking' bit.
Proprotip: This can backfire if she is actually suicidal.
Proproprotip: If you are a teenage boy with feelings for said girl, then you are not in a position to make rational decisions.
So there.
(Edited 8 minutes later.)
Anonymous G joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,835
Anonymous D replied with this 13 years ago, 51 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,836
@421,832 (A)
cutting is a form of self punishment, yes?
so fuck her ass a bit to show that she has value and she stop cutting herself
cutting is a form of self punishment, yes?
so fuck her ass a bit to show that she has value and she stop cutting herself
Dead !Pool..v42s replied with this 13 years ago, 13 minutes later, 3 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,837
kook !!32zdfdzi+ joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 57 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,838
you cant
squeegee !first/o5zA joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 31 minutes later, 4 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,839
laymantip: find an adult, tell them.
Anonymous J joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 6 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,842
Syntax joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 6 hours later, 12 hours after the original post[^] [v] #421,867
op
You by yourself cannot. You could go out and buy a self help book that includes cutting. She needs you as a friend but other then helping her get professional help, not much you can really do for a problem like that.
You by yourself cannot. You could go out and buy a self help book that includes cutting. She needs you as a friend but other then helping her get professional help, not much you can really do for a problem like that.
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 1 day later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,201
Start cutting yourself, and tell her you won't stop unless she stops.
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 1 minute later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,205
@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Not being mean, but this post is so typically you, I cant even describe it.
Not being mean, but this post is so typically you, I cant even describe it.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,206
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk replied with this 13 years ago, 7 seconds later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,207
kook !!32zdfdzi+ replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,208
@previous (Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk)
Oh I understand that it was a joke, but it was definitely a postmortem type joke. Know what I mean?
Oh I understand that it was a joke, but it was definitely a postmortem type joke. Know what I mean?
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk replied with this 13 years ago, 11 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,209
@422,206 (A)
You could try letting her live her life, and offering support if she wantsit. It's her life, not your's.
@previous (kook !!32zdfdzi+)
Yes, yes I do.
You could try letting her live her life, and offering support if she wantsit. It's her life, not your's.
@previous (kook !!32zdfdzi+)
Yes, yes I do.
Meta !PARAdoxiHw joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,210
Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk replied with this 13 years ago, 2 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,211
@previous (Meta !PARAdoxiHw)
Once again, her life, not OP's. Life's like animal porn, it's not for everyone.
Once again, her life, not OP's. Life's like animal porn, it's not for everyone.
Anonymous A (OP) replied with this 13 years ago, 1 hour later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,221
Anonymous N joined in and replied with this 13 years ago, 4 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,225
Why would you want to do that? Self-harming is sexy as fuck.Postmortem !!FVJOHfXUk replied with this 13 years ago, 27 minutes later, 2 days after the original post[^] [v] #422,235
@422,221 (A)
I've never tried to get someone to stopself harming, thanks. So I don't know what you're babbling on about.
@previous (N)
Looks fat.
I've never tried to get someone to stopself harming, thanks. So I don't know what you're babbling on about.
@previous (N)
Looks fat.